The Break Up Break Down

This week we're bringing awareness to Crisis Center North in Pittsburgh: https://www.crisiscenternorth.org/-This episode originally aired on March 14th, 2023-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:00): How they met-(07:43: How her best friend became her doula-(10:50): When the affair began-(14:08): When she caught them-(18:49): Why she decided to stay with him at first-(21:08): When she was finally done with her marriage-(23:43): How she "broke up" with her best friend-(28:12): Things that helped her through her divorce-(31:51): How her past relationships shaped her future ones-(33:45): How purity culture impacted her marriage-(36:48): Advice she'd give to people wanting to leave their marriage-(38:47): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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You never think things can get worse AFTER the break up, but when you receive a strange message from a man who says your ex is doing some shady stuff on Reddit with your pics....it's safe to say things are about to go down when we break down this week's break up.-Live Podcast Tickets!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Wichita Family Crisis Center: https://wichitafamilycrisiscenter.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/wichitafamilycrisiscenter/donation.jsp-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:28): How they met-(08:57): When the red flags started to show-(12:58): When things started to deteriorate-(16:01): The shady reddit activity-(24:48): Recovering from the relationship/reflecting-(31:23): Advice-(30:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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If you've ever wanted to slide into the DMs of the hot guy in THAT band...this episode is for you. Turns out hooking up with the mysterious musician isn't all it's cracked up to be, but there's a lot you can learn from this week's guest's experience.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Partnership Against Domestic Violence in ATL: https://padv.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:24): How they met-(11:12): When they started investigating...-(15:22): When she started to see his true colors-(21:51): Reflecting on the situationship-(24:05): What she learned/advice-(24:45): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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You know, it's one thing to cheat. It's a whole other thing to cheat with your CHILD. This week's guest says she is getting ready to serve her husband divorce papers....and DNA test results.-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Women Against Abuse in Philly: https://www.womenagainstabuse.org/services-Suicide Prevention Hotline Dial 988-Suicide Prevention: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:54): How they met-(07:08): When the red flags started to show-(10:03): When she got the DNA test results-(15:04): Why would her husband/daughter sleep together?-(19:41): Looking toward the future-(24:09): Advice to those struggling-(25:14): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you having a hard time trusting your new partner after your last relationship? Your ex may have damaged your ability to trust again, but you don't have to live in fear forever. Dr. Margaret Rutherford joins Abby to talk about what you can to have a healthy relationship with your new partner. -Check out Dr. Margaret Rutherford's:-Website: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/-Podcast: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/selfwork/-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-[CW: Abuse] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You barely check your inbox, but the one time you check it, your BF's other girlfriend comes clean in an email! Suddenly everything you thought you knew about the last year of your relationship feels like a lie....so we got the details when we broke down this weeks break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Safe Place in Sarasota, FL: https://www.sparcc.net/donate/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:20): How they met-(06:39): The red flags she ignored-(09:45): When she got the email from 'the other woman'-(17:27): When she confronted him-(22:39): Reflecting on the relationship-(30:34): Advice -(32:11): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CW] -Have you ever felt manipulated by your partner? Did you try to break up with them, but they kept luring you back in? Abby brings on LMSW Vernique Esther to talk about how to recognize manipulation, set boundaries, and leave if necessary. -Check out Vernique Esther's:-Website: https://www.verniqueesther.com/-The Wholeness Academy: https://www.thewholenessacademy.com/-Books: https://www.verniqueesther.com/shop-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Introducing Vernique-(00:56): How do I know I'm getting manipulated?-(04:06): Why do people manipulate?-(07:07): Why do I feel bad for setting up boundaries?-(09:18): How do I handle religious manipulation?-(12:10): What if my partner threatens me w/ self-harm to keep us from breaking up?-(14:04): How do I leave a manipulative relationship?-(15:00): Can you ever work through manipulation?-(18:24): How to set boundaries in a relationship with someone who has manipulative tendencies?-(20:55): Why do I want to go back to someone who manipulated me?-(23:08): How do I convince myself I deserve better?-[CW: This episode briefly discusses: self-harm/suicide, domestic violence, religious trauma] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.