The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jan 23, 2024 • 36min
When the mistresses exposed the affairs in the comments section.... - S5E4
[SCROLL FOR CW] She says her husband had an affair with multiple women while she was pregnant...and the mistresses came forward In the comments section of one of her TikTok videos.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:57): How they met-(06:35): History of infidelity/working through it-(11:11): Losing the baby + affect on the relationship-(17:50): Discovering the first affair-(23:46): How social media uncovered more affairs-(27:58): Healing from the trauma-(35:16): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: suicide, loss of a child] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 18, 2024 • 14min
Break Down Bonus: The signs you're getting love bombed w/ ExCoworker Justin
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-5 Signs you're getting love bombed w/ Kati Morton: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s-How to spot a love bomber w/ Matthew Hussey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlXoI_XJGAg&t=151s-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 16, 2024 • 48min
When he wrote their break up song while they were still together.... - S5E3
Her indie musician bf wrote and performed a song about them breaking up for her...while they were still together! Would you stay with someone who was already planning the end of the relationship?!-This week we're raising awareness for Abuse Counseling & Treatment, Inc.: https://actabuse.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:28): How they met-(14:19): The wrong parts of the relationship-(17:31): The start of the relationship-(23:33): Their continued relationship after the break up-(37:17): Being afraid of rejection in your relationship-(41:52): The good things about the break up/lessons learned-(44:28): Figuring out how to escape her ex-(48:08): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 11, 2024 • 23min
Break Down Bonus: Getting strung along in your relationship? You're not alone. w/ Lexi
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 9, 2024 • 52min
When she wouldn't let him break up w/ her.... - S5E2
You know that friend that won't break up with their toxic partner? Admit it we all have one...and this week...we're talking to one of my coworkers who says he stayed because his ex wouldn't let him dump her....-This week we're raising awareness for My Sister's House in Charleston: https://www.mysistershouse.org/about-us-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:30): How they met-(13:36): The breaking point for him-(20:34): When he got back together with her-(23:09): The final break up-(32:03): The overlap time of his two relationships-(43:36): How men/women view commitment-(51:31): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 4, 2024 • 23min
Break Down Bonus: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jan 2, 2024 • 1h 20min
When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5E1
We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!-This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:41): How they met-(13:51): The first major problem in their relationship-(20:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship-(28:56): Possible Grooming Behavior-(35:01): Discovering the affair-(47:11): Confronting her mother and husband-(57:30): The aftermath of the conflict-(01:05:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings-(01:09:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources-(01:13:39): Reflecting/advice-(01:19:32): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 28, 2023 • 30min
Break Down Bonus: Breaking down our attachment styles w/ LCSW Kat Schneider (Replay)
This episode originally aired on Dec. 8th, 2022-You already know Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are already a bit messed up...so we decided to make a whole episode talking about their attachment issues! LCSW Kat Schneider joins the podcast as well to give a professional take on attachment styles and even relates them to 'The Office' characters!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:26): Episode break down/our personal attachment problems-(16:15): Conversation with LCSW Kat Schneider Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 26, 2023 • 38min
When her best friend had feelings for her boyfriend.... - Replay
This reply episode originally aired on Dec. 6th, 2022-This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:28): This week's submission-(7:03): How they met-(10:39): Introducing her best friend-(12:01): When her boyfriend confessed their betrayal-(15:05): Why she stayed with her boyfriend-(18:27): How the relationship developed after the infidelity-(23:48): The final straw for her-(32:14): Healing after the breakup-(36:26): Advice for "starting over" after a long-term relationship-(37:52): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 21, 2023 • 19min
When the break ups were yet to be solved.... - Season 4 Finale Pt. 2
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(01:00): Submission #1-(02:21): Submission #2-(04:23): Submission #3-(06:35): Submission #4-(08:44): Submission #5-(10:12): Submission #6-(11:27): Submission #7-(13:32): Submission #8-(14:39): Submission #9-(16:08): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
