The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jan 2, 2024 • 1h 20min
When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5E1
We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!-This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:41): How they met-(13:51): The first major problem in their relationship-(20:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship-(28:56): Possible Grooming Behavior-(35:01): Discovering the affair-(47:11): Confronting her mother and husband-(57:30): The aftermath of the conflict-(01:05:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings-(01:09:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources-(01:13:39): Reflecting/advice-(01:19:32): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 28, 2023 • 30min
Break Down Bonus: Breaking down our attachment styles w/ LCSW Kat Schneider (Replay)
This episode originally aired on Dec. 8th, 2022-You already know Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are already a bit messed up...so we decided to make a whole episode talking about their attachment issues! LCSW Kat Schneider joins the podcast as well to give a professional take on attachment styles and even relates them to 'The Office' characters!-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:26): Episode break down/our personal attachment problems-(16:15): Conversation with LCSW Kat Schneider Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 26, 2023 • 38min
When her best friend had feelings for her boyfriend.... - Replay
This reply episode originally aired on Dec. 6th, 2022-This week we're raising awareness for The Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:28): This week's submission-(7:03): How they met-(10:39): Introducing her best friend-(12:01): When her boyfriend confessed their betrayal-(15:05): Why she stayed with her boyfriend-(18:27): How the relationship developed after the infidelity-(23:48): The final straw for her-(32:14): Healing after the breakup-(36:26): Advice for "starting over" after a long-term relationship-(37:52): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 21, 2023 • 19min
When the break ups were yet to be solved.... - Season 4 Finale Pt. 2
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(01:00): Submission #1-(02:21): Submission #2-(04:23): Submission #3-(06:35): Submission #4-(08:44): Submission #5-(10:12): Submission #6-(11:27): Submission #7-(13:32): Submission #8-(14:39): Submission #9-(16:08): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 19, 2023 • 22min
When the break ups were yet to be solved.... - Season 4 Finale
Season 5 Kicks off on January 2nd- here are some of the submissions we may get to do deep dives on next year....-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(01:50): Submission #1-(04:05): Submission #2-(05:30): Submission #3-(07:00): Submission #4-(09:07): Submission #5-(10:54): Submission #6-(12:09): Submission #7-(14:16): Submission #8-(16:19): Submission #9-(18:42): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 14, 2023 • 27min
Break Down Bonus: The impact of first love and young relationships ft. Amy from New Perspectives
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Amy from New Perspectives: https://newperspectivesforlife.com/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 12, 2023 • 41min
When her ex married someone a year after the break up.... - S4E22
Are they ever really "just a friend" if your gut is screaming that they're NOT?! This week's episode is the classic tale of 'you vs. the one they tell you not to worry about' where 'the one they tell you not to worry about' is getting married to your ex....-This week we're raising awareness for The Spring in Tampa, FL: https://thespring.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:48): How they met-(05:21): When the red flags started to show-(11:52): When the friendship started to seem like it was more-(18:06): The final straw in the relationship-(24:43): What she found out after the relationship ended-(27:17): How her life has changed post-break up-(33:32): What she's learned about relationships from it-(41:02): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 7, 2023 • 20min
Break Down Bonus: The impact of addiction on relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin
[Scroll for Content Warnings]-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Related Episodes-How to Identify Intimate Partner Violence: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0n6r9f7ciRVuvOPGNvUwFk?si=tJ2z_Zw1SNy9ih83exi-vQ-Learning Not to Blame Yourself for their Mistakes: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0kA8CB4VwnwpuDDCfQqbgD?si=ujeuC_lZQ1O4-_rh5SuHVA-The Relationship Between Codependency and Sexual Assault: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5KjJ9fJRkAwYE0Z4PMn0af?si=pweXSoGrSfmJClmSsF34Yw-National Help Hotline 1-800-662-4357 (Confidential free help, from public health agencies, to find substance use treatment and information)-National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673-How to recognize alcohol addiction: https://www.healthline.com/health/alcohol-addiction-recognizing-symptoms-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-[CW: alcoholism, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, suicide] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dec 5, 2023 • 41min
When her relationship nearly killed her.... - S4E21
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-This week we're raising awareness for Golden House in Green Bay, WI: https://www.goldenhousegb.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:16): How they met-(05:18): The first red flags-(10:43): Dealing with his alcoholism-(16:16): The first sign of cheating-(25:55): When she finally confronted him [check CW]-(30:00): The aftermath of the SA -(35:00): How this relationship impacted her future-(37:30): Reflecting/what she learned-(40:57): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, alcoholism, sexual assault] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 30, 2023 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: When the person you thought you'd spend forever with cheats
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-KeKe Palmer's episode referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_AYq-mbzgsA-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
