The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Oct 26, 2023 • 27min
Break Down Bonus: Deciding on 'the one' and rockbottom break ups w/ ExCoworker Justin
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Oct 24, 2023 • 35min
When he cancelled the wedding right after her bachelorette party.... - S4E16
This week we're raising awareness for Jessie's Place in Birmingham, AL: https://jimmiehalemission.com/donate/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:08): How they met-(08:16): The cracks in the relationship-(12:29): When he broke things off-(17:22): How people reacted-(19:01): The aftermath-(24:00): When he tried to get her back-(26:32): Her healing process-(29:24): How her dating life is now-(33:09): Advice-(34:56): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 19, 2023 • 19min
Break Down Bonus: How is a narcissist created? (S4E15 reaction) w/ Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-More from Jessica Anne Pressler, LCSW: https://www.jessicaannepressler.com/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 17, 2023 • 45min
When he introduced her to the woman he'd leave her for.... - S4E15
This week we're raising awareness for Choices in Columbus, OH: https://lssnetworkofhope.org/donate/?dr=LSS%20CHOICES%20for%20Victims%20of%20Domestic%20Violence-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:49): How they met-(06:14): When they moved in together-(08:14): When he introduces her to the woman he'd leave her for-(11:45): When things started to go wrong-(17:29): When they had their child-(20:02): When she saw signs of an affair-(26:52): The aftermath after he left her-(29:29): Where everyone is at now-(37:15): Reflecting/what she learned-(44:29): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 12, 2023 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Why would they cheat if they don't want to break up?!?!
Check out more from Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 10, 2023 • 32min
When she found his wedding website.... - S4E14
This week we're raising awareness for Hope Inc in Clarksburg, WV: https://hopeincwv.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:21): How they met-(10:01): When she found out about the engagement-(14:58): What happened when she confronted him-(19:41): Is the wedding still on?-(24:36): Reflecting on the relationships-(27:39): Advice/what she's learned-(32:10): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 5, 2023 • 20min
Break Down Bonus: A conversation on domestic violence w/ LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas (Replay)
[SCROLL FOR CW]: -We're diving deeper into the conversation surrounding domestic violence and verbal abuse on today's break down. -LCSW Amethyst St. Thomas came on to react to this week's main episode and help us understand why victims choose to stay in abusive relationships and how we can help our friends and family escape a dangerous situation! - Connect with Amethyst !-Website: https://www.inclusivetherapyclub.com/ -. IG: https://www.instagram.com/inclusivetherapyclub/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8- Timestamps: - (00:00-01:32): Episode intro/general reactions - (01:32-03:36): Defining verbal abuse - (03:36-04:34): The need for control in abusive relationships - (04:34-06:29): Defining what abuse looks like in conflict - (06:29-08:12): Reasons people choose to stay in abusive relationships - (08:12-15:12): How to encourage someone to leave an abusive relationship - (15:12-17:12): Common things people need to heal from after an abusive relationship - (17:12-19:60): Closing out/where to follow Inclusive Therapy Club - CW: Domestic violence: physical abuse, verbal abuse, emotional abuse. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 3, 2023 • 26min
When she didn't know she was in an abusive relationship.... - Replay
[SCROLL FOR CW]-This episode originally aired in October 2022-Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233ORText START to 88788-Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/ Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-04:09): Episode Intro-(04:53): How they got together-(06:20): When the red flags started to show-(07:37): When things started to take a turn for the worst-(10:16): Why she decided to stay when things got violent-(11:49): When the relationship finally came to an end-(13:09): Why she wanted to stay in this relationship -(14:18): The aftermath of the relationship-(17:36): When she finally identified that this was abuse-(20:25): Advice she would give to people in her situation-(25:02): Thursday Episode-[CW: Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence/Intimate Partner Violence, Miscarriage, Mental Health] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 28, 2023 • 24min
When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(01:05): Submission #1-(03:32): Submission #2-(05:29): Submission #3-(07:24): Submission #4-(12:49): Submission #5-(14:23): Submission #6-(15:57): Submission #7-(17:10): Submission #8-(20:01): Submission #9-(22:58): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 28, 2023 • 26min
Break Down Bonus: Attachment styles + conflict in healthy relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
