The Break Up Break Down

This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:28): This week's submission-(7:03): How they met-(10:39): Introducing her best friend-(12:01): When her boyfriend confessed their betrayal-(15:05): Why she stayed with her boyfriend-(18:27): How the relationship developed after the infidelity-(23:48): The final straw for her-(32:14): Healing after the breakup-(36:26): Advice for "starting over" after a long-term relationship-(37:52): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Holy Trinity of people pretending to be relationship experts are BACK! Lexi, Coworker Justin, and Abby got together to discuss going through your partner's phone, the nuances of cheating, and COSTCO.-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Intro-(02:04): Tinder/Dating Apps-(05:42): Should you go through your partner's phone? -(13:14): Why do cheaters deny at first?!?!-(15:46): Can your relationship survive cheating?!-(18:05): Girl #2 predictions Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for the Tennessee Coalition to End domestic violence in Nashville: https://tncoalition.org/join-us/donate/-More DV support/shelters in Middle Tennessee: https://tncoalition.org/get-help/help-in-your-area/-Is it okay to go through your partner's phone? Tell us here & get featured on this week's bonus ep!: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:11): Submission for the week-(06:00): How they met-(06:45): When things started to fall apart-(08:20): When she first suspected that something was up-(10:19): When she confronted him-(14:02): The end of the relationship-(16:01): Moving on/advice-(19:15): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Want more BUBD? Check out last year's holiday episodes!-"Blackout Wednesday" Break Down: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/fksBHgns9ub-Surviving the Holidays with @SoMyMomsATherapist: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/CTkekKps9ub-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Break Down-(02:09): Lexi's Lessons-(08:09): Coworker Justin's Singular Lesson-(12:40): Abby's Lessons-(16:24): Listener Lessons Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Wanna be featured on our Thanksgiving special? Tell us what relationship lesson you're thankful for: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Abby and Justin chat about this weeks episode and talk about relationships ending out of nowhere, introducing your partner to your family, and why you should never share a dog with someone lol.-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-05:01): Why don't men cry?? And sharing pets with your s/o-(05:01-07:58): Straight male friendship dynamics-(07:58-14:55): Breakups that come out of nowhere-(14:55-20:22): When you don't gel with your s/o's parents-(20:22-23:25): Rebuilding your life after ending a long-term relationship-(23:25-25:43): Hanging onto hope during a breakup Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Alliance in Charlotte, NC: https://www.safealliance.org/donations/make-a-donation/-LAST CHANCE TO GET MERCH!!!: https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Want to be featured on next week's episode?: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-07:00): Episode Intro-(07:00-8:12): How they met-(8:12-11:19): Problems that came up in the relationship-(11:19-17:05): When the relationship ended out of nowhere-(17:05-20:56): How therapy helped him heal from this relationship-(20:56-24:28): Lessons learned/advice -(24:28-24:56): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E15. They talk about how upbringing may affect your relationship, the sliding scale of compatibility, and even the new Love is Blind season!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-02:08): Intro-(02:08-08:32): Getting back together after breaking up/"marriage material"-(08:32-11:28): Breaking down their relationship dynamic-(11:28-14:52): Can you be compatible with anyone?/ Is love REALLY blind?-(14:52-16:02): Closing out the episode Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for SAFE Shelter in Savannah, GA: https://safeshelter.org/donate/-Podcast Merch! (link closes Nov. 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemu...-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbrea...-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-07:25): Episode Intro-(03:47-09:03): How they met/engagement/postponing the wedding-(09:03-12:47): Their relationship dynamic-(12:47-13:55): How postponing the wedding changed their relationship-(13:55-18:54): When their relationship came to an end-(18:54-22:34): Unplanning a wedding-(22:34)-27:53): How this relationship changed how she dates-(27:53-29:25): Reflecting on her new/old relationship + advice-(29:25-29:45): Teaser  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

PODCAST MERCH (OPEN UNTIL NOV 14): https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to react to S2E14. They talk about getting back together after breaking up, the rules of "going on a break", friends helping friends get over break ups...and....should she tell the husband about the affair?!-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-01:23): Intro-(01:24-09:52): Getting back together after breaking up/"marriage material"-(09:52-13:20): The rules of "going on a break"-(13:20-15:52): Being controlling vs. boundaries in relationships?-(15:52-17:52): Do you tell someone they're getting cheated on?-(17:52-19:58): Girl vs. Guy Friends helping each other through break ups Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for The Bridge in Houston, TX: https://tbotw.org/support-us/-PODCAST MERCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!: https://order.universitytees.com/bird_banks/99778/signups/new-Submit a reaction for this week's Bonus Episode: https://anchor.fm/abby-murphy5/message-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-06:10): Episode Intro/Merch Info-(06:10-10:18): Reading the Submission-(10:18-11:36): How they met-(11:36-15:21): When red flags popped up/the first breakup-(15:21-18:04): The relationship continues to get worse-(18:04-23:18): The truth finally comes out-(23:18-30:27): Dealing with the aftershock of the breakup-(30:27-32:07): Reflecting on the relationship-(32:07-35:07): Advice she'd give others-(35:07-35:51): Episode Teasers Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.