Man Within Podcast

Sathiya Sam
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May 11, 2025 • 54min

937 - Jason Martinkus: Doing Recovery Vs Living Recovery

In this conversation, Jason Martinkus discusses the evolution of his marriage coaching practice, Redemptive Living, focusing on the shift from sobriety to emotional work in recovery. He shares insights from his personal journey of overcoming betrayal and the importance of character change, particularly humility, in the recovery process. The discussion also covers how to measure progress in recovery, emphasizing the difference between streaks and trends, and the significance of integrating data with emotional understanding in personal growth. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the importance of emotional connection in relationships, particularly in the context of recovery from infidelity. They discuss the need to meet emotions with empathy rather than data, the dynamics of emotional and physical affairs, and the significance of understanding core wounds. The concept of the 'grieving boat' is introduced to illustrate the challenges faced during recovery, and the distinction between shame and conviction is explored. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the importance of building trustworthiness through character development and connection.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Redemptive Living 03:11 Shifts in Recovery Focus 06:09 The Journey of Marriage Restoration 08:57 Character Change and Humility 11:51 Measuring Recovery Progress 15:01 Data vs. Emotion in Recovery 28:57 Emotional Connection vs. Data Response 31:07 The Role of Empathy in Relationships 32:50 Understanding Emotional and Physical Affairs 36:34 Embracing Core Wounds 39:29 The Grieving Boat Concept 45:55 The Importance of Connection in Recovery 51:15 Shame vs. Conviction 52:42 Building Trustworthiness in Relationships  
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May 8, 2025 • 12min

936 - Honor Thy Mother, or Else...

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the significance of Mother's Day in the context of recovery, emphasizing the deep connection many men have with their mothers compared to their fathers. He explores the importance of honoring mothers, even in challenging relationships, and how this act can lead to healing and understanding. The conversation also touches on navigating trauma and the impact of maternal relationships on addiction, encouraging listeners to celebrate their mothers and reflect on their contributions.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters:  00:00 Introduction to Mother's Day and Recovery 05:10 The Importance of Honoring Mothers 09:24 Navigating Relationships and Trauma 10:50 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Mother's Day
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May 6, 2025 • 10min

935 - Q&A - How Do I Decouple Multiple Traumas?

In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about the complexities of intersecting traumas. He discusses the nature of trauma, emphasizing the importance of processing and integrating experiences rather than simply categorizing them as separate wounds. Sathiya encourages listeners to explore the patterns and emotions associated with their traumas, suggesting that understanding these connections can lead to deeper healing. He also highlights the value of seeking professional help when necessary, while reinforcing the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in the recovery journey.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Trauma and Healing 02:15 Understanding Intersecting Traumas 05:28 Processing Trauma: The Importance of Integration 08:45 Finding Patterns in Trauma Responses
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May 5, 2025 • 1h 31min

934 - Adam Schafer: From Mowing Lawns to Making Millions

In today’s episode of the Man Within Podcast, I sit down with Adam Schafer, co-founder of the Mind Pump Podcast — one of the most popular fitness podcasts in the world — to unpack his wild journey from mowing lawns as a broke teenager to building a multimillion-dollar fitness empire.   If you know the Mind Pump Show, you know the impact Adam, Sal, Justin, and Doug have made in the health and wellness space. But in this conversation, you’ll hear the behind-the-scenes story — the risks, the failures, the shady business deals, the turning point with marijuana clubs, and how one simple podcast idea exploded into a global brand.   🎙️ Get ready, because we'll talk about: Adam’s humble beginnings as a teenage entrepreneur The raw truth about chasing money (and why it didn’t satisfy) How the Mind Pump Media team formed and scaled their business Business lessons that apply to any entrepreneur, creator, or dreamer The real reason vulnerability and authenticity built their loyal audience Whether you're a fan of Mind Pump Show, an aspiring entrepreneur, or someone who's hit rock bottom and wants to rebuild — this is a must-listen.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This     Today's chapters are: 00:00 - Introduction and NBA Passion 01:51 - The Mind Pump Team Dynamics 05:01 - Early Entrepreneurial Experiences 09:47 - Transitioning to Fitness Industry 16:02 - The Marijuana Business Journey 23:01 - Realizations and Shifts in Career 30:02 - Building an Authentic Fitness Brand 32:48 - Navigating the App Landscape 36:04The Birth of Mindpump 40:47 - Building Community and Value 45:53 - Monetizing the Podcast 50:22 - Mindpump's Evolution and Revenue Streams 54:59 - Real Estate Ventures and Investment Strategies 01:02:54 - The Journey into Angel Investing 01:07:14 - Building a Coaching Business for Trainers 01:12:05 - Navigating Media and Communication Challenges 01:16:03 - Transforming Financial Relationships 01:25:28 - Achieving External Freedom and Fulfillment  
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May 1, 2025 • 9min

933 - I'm Afraid To Give Up Porn. What Should I Do?

