The Break Up Break Down

[SCROLL FOR CW] -This week we're bringing awareness to Safe Space in Miami, FL: https://www.safespacefoundation.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:32): How they met-(12:30): When their relationship got more serious-(15:01): When she wanted to end the relationship-(18:21): "The Cancer Thing"-(24:47): Why they decided to get married-(30:00): When she started to get suspicious-(42:28): When she and her wife separated-(54:35): When she heard the truth from B's godmother-(01:01:00): Advice-(01:10:00): Teaser-CW: This episode discusses suicide, eating disorders, mental illness, and homophobia.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sometimes people don't want to come on the podcast!!! Shocking, right?!?! Listen to a few of the submissions where Abby reached out and either got ignored, blocked, or politely declined. Then, coworker Justin helps her come up with some theories to what they think happened! -Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Meet Stacie and Alicia!-(03:18): Episode superlatives-(08:20): Submission #1-(09:03): Submission #2-(13:48): Submission #3-(15:22): Submission #4-(16:30): Submission #5-(18:28): Submission #6-(21:23): Submission #7-(22:36): Submission #8-(25:33): Submission #9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You already know Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are already a bit messed up...so we decided to make a whole episode talking about their attachment issues! LCSW Kat Schneider joins the podcast as well to give a professional take on attachment styles and even relates them to 'The Office' characters!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:26): Episode break down/our personal attachment problems-(16:15): Conversation with LCSW Kat Schneider Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:28): This week's submission-(7:03): How they met-(10:39): Introducing her best friend-(12:01): When her boyfriend confessed their betrayal-(15:05): Why she stayed with her boyfriend-(18:27): How the relationship developed after the infidelity-(23:48): The final straw for her-(32:14): Healing after the breakup-(36:26): Advice for "starting over" after a long-term relationship-(37:52): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Holy Trinity of people pretending to be relationship experts are BACK! Lexi, Coworker Justin, and Abby got together to discuss going through your partner's phone, the nuances of cheating, and COSTCO.-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Intro-(02:04): Tinder/Dating Apps-(05:42): Should you go through your partner's phone? -(13:14): Why do cheaters deny at first?!?!-(15:46): Can your relationship survive cheating?!-(18:05): Girl #2 predictions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for the Tennessee Coalition to End domestic violence in Nashville: https://tncoalition.org/join-us/donate/-More DV support/shelters in Middle Tennessee: https://tncoalition.org/get-help/help-in-your-area/-Is it okay to go through your partner's phone? Tell us here & get featured on this week's bonus ep!: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:11): Submission for the week-(06:00): How they met-(06:45): When things started to fall apart-(08:20): When she first suspected that something was up-(10:19): When she confronted him-(14:02): The end of the relationship-(16:01): Moving on/advice-(19:15): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want more BUBD? Check out last year's holiday episodes!-"Blackout Wednesday" Break Down: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/fksBHgns9ub-Surviving the Holidays with @SoMyMomsATherapist: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/CTkekKps9ub-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Break Down-(02:09): Lexi's Lessons-(08:09): Coworker Justin's Singular Lesson-(12:40): Abby's Lessons-(16:24): Listener Lessons Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Wanna be featured on our Thanksgiving special? Tell us what relationship lesson you're thankful for: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Abby and Justin chat about this weeks episode and talk about relationships ending out of nowhere, introducing your partner to your family, and why you should never share a dog with someone lol.-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-05:01): Why don't men cry?? And sharing pets with your s/o-(05:01-07:58): Straight male friendship dynamics-(07:58-14:55): Breakups that come out of nowhere-(14:55-20:22): When you don't gel with your s/o's parents-(20:22-23:25): Rebuilding your life after ending a long-term relationship-(23:25-25:43): Hanging onto hope during a breakup Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Alliance in Charlotte, NC: https://www.safealliance.org/donations/make-a-donation/-LAST CHANCE TO GET MERCH!!!: https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Want to be featured on next week's episode?: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-07:00): Episode Intro-(07:00-8:12): How they met-(8:12-11:19): Problems that came up in the relationship-(11:19-17:05): When the relationship ended out of nowhere-(17:05-20:56): How therapy helped him heal from this relationship-(20:56-24:28): Lessons learned/advice -(24:28-24:56): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E15. They talk about how upbringing may affect your relationship, the sliding scale of compatibility, and even the new Love is Blind season!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-02:08): Intro-(02:08-08:32): Getting back together after breaking up/"marriage material"-(08:32-11:28): Breaking down their relationship dynamic-(11:28-14:52): Can you be compatible with anyone?/ Is love REALLY blind?-(14:52-16:02): Closing out the episode Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.