The Break Up Break Down

This week we're raising awareness for Marjaree Mason Center in Fresno, Ca: https://mmcenter.org/partner-with-us/donate-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:44): How they met/Establishing the relationship-(15:52): Why they both kept the affair going-(16:20): How it ended-(17:42): When his ex-wife called her with major information-(20:18): When he tried to reignite the relationship-(24:28): Reflecting on how it affected her/advice-(37:40): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We'll definitely have a therapist on to talk about this subject at some point, but for now, here's an in-depth look on two personal experiences. "Daddy issues", parental wounds, attachment issues, abandonment issues...whatever you feel comfortable calling them...can be absolutely devastating when trying to get into a healthy relationship. BFF Kennedy joins Abby on the podcast to talk about each other's emotional wounds from childhood and what they've learned from their own healing experiences. -Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Palomar in Oklahoma City, OK: https://palomarokc.org/donate/-Check out Besitos Beauty: https://besitosbeauty.com/-Interested in coming to the Break Up Break Down Brunch?: https://forms.gle/dqhvvAEJmKWt4nS3A-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:35 ): The beginning of the relationship-(04:23): When the other relationship came to light-(10:54): What kept her in the relationship-(15:18): How her husband passed away-(20:15): How she discovered the affair-(25:08): How she decided to pull life support-(30:43): The aftermath of his passing/discovering the affair-(35:18): How she turned her pain into "power"-(41:48): Advice she has for people rebuilding their self-esteem-(45:29): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Was he drawing a boundary...or going to extremes to avoid his ex hook up? ExCoworker Justin joins the pod to recap and rehash this week's main episode! We'll talk about post-relationship triggers, avoiding your exes at any cost, and niche dating deal breakers....-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Family Rescue in Chicago, IL: https://familyrescueinc.org/donate/-Interest in coming to the Break Up Break Down Brunch?: https://forms.gle/dqhvvAEJmKWt4nS3A-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:37 ): How they met-(04:23): When the other relationship came to light-(07:30): How his GF reacted-(09:10): When he called her and broke things off bigggg time....-(12:55): The aftermath-(15:53): Reflecting on the relationship-(23:00): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CW]-It can be so easy to look back on a relationship with hindsight bias. How many times have we all said, "Oh I should have done this" or "said this" or "done this differently"? The reality is, we're only in control of what we bring to the relationship and we're certainly not at fault for the horrible things a toxic ex has done. Let's unpack some of the hardest parts of this week's episode, just you and me!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Interest in coming to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL?: https://forms.gle/dqhvvAEJmKWt4nS3A- Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps-(00:00): Intro-(01:38): Break up withdrawals-(07:22): His manipulative tactics-(11:47): Grappling with his suicide-(14:23): Her sexual assault-(17:05): Outtro-[CW: Sexual Assault, Suicide, Intimate Partner Violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CW]-This week we're bringing awareness to Mosaic Family Services in Dallas, TX: https://mosaicservices.org/donate/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:02): How they met-(08:34): When the red flags started to show-(14:47): When he went to jail for the second time-(19:30): When his mom revealed what he was lying about-(24:55): When she gave him a second chance-(28:21): The aftermath of the break up-(42:27): Reflecting on the relationship-(55:20): Teaser-[CW: Sexual Assault, Suicide, Domestic Violence, Child Molestation, Intimate Partner Violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do they REALLY like me...or am I being love bombed? How do I identify it in my relationship? Is an age-gap relationship a bad idea? Like...how many years a part is too much?? We're breaking down this week's episode and covering all the hot topics in this quick break down bonus with Lexi. -Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Lily Womble (The Date Brazen Podcast) Bonus Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/777HQvFseDMXe0YKF9dxqt?si=31iSSSg1SPSHfyV8rMoWUw-Are Age Gaps Actually Toxic? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3zC7YCVR28-5 Signs of Love bombinghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=348s- Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CW]-This week we're raising awareness for Respond in Boston, MA: https://www.respondinc.org/donate/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:06 ): How they met-(08:41): How her first relationship impacted her first marriage-(10:46): When she finally got together with her first ex husband-(16:47): When she decided she wanted her first divorce-(25:09): When she started a relationship with husband #2-(30:35): Her second divorce-(32:43): Was there ever a throuple??-(41:26): How she grew and moved past the relationships-(53:25): Teaser-[CW: Sexual Assault, Intimate Partner Violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are we so quick to prioritize our partners? This week's bonus content breaks down this week's episode with Abby, Lexi, and Justin. They talk about the importance of making your partner earn your trust in the beginning and throughout the relationship. They'll also touch on recognizing domestic violence in the workplace from personal experience.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Think your coworker/friend is in a dangerous relationship? Start here: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/talking-to-your-coworker/-Dr. Margaret Rutherford Bonus Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1pFwVmNGSDEiihTfhuXNEp?si=uVS-xTMGRkOvyg0rYp5sYQ- Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.