

Who We Are with Rachel Lim
Rachel Lim
Who we are is an ever-evolving journey without limits.
Join the ever-curious Rachel Lim as she delves into every facet of our lives — from work and family to relationships, self-discovery, and beyond.
Experience a series of conversations and shared reflections that span from in-depth discussions with thought leaders around the world, to personal lessons shared with friends. Each episode offers valuable insights into our identities and pathways to self-improvement.
Welcome to Who We Are — a podcast devoted to the continuous journey of uncovering our ever-evolving selves.
Join the ever-curious Rachel Lim as she delves into every facet of our lives — from work and family to relationships, self-discovery, and beyond.
Experience a series of conversations and shared reflections that span from in-depth discussions with thought leaders around the world, to personal lessons shared with friends. Each episode offers valuable insights into our identities and pathways to self-improvement.
Welcome to Who We Are — a podcast devoted to the continuous journey of uncovering our ever-evolving selves.
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Feb 24, 2025 • 26min
#35: James Dyson: Defying Experts, Ignoring Focus Groups, and Betting on Big Ideas
James Dyson, the innovative founder of Dyson, shares his inspiring journey of defying industry norms and believing in his vision despite over 5,000 rejections. He highlights the power of naivety as an advantage in innovation, challenging reliance on market research. Dyson discusses the importance of resilience in the face of self-doubt while recalling the transformative impact of the James Dyson Award in inspiring young innovators to tackle real-world challenges. His story is a call to trust your instincts and pursue groundbreaking ideas against all odds.

Feb 18, 2025 • 37min
#34: The Courage to Start Over at 52 with Leo
In a heartfelt conversation, Leo shares his journey of starting over at 52, navigating change, and rediscovering purpose after losing his job. The discussion dives into the emotional complexities of grief and identity, highlighting the transformative power of new beginnings. Leo's love for cooking becomes a source of solace and connection, inspiring him to share his culinary passion online. As they reflect on personal growth and community support, listeners are reminded that reinvention is a shared experience filled with hope and strength.

Dec 30, 2024 • 26min
#33: 2024 Reflections: The Lessons That Shaped Me
As we close out 2024, I’m taking a moment to pause, reflect, and share the lessons that have shaped me this year - lessons about growth, grace, and becoming.
In this wrap-up episode, I open up about navigating change, embracing challenges, and leaning into the questions that carried me through some of my hardest yet most transformative moments. From asking “What is this here to teach me?” to “How did I co-create this?”, I share the mindset shifts that helped me move through discomfort and uncertainty with more clarity and intention.
I also take a look ahead to 2025 and share a powerful practice I’ll be trying - scripting. It’s a tool to help visualise and design the life you want to create, and I’ll guide you through how we can use it to set meaningful, aligned goals across every area of our lives.
Whether you’re celebrating wins, navigating storms, or somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to reflect deeply, dream boldly, and step into the new year with courage and purpose.
Thank you for being part of this journey with me. I can’t wait to see what 2025 holds for all of us.❤️
00:00 Introduction
01:39 Rachel’s 2024 Lessons
03:19 Lesson 1: “What is this here to teach me?”
08:02 Lesson 2: “How did I co-create this?”
10:23 Reflections on Who We Are and CLOSER
15:10 The Art of Scripting for 2025
23:08 Final Reflections
Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/

Nov 25, 2024 • 56min
#32: ExtraOrdinary Journey: Building Hegen Together with Yvon & Leon Bock
In this inspiring episode, Yvon and Leon Bock, co-founders of Hegen, share the extraordinary yet challenging journey behind building their brand and family. They open up about the tough realities of entrepreneurship, the sacrifices made, and how they’ve supported each other through the dark days of self-doubt and struggle.
From Yvon’s breastfeeding journey to Leon’s leap of faith into entrepreneurship, they discuss the power of partnership in both business and life. Yvon also delves into her new book, ExtraOrdinary, offering insights into her entrepreneurial story. This episode is an inspiring conversation about resilience, trust, and the journey of overcoming obstacles together.
We discuss:
• Navigating the dark days of entrepreneurship
• Balancing business and family life
• The power of supporting each other as partners
• Yvon's breastfeeding experience as a driving force for Hegen
• Insights from Yvon's new book, ExtraOrdinary
00:00 Introduction
01:05 The Inspiration Behind Hegen
02:44 Leon Bock’s Journey and Transition into Hegen
06:05 Navigating Challenges and Differences as Partners
10:12 Leon’s Leap of Faith
12:38 Yvon’s Breastfeeding Journey with Four Kids
17:23 How To Stay Relevant as a Brand
19:02 The Fruit of Resilience
20:06 Balancing Entrepreneurship and Parenting
24:00 Doing Everything Together as a Couple
26:02 Practical Relationship Advice from The Bocks
29:57 Confronting Fears and Overcoming Struggles as a Couple
34:46 Being Each Other’s Cheerleader and Protector
39:08 Sacrifices Made as Entrepreneurial Parents
42:01 The Unseen Reality of Entrepreneurship
46:06 The Importance of Investing in Yourself
48:46 Our Biggest Lessons Learned from Each Other
52:14 The Billboard Question
53:15 Diving into Yvon’s First Book: Extraordinary
55:31 Episode Closing
Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/
Follow Yvon Bock here: https://www.instagram.com/yvonbock/
Follow Leon Bock here: https://www.instagram.com/that.hegen.dad/
Get more details on: https://www.yvonbock.com/
Purchase ‘Extraordinary’ online here: https://singapore.kinokuniya.com/bw/9789819800544

