The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Sep 26, 2023 • 41min
When the divorce came out of nowhere.... - S4E13
This week we're raising awareness for Favor House of NW Florida: https://www.favorhouse.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:51): How they met/the early relationship-(09:11): Their engagement/early marriage-(12:37): When the cracks in their relationship started to show-(17:25): The start of the divorce-(25:44): Why the divorce was so shocking-(29:33): Her ex's new relationship-(35:00): Reflecting on the relationship/advice-(40:18): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 21, 2023 • 32min
Break Down Bonus: What you should know about self-defense w/ Safe4Life
SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator-Check out more from Safe4Life: https://safe4life.ca/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-[CW: kidnapping, sexual assault, intimate partner violence] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 19, 2023 • 1h 2min
When she said her ex kidnapped her.... - S4E12
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-This week we're raising awareness for Women in Transition in Philly: https://helpwomen.org/donate-YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:47): How they met-(11:32): When she started to learn about his past-(19:56): When she started to see his true colors-(28:10): When she started to ask questions-(32:555): When she broke up with him-(38:10): The suspicious "closure" dinner-(44:28): Figuring out how to escape her ex-(51:10): The aftermath/the court cases-(57:47): Reflecting/what she learned-(01:01:00): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, kidnapping, suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 14, 2023 • 31min
Break Down Bonus: The Struggles being LGBTQ+ in the Christian Community w/ The Christian Closet
BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator-Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 12, 2023 • 38min
When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4E11
This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55-YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:52): How they met-(06:58): The first break up-(09:01): When they got back together-(12:53): The second break up-(16:37): Their secret engagement-(21:24): The end of their relationship-(27:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship-(31:46): Reflecting on the relationship-(34:05): Advice-(37:57): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 7, 2023 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships....(replay)
[CHECK CW] - Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story. We discuss pretending to be something you're not in relationships, keeping secrets, cheating, and gender roles in relationships. You know...casual, light topics of conversation!!! - Support the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost - Tasheka Young (our former coworker) / Learn more: https://www.actionnewsjax.com/news/local/memorial-services-announced-tasheka-tysheeks-young/3HUFHCA6VNBTDBHWBPHBLGDZ7I/ CashApp: $OliviaSYoung - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: (00:00-00:59): Intro - (01:00-02:11): Tasheka Young - (02:22-04:38): Breaking down the episode's main points - (04:38-07:24): When your partner lies to you/keeps secrets - (07:24-10:51): Navigating traditional gender roles in relationships - (10:51-12:05): How much did the interviewee know about his involvement with drugs? - (12:05-15:24): What do you do if your friends/family don't approve of your partner? - (15:24-17:24): Trust issues/getting blindsided in a relationship/teasing next week's episodes. - CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 5, 2023 • 35min
When she was driving the getaway car.... - S2E1 (replay)
[This episode originally aired during Season 2)-This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ -Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ -Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps:(00:00) - (01:01): Intro-(01:01) - (04:28): Discussing the season/submission-(04:28) - (05:17): How they met/the "love" story-(05:17) - (07:06): Red Flags-(07:06) - (12:43): When things took a turn for the worst-(12:43) - (15:30): Forming the plan-(15:30) - (19:12): Executing the plan-(19:12) - (23:18): How her ex fought back-(23:18) - (27:20): The unexpected aftermath-(27:20) - (33:55): Reflecting on the situation/advice/moving on Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 31, 2023 • 15min
Break Down Bonus: How your partner's self-esteem impacts your relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin
Come to the Break Up Break Down Brunch in ATL: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Check out this episode on self-esteem: https://traffic.megaphone.fm/PION6516502231.mp3?updated=1690554641-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 29, 2023 • 46min
When she found his mistress' house online.... - S4E10
This week we're raising awareness for Safe Horizon in Manhattan: https://www.safehorizon.org/mysafehorizon/-YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator /Use promo code HOTGOSS10 for 10% off! (This promo code expires 08/30)-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:02): How they met/the early relationship-(07:25): The first signs of infidelity-(15:16): How he handles the first confrontation-(23:39): The aftermath of the second bout of infidelity-(27:45): Reflecting on the mistress' part in it-(30:18): Reflecting on her ex's part in it-(35:17): Reflecting on why she was in this relationship-(39:24): How TikTok impacted her break up-(44:11): Advice she'd give after this experience-(45:34): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 24, 2023 • 23min
Break Down Bonus: How your high school relationship impacts your future w/ Amy from New Perspectives
SEPTEMBER 23RD BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator-Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/-This week's main episode also touched on SA. Hear Amy and I's conversation on codependency and SA here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KjJ9fJRkAwYE0Z4PMn0af?si=ILYLEbUyQRWN60z407amBQ-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
