The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nov 30, 2023 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: When the person you thought you'd spend forever with cheats
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-KeKe Palmer's episode referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AYq-mbzgsA-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 28, 2023 • 31min
When she found cheating evidence on their honeymoon.... - S4E20
This week we're raising awareness for Partnership in Chattanooga, TN: https://www.partnershipfca.com/donate-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:06): How they met-(10:13): When she discovered the infidelity-(14:31): Her last straw-(18:39): The divorce-(21:20): Healing from the break up-(27:45): Moving on-(30:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 23, 2023 • 18min
Break Down Bonus: Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow talks relationships & sexuality in the church (replay)
[SCROLL FOR CW] - Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow reacts to S2E4 and let's us in on what people leaving the LDS church struggle with after leaving. She talks about rules for dating, complications when one spouse wants to leave the church, divorce, and sexuality. Check out more from her at www.JennyMorrow.com.-This is a replay episode that originally aired on August 25th, 2022-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:14): Episode Break Down-(00:14-02:22): Meet Jenny!-(02:22-05:08): Dating as a young Mormon-(05:08-06:19): The Mormon temple-(06:19-07:40): Dealing with religious shame-(07:40-10:32): Sexuality in the church-(10:32-12:17): Divorce in Mormonism-(12:17-13:17): What if one spouse wants to leave the church?-(13:17-14:24): Sexism in the church-(14:24-16:15): What do ex-Mormons struggle with after leaving?-(16:15-18:03): Advice for "finding yourself" after a big life change-(18:03-18:29): Follow Jenny!-CW: Suicide, Sexism Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 21, 2023 • 39min
When she married her high school sweetheart(s).... - Replay
This episode originally aired on August 23rd, 2022- new episodes return Nov 28! -This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-03:55): Episode Intro-(03:55-06:30): How they met-(06:30-11:44): How they got together/dating in Mormon culture-(11:44-15:37): "Same-sex attraction" in the church-(15:37-21:44): Their 6-year-long marriage-(21:44)-24:44): The start of their divorce-(24:44-27:54): After the divorce-(29:59-28:59): Reconnecting with her ex-BF-(31:23-37:11): Living in a Mormon community and being Agnostic-(37:11:38:26): BYU dating myths(?!?!) -(38:26-38:56): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 16, 2023 • 25min
Break Down Bonus: What does emotional abuse look like in romantic relationships? w/ Jessica L. Hutchison, LCPC
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Check out the Honest Women Podcast: https://www.honestwomenpodcast.com/-Follow Jessica on IG!: https://www.instagram.com/jlhutchisonlcpc/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 14, 2023 • 52min
When she said she accidentally got married.... - S4E19
Accidentally?! This week we're chatting with someone who says her partner asked her for a domestic partnership, but she was ready to break up. So how did she end up in a legally binding agreement that led her to getting a divorce lawyer!?-This week we're raising awareness for Family safety center in tulsa https://fsctulsa.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:36): How they met-(07:51): First signs of problems in the relationship -(13:23): When she wanted to break up with her partner-(16:03): Why her her gf wanted a domestic partnership-(21:34): The actual break up-(26:24): The aftermath of the break up -(37:23): Working through things in therapy-(45:15): Dating again/moving on-(51:37): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: emotional abuse] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 9, 2023 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: How self-sabotage is affecting you and your relationships
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 7, 2023 • 40min
When she found a love letter from his other GF.... - S4E18
She found out her boyfriend was getting engaged from a LOVE LETTER...we'll find out about his other relationship(s) when we break down this weeks break up.-This week we're raising awareness for SafeHouse in Denver: https://safehouse-denver.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:19): How they met-(06:39): When she felt like something was wrong....-(10:00): When she starts looking for proof of infidelity-(13:53): The Love Letter-(18:04): What the other GF found out-(22:00): Reflecting on his infidelity-(26:17): How she decided to leave her relationship-(29:31): Her novel, The Traitor Within-(39:50): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 2, 2023 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: The Psychology Behind Being The "Side-Piece"
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-The OPENHOUSE Podcast: https://www.thisisopenhouse.com/podcast/anxious-attachment-style-and-dating-knztz-How are Narcissists Created?: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2TBOvP4mu8Zkm4BX9MTXnA?si=oEgMnnCaQsSNFR6FabGLTg-Attachment Styles: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1S2QkIh7l06vW6KJMaA2ZI?si=GosbucJFS0KBI8ibNXpbFA-Self-Esteem/Self-Worth/Self-Trust: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1pFwVmNGSDEiihTfhuXNEp?si=jwxVgsqKTCWN-np3Nr5Y_Q-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 31, 2023 • 29min
When she sent proof of the affair to his wife.... - S4E17
This week we're raising awareness for DC Safe: https://www.dcsafe.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:14): How they met-(05:08): How she felt about him being married-(08:13): Why the relationship as on/off-(13:08): When she ended the relationship-(18:35): The aftermath-(22:32): Healing and moving on-(27:49): Advice for other people who are "the other woman"-(28:21): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