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya explores the psychological dynamics of recovery, particularly the struggle of letting go of past coping mechanisms like pornography. He discusses the feelings of emptiness and fear that can arise during recovery, drawing parallels to the biblical story of the Israelites in the wilderness. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of having a 'promise' or vision to keep moving forward during challenging times in recovery, encouraging listeners to focus on the positive changes that lie ahead.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters 00:00 The Psychological Dynamic of Recovery 02:48 Navigating the Wilderness of Change 06:14 The Power of Promise in Recovery
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Apr 29, 2025 • 9min

932 - Q&A - How Do I Handle Bathroom Temptations?

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about overcoming environmental triggers related to pornography and masturbation. He discusses the importance of understanding the psychological and neurobiological aspects of these triggers, offering practical advice on how to break associations with certain environments, particularly bathrooms.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   00:00 Introduction and Listener Engagement 01:21 Understanding Environmental Triggers 02:16 Breaking Neural Associations 04:32 Mental Preparation and Self-Talk 06:26 Creating Healthy Associations 08:19 Conclusion and Call to Action
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Apr 28, 2025 • 1h 10min

931 - Dr. Robert Glove: Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome

In this conversation, Sathiya Sam & Dr. Glover discussed the pervasive issue of Nice Guy Syndrome and its correlation with pornography addiction and sexual compulsion. Dr. Robert Glover explores the cultural shifts that have influenced masculinity, the importance of emotional awareness, and the critical role of community in supporting men's mental health. Connect with Dr. Robert Glover Integration Nation Website Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Nice Guy Syndrome and Its Impact 10:01 Cultural Shifts and Masculinity 19:57 Emotional Awareness and Balance in Men 29:58 The Role of Community in Overcoming Loneliness 36:24 Embracing Loneliness and Connection 39:30 The Impact of Convenience on Relationships 40:52 The Value of Challenge and Inconvenience 46:58 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome and Porn Addiction 52:15 The Role of Shame in Sexuality 01:00:22 Healing Through Vulnerability and Community
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Apr 24, 2025 • 7min

930 - These 3 Root Issues Are Destroying Your Recovery

In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the three root issues that can hinder recovery from sexual misbehavior: emotional immaturity, childhood trauma, and lies. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and addressing these issues to achieve lasting recovery.   Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   00:00 Introduction to Recovery Challenges 05:13 The Three Root Issues Destroying Recovery    
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Apr 22, 2025 • 8min

929 - Will God Bless You More If You Quit Porn?

In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of God's blessing, particularly in relation to overcoming personal struggles such as porn addiction. He emphasizes that blessings are not merely material wealth but encompass a broader sense of fulfillment and legacy.    Got a Question? It Could Be on the Podcast! Submit It Through This Form Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   00:00 Introduction to God's Blessing 02:48 Righteousness and Its Rewards 06:03 The Role of Integrity in Stewarding Blessings
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Apr 21, 2025 • 1h 14min

928 - Johnny & Emily Spigelmire: How We Survived Porn Addiction and 3 Affairs in Marriage

In this conversation, Johnny and Emily share their journey of love, marriage, and the challenges they faced over the years. They discuss how they met, their early relationship, and the intentional steps they took to build a strong foundation for their marriage. However, as they navigated parenthood and life’s pressures, secrets began to surface, leading to struggles with pornography and emotional disconnection. The couple reflects on the turning points in their relationship, the impact of their choices, and the importance of communication and faith in overcoming adversity.    Connect with Johnny & Emily Find Out More About My DeepClean Recovery Program Here Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters 00:00 The Beginning of a Journey 03:00 From Friends to Partners 06:10 Building a Purposeful Marriage 09:00 Navigating Early Parenthood 11:55 The First 15 Years: A Honeymoon Phase 15:06 The Unraveling: Secrets and Struggles 17:47 The Impact of Pornography 21:09 The Turning Point: Year 20 23:59 The Consequences of Disconnection 31:16 Navigating Trust and Doubt in Relationships 34:26 The Unraveling: Discovery of Infidelity 39:32 The Impact of Lies and Deception 43:55 The Pain of Betrayal: Understanding the Depths 46:44 The Journey to Full Disclosure 51:43 Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal 56:59 The Decision to Stay: A Covenant of Love 01:01:23 From Brokenness to New Beginnings 01:06:47 Advice for Those in Similar Situations

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