Nov 4, 2024 • 50min
#31: Raising a Champion: Parenting Lessons From the Maeders
In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Valentin and Hwee Keng Maeder, the inspiring parents behind Singapore’s young kitefoiling champion, Max Maeder. I was incredibly curious to learn how Max — a world-class athlete with remarkable character, mental strength, discipline, and resilience — was raised to be not only successful but also grounded and confident. From the interviews I’ve watched and read, Max strikes me as an exceptional athlete and a genuinely great person, someone clearly brought up with strong values.His parents generously share their unique journey, revealing how they nurtured his independence, embraced failures as essential to growth, and created a safe space where their children could explore their passions without fear of judgement. With practical lessons on balancing personal expectations, resisting societal pressures, and fostering courage and authenticity, this conversation offers an inspiring glimpse into the values and insights that shaped Max and his siblings, providing guidance for parents everywhere striving to raise grounded, confident children.00:00 Introduction 01:25 Get To Know The Maeders 03:42 Nurturing Independence in Children 08:05 Addressing Fear with Probability 10:19 The Maeders' Unconventional Parenting Views12:59 Creating Safe Spaces at Home 15:46 Parenting Through Different Stages 18:40 Family Rituals That Strengthen Bonds20:14 Max’s Journey: Solo Travels at Age 1122:58 Guiding Children Through Failure26:36 The Myth of Perfect Parenting30:13 Breaking Generational Patterns 35:13 The Maeder’s Approach on Discipline 37:47 Navigating Conflict and Reconciliation 38:43 Prioritising Yourself and Letting Go of Parental Expectations 41:02 Going Against Societal Norms and Pressure 45:09 Final Reflections and Key TakeawaysFollow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/

Oct 28, 2024 • 41min
#30: Defying Limits: Yip Pin Xiu’s Unseen Battles and Silent Strength
Yip Pin Xiu, Singapore’s most decorated Paralympian, shares the untold story behind her journey - her unseen battles, silent strength, and unbreakable spirit. From navigating life with muscular dystrophy to becoming a world-record-holding gold medalist, Yip reflects on the personal sacrifices, moments of self-doubt, and the powerful support that fueled her resilience. She opens up about redefining success, challenging misconceptions about para-athletes, and her hopes for the future of Singaporean sports.
This heartfelt conversation offers an intimate look into the life of a true champion who continues to defy limits and inspire a nation.
00:00 Introduction
02:09 Getting to Know Yip Pin Xiu
03:05 Reflecting on Diagnosis and Childhood Resilience
08:14 Discovering Strength and Overcoming Bullying
13:06 The Journey to Olympic Gold
15:38 Silent Battles and Unseen Challenges
21:35 Facing Self-Doubt and Post-Olympic Realities
25:27 Staying True Amidst the Spotlight
28:02 Hopes for the Future of Singaporean Sports
31:03 Challenging Misconceptions of Para-Athletes
32:04 Redefining Success: Pin Xiu’s Perspective
34:25 What Truly Fulfills Pin Xiu
36:34 The True Meaning of Resilience
38:03 The Billboard Question: A Message to the World
38:51 Final Reflections and Key Takeaways
Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/
Follow Yip Pin Xiu here: https://www.instagram.com/yippinxiu/

Oct 21, 2024 • 32min
#29: Living Meaningfully in a Productivity-Obsessed World with Oliver Burkeman
Join Oliver Burkeman, author of 'Four Thousand Weeks' and 'Meditations for Mortals', as he shares his insights on finding meaning in a productivity-obsessed world. He challenges the relentless chase for efficiency and emphasizes embracing our limitations. Burkeman discusses the importance of mindfulness in navigating distractions and encouraging intentional choices over societal pressures. Learn to redefine success, celebrate accomplishments, and appreciate imperfections in pursuit of a more fulfilling life.

