The Break Up Break Down

[SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS] Jacqueline Trumbull from Ari's season of 'The Bachelor' reacts to this week's episode. She recently cancelled her wedding 2 weeks before the big day, so she came on to talk about her own experience and how she related/didn't relate to S2E3's interview. -Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-07:35): Episode Break Down-(07:35-12:42): Q&A Responses-(12:42-18:34): Episode Break Down-(18:34-35:38): Jacqueline Trumbull Interview Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Someplace Safe: https://www.someplacesafe.info/donate.html-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-04:26): Episode Intro-(04:26-05:55): How they met-(05:55-09:57): When things started going downhill....-(09:57-13:40): The incident that would eventually end the relationship-(13:40-20:10): Confronting her fiancé-(20:10-22:58): The aftermath of ending the relationship-(22:58)-26:00): Dating after breaking off an engagement-(26:00-27:39): Advice for people unsure about ending things-(27:39-28:21): S2E3 Teaser clip-**all names have been censored/changed/or edited out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lily Womble from Date Brazen joins us to break down some of S2E2's key points and empower you to become "your own matchmaker" in this episode! -Learn more about Lily: https://www.datebrazen.com/about-lily-Follow Lily on IG: https://www.instagram.com/datebrazen/?hl=en-Follow Lily on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@datebrazen?lang=en-Check out the Date Brazen Podcast!: https://pod.link/1498856353-Support the Haven House in Buffalo, NY: https://cfsbny.org/support-our-work/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:45): Intro-(00:45-05:27): Reading your "hey girly" DMs-(05:27-13:37): Abby, Coworker Justin, and Lexi React to S2E2-(13:137-16:12): Meet Lily!-(16:12-18:23): How soon is too soon to jump into a new relationship?-(18:23-20:55): How do you know you're ready for a new relationship?-(20:55-24:22): Is it 'lovebombing' or a healthy relationship?-(24:22-27:21): Addressing the shady DMs our interviewee got-(22:21-31:05): What does you & your partner's sex life say about your relationship?-(31:05-32:34): Advice for our interviewee-(32:34-35:23): Advice for dating in a small town-(35:23-36:08)- Closing out Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for the Haven House in Buffalo, NY: https://cfsbny.org/support-our-work/donate/-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-03:47): Episode Intro-(03:47-05:37): How they met/fell in love-(05:37-10:40): When things started going downhill....-(10:40-13:40): How he responded to her confronting him-(13:40-17:15): Their relationship during/right after deployment-(17:15-20:24): The fight that ended the relationship-(20:24)-24:39): Things that came to light after the break up-(24:39-27:31): Things she's working through now-(27:31-28:07): S2E3 Teaser clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ -Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ -Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps:(00:00) - (01:01): Intro-(01:01) - (04:28): Discussing the season/submission-(04:28) - (05:17): How they met/the "love" story-(05:17) - (07:06): Red Flags-(07:06) - (12:43): When things took a turn for the worst-(12:43) - (15:30): Forming the plan-(15:30) - (19:12): Executing the plan-(19:12) - (23:18): How her ex fought back-(23:18) - (27:20): The unexpected aftermath-(27:20) - (33:55): Reflecting on the situation/advice/moving on Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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(SCROLL FOR TIMESTAMPS): What's it like to date multiple pro athletes and have it go TERRIBLY wrong? Abby's friend from this week's main episode hopped on a Zoom call to talk about an unfortunate break up that ended up with both of her exes on the same team (literally).FEEDBACK FORM: https://forms.gle/U9ANq5P9S58Ug2PHABREAK UP STORY FORM: https://forms.gle/b1xoCZMFLrJBcoVf6Timestamps(00:50) - Interview Begins(02:10) - How she met "Troy"(03:35) - Getting interrogated about her intentions(05:04) - His red flags(06:04) - "Was I just with him for his job?" (10:09) - "Did he put hot sauce in his condoms after?"(13:49) - "This is when I started thinking I had daddy issues."(14:24) - She meets her second pro-athlete ex (16:11) - Her ex and her other ex become teammates(17:56) - The most difficult part of the break up(s)/the aftermath(23:11) - Struggles with moving on(26:15) - The best part of a break up(27:53) - Closing announcements Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

(SCROLL FOR CW/TIMESTAMPS): This week's episode is about the destination wedding from hell. We're taking you through a break up from a couple that was together twelve years and called things off the night before the wedding....but the relationship didn't end there. Tune in to hear about both weddings, the double phone deception, and all the trauma in between!-SUBMIT A COUPLE/YOUR OWN BREAK UP STORY: https://forms.gle/8jqNpMXKMyKJeDZc8-Timestamps- (01:00) - Abby and Coworker Justin read the submission-(03:50) - Interview begins/how the couple got together-(04:50) - Red flags that showed up in the beginning of the relationship-(05:27) - "That was the point he really started to spiral"-(07:09) - "We secretly got married"-(08:34) - Why she wanted to stay in this toxic relationship-(11:27) - Their destination wedding in Mexico-(15:30) -The aftermath of the destination wedding-(16:34) - The secret he'd been keeping from her for years-(18:37) - The other woman comes into the story....-(21:43) - When things started to unravel with him, her, and the other woman-(25:59) - The final straw-(27:15) - The aftermath of the divorce-(28:52) - Dating for the first time in her adult life-(30:34) - Talking to her therapist about being "Codependent" in a relationship-(32:50) - How she met her fiancee-(34:11) - The hard part about being in a healthy relationship after a toxic one-(36:48) - "When you know you know"-(40:09) - The one thing you should ask yourself before getting married-(41:51) - Advice she'd give to people listening-(42:53) - Closing Announcements-Follow Abby On IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Follow Abby on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy?lang=en-CW: Abuse, Mental illness, Suicide, Substance Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

(SCROLL FOR CW/TIMESTAMPS) - Do you remember 'that couple' that got hitched right after high school? Everyone knows at lease one- maybe three or four if you're in the south. This episode looks into High School sweethearts with a divorce from hell. This episode covers purity culture, domestic violence, and evennnn a little witchcraft.-Submission form: https://forms.gle/hR4Q44tHb7LSH3CA6Timestamps(00:55) - Abby and Coworker Justin read the submission(06:15) - Interview begins/how they met(08:12) - The first red flags start to show/purity culture(10:10) - The main reason she decided to marry him(10:44) - More red flags start to show(15:18) - The beginning of their married life(22:34) - When she started to think about breaking things off(24:52) - She decides to leave the marriage(26:00) - The day she left her husband(33:52) - The aftermath of the divorce(35:51) - Her new relationship(37:50) - Recovering from toxic purity culture(39:25) - Going from Christianity to witchcraft(41:02) - Advice for women experiencing domestic abuse(43:36) - Warning to women who are dating/in unhealthy relationships(45:31) - Closing announcements-Notable Resources: Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/National Mental Health Hotline: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helplineSuggested Podcasts: "I'm a Survivor", "Mental Illness Happy Hour", "Mental Health Hope and Recovery",.-CW: Abuse, Self-harm, Eating disorders, Mental illness, Alcoholism Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.