The Break Up Break Down

Are they ever really "just a friend" if your gut is screaming that they're NOT?! This week's episode is the classic tale of 'you vs. the one they tell you not to worry about' where 'the one they tell you not to worry about' is getting married to your ex....-This week we're raising awareness for The Spring in Tampa, FL: https://thespring.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:48): How they met-(05:21): When the red flags started to show-(11:52): When the friendship started to seem like it was more-(18:06): The final straw in the relationship-(24:43): What she found out after the relationship ended-(27:17): How her life has changed post-break up-(33:32): What she's learned about relationships from it-(41:02): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[Scroll for Content Warnings]-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Related Episodes-How to Identify Intimate Partner Violence: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0n6r9f7ciRVuvOPGNvUwFk?si=tJ2z_Zw1SNy9ih83exi-vQ-Learning Not to Blame Yourself for their Mistakes: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0kA8CB4VwnwpuDDCfQqbgD?si=ujeuC_lZQ1O4-_rh5SuHVA-The Relationship Between Codependency and Sexual Assault: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KjJ9fJRkAwYE0Z4PMn0af?si=pweXSoGrSfmJClmSsF34Yw-National Help Hotline 1-800-662-4357 (Confidential free help, from public health agencies, to find substance use treatment and information)-National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673-How to recognize alcohol addiction: https://www.healthline.com/health/alcohol-addiction-recognizing-symptoms-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-[CW: alcoholism, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, suicide] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-This week we're raising awareness for Golden House in Green Bay, WI: https://www.goldenhousegb.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:16): How they met-(05:18): The first red flags-(10:43): Dealing with his alcoholism-(16:16): The first sign of cheating-(25:55): When she finally confronted him [check CW]-(30:00): The aftermath of the SA -(35:00): How this relationship impacted her future-(37:30): Reflecting/what she learned-(40:57): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, alcoholism, sexual assault] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-KeKe Palmer's episode referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AYq-mbzgsA-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Partnership in Chattanooga, TN: https://www.partnershipfca.com/donate-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:06): How they met-(10:13): When she discovered the infidelity-(14:31): Her last straw-(18:39): The divorce-(21:20): Healing from the break up-(27:45): Moving on-(30:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow reacts to S2E4 and let's us in on what people leaving the LDS church struggle with after leaving. She talks about rules for dating, complications when one spouse wants to leave the church, divorce, and sexuality. Check out more from her at www.JennyMorrow.com.-This is a replay episode that originally aired on August 25th, 2022-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:14): Episode Break Down-(00:14-02:22): Meet Jenny!-(02:22-05:08): Dating as a young Mormon-(05:08-06:19): The Mormon temple-(06:19-07:40): Dealing with religious shame-(07:40-10:32): Sexuality in the church-(10:32-12:17): Divorce in Mormonism-(12:17-13:17): What if one spouse wants to leave the church?-(13:17-14:24): Sexism in the church-(14:24-16:15): What do ex-Mormons struggle with after leaving?-(16:15-18:03): Advice for "finding yourself" after a big life change-(18:03-18:29): Follow Jenny!-CW: Suicide, Sexism Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode originally aired on August 23rd, 2022- new episodes return Nov 28! -This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-03:55): Episode Intro-(03:55-06:30): How they met-(06:30-11:44): How they got together/dating in Mormon culture-(11:44-15:37): "Same-sex attraction" in the church-(15:37-21:44): Their 6-year-long marriage-(21:44)-24:44): The start of their divorce-(24:44-27:54): After the divorce-(29:59-28:59): Reconnecting with her ex-BF-(31:23-37:11): Living in a Mormon community and being Agnostic-(37:11:38:26): BYU dating myths(?!?!) -(38:26-38:56): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Accidentally?! This week we're chatting with someone who says her partner asked her for a domestic partnership, but she was ready to break up. So how did she end up in a legally binding agreement that led her to getting a divorce lawyer!?-This week we're raising awareness for Family safety center in tulsa https://fsctulsa.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:36): How they met-(07:51): First signs of problems in the relationship -(13:23): When she wanted to break up with her partner-(16:03): Why her her gf wanted a domestic partnership-(21:34): The actual break up-(26:24): The aftermath of the break up -(37:23): Working through things in therapy-(45:15): Dating again/moving on-(51:37): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: emotional abuse] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.