Oct 14, 2024 • 27min
#28: The Science of Well-being with Top Psychiatrist Dr Anders Hansen
In this insightful discussion, Dr. Anders Hansen, a leading Swedish psychiatrist and author of "The Mind-Body Method," shares his groundbreaking research on the link between physical activity and mental health. He unpacks the evolutionary roots of anxiety, highlighting its protective role. Dr. Hansen debunks common exercise myths and reveals how movement enhances cognitive functions. He provides practical tips for simple lifestyle changes to boost overall brain health while addressing the importance of managing stress and understanding our 'storytelling' brains.

Oct 8, 2024 • 33min
#27: A Survivor's Story of Cybersex Trafficking
Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and sexual exploitation, which may be distressing for some listeners. Please take care while listening, and consider your well-being before proceeding.
Today, I have the honour of sitting down with Cassie, a remarkable survivor of cybersex trafficking. Her story is not just a tale of resilience; it shines a light on the dark realities of online sexual exploitation that many of us would rather ignore. Cassie's journey began in the remote mountains of the Philippines, where dreams of a brighter future led her to the bustling city of Manila. Tragically, what awaited her there was a harrowing nightmare — one woven by the hands of someone she trusted, plunging her into a world of abuse and manipulation.
Join me as we delve into Cassie's journey of recovery, hear her powerful voice, and learn about the vital work of International Justice Mission (IJM) in the fight against child exploitation. This episode will move you, inspire you, and call you to action, revealing the stark truths of cybersex trafficking that's prevalent today, and the courageous individuals who stand up against it.
00:00 Understanding the Cause
01:21 Meet Cassie
08:25 Cassie’s Story: The Reality of Cybersex Trafficking
13:54 The Silent Victims
16:36 Cassie’s Healing Journey
22:57 Reclaiming Her Power
26:11 A Call to Action
28:23 Looking Ahead: Hope for the Future
30:35 Final Reflections
Help rescue victims of sexual exploitation here: https://www.ijm.org/stories/cassie
Learn more about IJM here: https://www.ijm.org/about-ijm
Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/

Sep 30, 2024 • 22min
#26: Step Into Your Zone of Genius: A Special In-Person Workshop in SG
Have you ever felt like you’re on autopilot, going through your daily routine without a sense of purpose or excitement? Many of us find ourselves trapped in roles or tasks that leave us feeling unfulfilled. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone - there’s a transformative journey waiting for you.
In this episode, I chat with my coach, Joyce, about the incredible power of discovering our Zone of Genius. My experience with Joyce helped me gain clarity on how to spend my energy for maximum impact. It’s not just about feeling fulfilled; it’s about being more effective, impactful, and authentic in everything I do.
Finding our Zone of Genius is essential because it aligns your unique talents and passions with our everyday life. When we operate in this space, we experience greater joy and fulfillment while contributing to the world in a way that feels true to who we are, enhancing both our personal and professional lives.
PS: I’m so excited to announce that I will be bringing Joyce all the way from San Francisco to conduct a transformational 3.5-hour workshop in Singapore this November. This is your chance to dive deeper, engage in powerful exercises, and uncover your own Zone of Genius alongside like-minded individuals.
If you’re ready to embrace this journey of self-discovery, don’t miss out — sign up at the link below for the workshop today and take the first step toward a more fulfilling life ♥️
Sign up for 'Closer With Joyce Chen' here: https://forms.gle/Gqsxy6k2sZ7swTND9
00:00 Introduction
01:38 Discovering Our Zone of Genius
03:27 The Four Zones of Competence
07:28 Operating in Your Zone of Genius
08:46 Addressing Our Blind Spots and Distractions
10:17 Upcoming Workshop: Closer with Joyce Chen
12:51 Success Stories: Finding Your Zone of Genius
17:09 Join Us in The Room
18:20 The Importance of Unlocking Your Zone of Genius
20:28 Final Reflections
Follow Rachel here: https://www.instagram.com/ms_rach/