The Break Up Break Down

[SCROLL FOR CW]-This week we're raising awareness for the ACT Emergency Shelter in Ft. Myers, FL: https://actabuse.com/giving/-Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233ORText START to 88788-Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-04:09): Episode Intro-(04:09-06:20): How they got together-(06:20-07:37: When the red flags started to show-(07:37-10:16): When things started to take a turn for the worst-(10:16-11:49): Why she decided to stay when things got violent-(11:49)-13:09): When the relationship finally came to an end-(13:09-14:18): Why she wanted to stay in this relationship -(14:18-17:36): The aftermath of the relationship-(17:36-20:25): When she finally identified that this was abuse-(20:25-24:17): Advice she would give to people in her situation-(24:17-25:12): Thursday Episode/Next Tuesday Tease-[CW: Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Miscarriage, Mental Health] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you need help moving on from an ex? Do you feel like you still need closure? Abby and Justin talk about why it's so hard to get over them (and tell you what to do about it). Plus they react to this week's main episode and share stories about families/friends ruining their relationships! AND there's a fun little announcement right in the beginning of the episode as well. -Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00)-(03:14): Intro/merch-(03:14)-(06:29): When are you going too far to get closure?-(06:29)-(09:12): Dating in your 20s is totally different each year-(09:12)-(12:38): Friends/families ruining relationships-(12:38)-(16:08): How to move on from an ex/why it's so hard in your adult years Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for the Jenesse Center in LA: https://jenesse.org/how-you-can-help/donate/one-time-donation-form-2/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-09:10): Episode Intro-(09:10-10:25): How they got together-(10:25-12:44): What happened after the break up?-(12:44-14:21): Her ex BF's engagement -(14:21-17:23): Why she thought the engagement ended-(17:23)-18:09): The next photos that got posted on IG-(18:09-23:35): Theorizing about what happened in her ex's relationship-(23:35-24:18): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TikTok's @the.marchie joins Abby to talk about becoming women's rights and wrongs activists following this week's episode!!! They talk about the grey areas of getting even after a break up and making dating safer as a woman. Tune in for lots of laughs and to hear about Abby's "crazy switch" theory...and why every woman should use theirs.-Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00)-(02:08): Intro-(02:08)-(04:52): Him juggling like 6 relationships lol-(04:52)-(08:45): Getting even after a break up -(08:45)-(11:37): 'Good for Her' Stories-(11:37)-(11:49): Closing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Palomar in Oklahoma City: https://palomarokc.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-03:29): Episode Intro-(03:29-05:53): How they got together-(04:37-07:30): When things started going wrong....-(07:30-08:47): Reaching out to his ex-fiancé-(08:47-14:00): Shady secrets he was keeping-(14:00)-17:09): Getting the ex's in the group chat-(17:09-23:59): The aftermath-(23:59-24:34): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's the PETTIEST thing you've done post-break up? We asked, you answered on IG and Spotify. Lexi & Coworker Justin join Abby to talk about their own petty break ups and read through some responses from the Spotify and IG questionnaire. Oh, and Abby vents about her bad date from this weekend too lol. -Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:43): Intro-(00:43-01:10): This week's main episode-(01:10-04:57): The pettiest things Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin have done post-break up-(04:57-12:30): Petty break up responses from Spotify -(12:30-18:31): Petty Break Up Responses from IG-(18:31-27:46): Abby vents about her date from this weekend lol Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for The Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-04:00): Episode Intro-(04:00-04:37): How they got together-(04:37-05:46): When things started going wrong....-(05:32-06:33): Red flags before the engagement-(07:58-11:27): Red flags before the wedding/the break up-(11:27)-13:32): The aftermath of the cancelled wedding-(13:32-15:11): Dividing finances after the cancelled wedding-(15:11-19:33): Why she thinks his feelings changed-(19:33-27:20): Looking back one everything/advice/words of wisdom/etc.-(27:20-27:46): Break Down Bonus and Next Ep. Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to talk about getting along with your significant other's families, bringing your "baggage" into a new relationship, and debate on whether or not the BF's mom posted that FB photo on purpose!!!-Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-01:02): Intro-(01:02-02:10): Breaking up with someone for someone else- romantic or red flag?-(02:10-03:38): What do you even do if someone says they're going to steal your partner?!-(03:38-09:00): THE FACEBOOK PHOTO!!!! Why would the mom post it?-(09:00-13:27): What if your parents didn't get along with your partner?-(13:27-16:15): The Hail Mary Proposal-(16:15-20:17): Bringing "baggage" into new relationships-(20:17-22:33): Questions about S2E5 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[CHECK CW] -This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas, TX: https://mosaicservices.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-02:03): Episode Intro-(02:03-03:44): Submission-(03:44-05:32): When she was blindsided-(05:32-06:33): The first red flag-(06:33-07:28): The Facebook post that proved her suspicions-(07:28)-09:35): When she decided to confront him about "Anna"-(09:35-11:36): When she finally confronted him about the photo-(11:36-12:34): Tension with the family-(12:34-13:12): When he broke up with her and then proposed -(13:12:16:41): The aftermath-(16:41-18:20): "Where are they now"-(18:20-27:02): Takeaways/Advice-(27:02-27:30): Break Down Bonus and Next Ep. Teaser-CW: Mention of Suicide/Self-Harm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Stacie and Alicia from the Trashy Divorces podcast join Abby to talk about ethical polyamory, healthy relationship dynamics, and expecting more from your love life. Check out their podcast below and tune in to hear them break down this week's break up!-Follow the podcasts!-Trashy Divorces: https://pca.st/16pD-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:25): Meet Stacie and Alicia!-(00:25-01:34): What makes a good divorce story?-(01:34-05:08): Ethical polyamory in relationships & healthy communication-(05:55-14:48): Expecting more in your relationships-(14:48-16:09): Closing remarks-(16:09-17:32): Trashy Divorces episode recs Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.