

The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Feb 27, 2024 • 41min
When she had an affair with their boss.... - S3Replay
This week we're bringing awareness to My Sister's House in Charleston, SC: https://www.mysistershouse.org/give-This episode originally aired on January 31, 2023-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:26): Episode intro/her first marriage-(06:57): Introducing Anthony (her second husband)-(10:17): Introducing the The Boss (the third husband)-(11:27): The Affair-(13:29): Her second divorce-(17:01): When her 3rd marriage/relationship started going downhill -(20:46): When she started to realize this marriage was unhealthy-(25:32): Reconnecting with Anthony-(33:23): When she finally decided to leave The Boss-(34:29): Reflecting on these relationships-(40:51): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 22, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Getting over the person you thought you'd marry w/ ExCoworker Justin
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 20, 2024 • 50min
When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5E8
On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling.-This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:01): How they met-(06:56): The start of their major problems-(20:58): When calls off their engagement-(28:29): Attending her wedding alone-(33:31): The calls she got from him after their engagement ended-(39:40): Reflecting/advice-(49:27): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 15, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/-What proof do you need for a protective order?:https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/law-and-life/what-proof-do-you-need-to-get-a-restraining-order/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 13, 2024 • 29min
When a secret IG account exposed his past.... - S5E7
Imagine losing your virginity to your new boo and finding out he has an arrest record the next day. Way to burst the post-coital bliss. Do you look past your new man's history or stick by him and hope he's changed? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Journey in Cleveland, OH: https://www.journeyneo.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:27): How they met-(08:10): When she started to learn about his past-(11:20): When their relationship started to deteriorate-(17:02): The secret IG account that explained what happened with his ex-(20:28): Reflecting on the experience/advice-(28:29): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 8, 2024 • 42min
Break Down Bonus: Learning to trust again after Intimate Partner Violence w/ Katherine Ripley & Dr. Margaret Rutherford
[SCROLL FOR CW]-Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist-Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/-Dr. Margaret Rutherford's Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 6, 2024 • 52min
When she said he faked his cancer diagnosis.... - S5E6
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-She thought she had finally left her ex for good...when he called her up and told her about a devastating diagnosis. She took him in until she started suspecting that he had spun a web of lies to keep her in the relationship.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-When she said her wife lied about having cancer...S3E1: https://open.spotify.com/episode/39DterRk42lMoxagOLiq7M?si=rSyVt3EpSBGKJJhcTd0LKg-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:41): How they met-(06:06): Problems in the relationship-(24:20): When he started claiming he had cancer-(27:59): When she started doubting the 'diagnoses'-(35:47): The aftermath of their break up-(40:44): Reflecting on the relationship-(45:14): Relationships after her ex-(51:32): Advice-(52:13): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Graphic Intimate partner violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feb 1, 2024 • 24min
Break Down Bonus Episode: Is love enough to push past cultural differences? w/ CoWorker Jackson
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jan 30, 2024 • 41min
When he was falsely accused of a crime.... - S5E5
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:47): How they met-(14:31): The false accusations-(21:34): When he was finally cleared-(28:11): When fessed up to his new relationship-(35:19): Reflecting/what she learned-(40:30): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: rape, loss of parent] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jan 25, 2024 • 18min
Break Down Bonus: The connection between narcissism and serial cheating
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.


