The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nov 7, 2023 • 40min
When she found a love letter from his other GF.... - S4E18
She found out her boyfriend was getting engaged from a LOVE LETTER...we'll find out about his other relationship(s) when we break down this weeks break up.-This week we're raising awareness for SafeHouse in Denver: https://safehouse-denver.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:19): How they met-(06:39): When she felt like something was wrong....-(10:00): When she starts looking for proof of infidelity-(13:53): The Love Letter-(18:04): What the other GF found out-(22:00): Reflecting on his infidelity-(26:17): How she decided to leave her relationship-(29:31): Her novel, The Traitor Within-(39:50): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 2, 2023 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: The Psychology Behind Being The "Side-Piece"
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-The OPENHOUSE Podcast: https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/podcast/anxious-attachment-style-and-dating-knztz-How are Narcissists Created?: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2TBOvP4mu8Zkm4BX9MTXnA?si=oEgMnnCaQsSNFR6FabGLTg-Attachment Styles: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1S2QkIh7l06vW6KJMaA2ZI?si=GosbucJFS0KBI8ibNXpbFA-Self-Esteem/Self-Worth/Self-Trust: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1pFwVmNGSDEiihTfhuXNEp?si=jwxVgsqKTCWN-np3Nr5Y_Q-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 31, 2023 • 29min
When she sent proof of the affair to his wife.... - S4E17
This week we're raising awareness for DC Safe: https://www.dcsafe.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:14): How they met-(05:08): How she felt about him being married-(08:13): Why the relationship as on/off-(13:08): When she ended the relationship-(18:35): The aftermath-(22:32): Healing and moving on-(27:49): Advice for other people who are "the other woman"-(28:21): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 26, 2023 • 27min
Break Down Bonus: Deciding on 'the one' and rockbottom break ups w/ ExCoworker Justin
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Oct 24, 2023 • 35min
When he cancelled the wedding right after her bachelorette party.... - S4E16
This week we're raising awareness for Jessie's Place in Birmingham, AL: https://jimmiehalemission.com/donate/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:08): How they met-(08:16): The cracks in the relationship-(12:29): When he broke things off-(17:22): How people reacted-(19:01): The aftermath-(24:00): When he tried to get her back-(26:32): Her healing process-(29:24): How her dating life is now-(33:09): Advice-(34:56): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 19, 2023 • 19min
Break Down Bonus: How is a narcissist created? (S4E15 reaction) w/ Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-More from Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW: https://www.jessicaannepressler.com/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 17, 2023 • 45min
When he introduced her to the woman he'd leave her for.... - S4E15
This week we're raising awareness for Choices in Columbus, OH: https://lssnetworkofhope.org/donate/?dr=LSS%20CHOICES%20for%20Victims%20of%20Domestic%20Violence-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:49): How they met-(06:14): When they moved in together-(08:14): When he introduces her to the woman he'd leave her for-(11:45): When things started to go wrong-(17:29): When they had their child-(20:02): When she saw signs of an affair-(26:52): The aftermath after he left her-(29:29): Where everyone is at now-(37:15): Reflecting/what she learned-(44:29): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 12, 2023 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Why would they cheat if they don't want to break up?!?!
Check out more from Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 10, 2023 • 32min
When she found his wedding website.... - S4E14
This week we're raising awareness for Hope Inc in Clarksburg, WV: https://hopeincwv.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:21): How they met-(10:01): When she found out about the engagement-(14:58): What happened when she confronted him-(19:41): Is the wedding still on?-(24:36): Reflecting on the relationships-(27:39): Advice/what she's learned-(32:10): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 5, 2023 • 20min
Break Down Bonus: A conversation on domestic violence w/ LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas (Replay)
[SCROLL FOR CW]: -We're diving deeper into the conversation surrounding domestic violence and verbal abuse on today's break down. -LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas came on to react to this week's main episode and help us understand why victims choose to stay in abusive relationships and how we can help our friends and family escape a dangerous situation! - Connect with Amethyst !-Website: https://www.inclusivetherapyclub.com/ -. IG: https://www.instagram.com/inclusivetherapyclub/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8- Timestamps: - (00:00-01:32): Episode intro/general reactions - (01:32-03:36): Defining verbal abuse - (03:36-04:34): The need for control in abusive relationships - (04:34-06:29): Defining what abuse looks like in conflict - (06:29-08:12): Reasons people choose to stay in abusive relationships - (08:12-15:12): How to encourage someone to leave an abusive relationship - (15:12-17:12): Common things people need to heal from after an abusive relationship - (17:12-19:60): Closing out/where to follow Inclusive Therapy Club - CW: Domestic violence: physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
