

Man Within Podcast
Sathiya Sam
The Man Within Podcast is a faith-based show helping Christian men overcome their greatest battles—whether it’s breaking free from pornography, building stronger relationships, or discovering purpose.
Hosted by Sathiya Sam—coach, speaker, author, and founder of DeepClean™ Coaching—the podcast equips men with biblical truth, practical tools, and powerful testimonies to walk in confidence, integrity, and freedom.
With nearly 1 million downloads and past guests such as Dr. John Deloney, John Eldredge, Jon Gordon, Dr. Robert Glover, Ryan Miller, Colby Maier, Joshua Broome, Dr. Josh Axe, Jason Vallotton, Connor Beaton, Dr. Trish Leigh, Mike Signorelli, The Man Within Podcast has become one of the leading voices for men seeking lasting transformation.
If you’re tired of surface-level fixes and ready to grow, this podcast will challenge, inspire, and equip you to become the man God created you to be.
Hosted by Sathiya Sam—coach, speaker, author, and founder of DeepClean™ Coaching—the podcast equips men with biblical truth, practical tools, and powerful testimonies to walk in confidence, integrity, and freedom.
With nearly 1 million downloads and past guests such as Dr. John Deloney, John Eldredge, Jon Gordon, Dr. Robert Glover, Ryan Miller, Colby Maier, Joshua Broome, Dr. Josh Axe, Jason Vallotton, Connor Beaton, Dr. Trish Leigh, Mike Signorelli, The Man Within Podcast has become one of the leading voices for men seeking lasting transformation.
If you’re tired of surface-level fixes and ready to grow, this podcast will challenge, inspire, and equip you to become the man God created you to be.
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May 11, 2025 • 54min
937 - Jason Martinkus: Doing Recovery Vs Living Recovery
In this conversation, Jason Martinkus discusses the evolution of his marriage coaching practice, Redemptive Living, focusing on the shift from sobriety to emotional work in recovery.
He shares insights from his personal journey of overcoming betrayal and the importance of character change, particularly humility, in the recovery process. The discussion also covers how to measure progress in recovery, emphasizing the difference between streaks and trends, and the significance of integrating data with emotional understanding in personal growth. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the importance of emotional connection in relationships, particularly in the context of recovery from infidelity. They discuss the need to meet emotions with empathy rather than data, the dynamics of emotional and physical affairs, and the significance of understanding core wounds.
The concept of the 'grieving boat' is introduced to illustrate the challenges faced during recovery, and the distinction between shame and conviction is explored. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the importance of building trustworthiness through character development and connection.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Redemptive Living
03:11 Shifts in Recovery Focus
06:09 The Journey of Marriage Restoration
08:57 Character Change and Humility
11:51 Measuring Recovery Progress
15:01 Data vs. Emotion in Recovery
28:57 Emotional Connection vs. Data Response
31:07 The Role of Empathy in Relationships
32:50 Understanding Emotional and Physical Affairs
36:34 Embracing Core Wounds
39:29 The Grieving Boat Concept
45:55 The Importance of Connection in Recovery
51:15 Shame vs. Conviction
52:42 Building Trustworthiness in Relationships

May 8, 2025 • 12min
936 - Honor Thy Mother, or Else...
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the significance of Mother's Day in the context of recovery, emphasizing the deep connection many men have with their mothers compared to their fathers. He explores the importance of honoring mothers, even in challenging relationships, and how this act can lead to healing and understanding. The conversation also touches on navigating trauma and the impact of maternal relationships on addiction, encouraging listeners to celebrate their mothers and reflect on their contributions.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Mother's Day and Recovery
05:10 The Importance of Honoring Mothers
09:24 Navigating Relationships and Trauma
10:50 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Mother's Day

May 6, 2025 • 10min
935 - Q&A - How Do I Decouple Multiple Traumas?
In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about the complexities of intersecting traumas. He discusses the nature of trauma, emphasizing the importance of processing and integrating experiences rather than simply categorizing them as separate wounds. Sathiya encourages listeners to explore the patterns and emotions associated with their traumas, suggesting that understanding these connections can lead to deeper healing. He also highlights the value of seeking professional help when necessary, while reinforcing the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in the recovery journey.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Trauma and Healing
02:15 Understanding Intersecting Traumas
05:28 Processing Trauma: The Importance of Integration
08:45 Finding Patterns in Trauma Responses

May 5, 2025 • 1h 31min
934 - Adam Schafer: From Mowing Lawns to Making Millions
In today’s episode of the Man Within Podcast, I sit down with Adam Schafer, co-founder of the Mind Pump Podcast — one of the most popular fitness podcasts in the world — to unpack his wild journey from mowing lawns as a broke teenager to building a multimillion-dollar fitness empire.
If you know the Mind Pump Show, you know the impact Adam, Sal, Justin, and Doug have made in the health and wellness space. But in this conversation, you’ll hear the behind-the-scenes story — the risks, the failures, the shady business deals, the turning point with marijuana clubs, and how one simple podcast idea exploded into a global brand.
🎙️ Get ready, because we'll talk about:
Adam’s humble beginnings as a teenage entrepreneur
The raw truth about chasing money (and why it didn’t satisfy)
How the Mind Pump Media team formed and scaled their business
Business lessons that apply to any entrepreneur, creator, or dreamer
The real reason vulnerability and authenticity built their loyal audience
Whether you're a fan of Mind Pump Show, an aspiring entrepreneur, or someone who's hit rock bottom and wants to rebuild — this is a must-listen.
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Today's chapters are:
00:00 - Introduction and NBA Passion
01:51 - The Mind Pump Team Dynamics
05:01 - Early Entrepreneurial Experiences
09:47 - Transitioning to Fitness Industry
16:02 - The Marijuana Business Journey
23:01 - Realizations and Shifts in Career
30:02 - Building an Authentic Fitness Brand
32:48 - Navigating the App Landscape
36:04The Birth of Mindpump
40:47 - Building Community and Value
45:53 - Monetizing the Podcast
50:22 - Mindpump's Evolution and Revenue Streams
54:59 - Real Estate Ventures and Investment Strategies
01:02:54 - The Journey into Angel Investing
01:07:14 - Building a Coaching Business for Trainers
01:12:05 - Navigating Media and Communication Challenges
01:16:03 - Transforming Financial Relationships
01:25:28 - Achieving External Freedom and Fulfillment

May 1, 2025 • 9min
933 - I'm Afraid To Give Up Porn. What Should I Do?
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya explores the psychological dynamics of recovery, particularly the struggle of letting go of past coping mechanisms like pornography. He discusses the feelings of emptiness and fear that can arise during recovery, drawing parallels to the biblical story of the Israelites in the wilderness. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of having a 'promise' or vision to keep moving forward during challenging times in recovery, encouraging listeners to focus on the positive changes that lie ahead.
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Chapters
00:00 The Psychological Dynamic of Recovery
02:48 Navigating the Wilderness of Change
06:14 The Power of Promise in Recovery

Apr 29, 2025 • 9min
932 - Q&A - How Do I Handle Bathroom Temptations?
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about overcoming environmental triggers related to pornography and masturbation. He discusses the importance of understanding the psychological and neurobiological aspects of these triggers, offering practical advice on how to break associations with certain environments, particularly bathrooms.
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00:00 Introduction and Listener Engagement
01:21 Understanding Environmental Triggers
02:16 Breaking Neural Associations
04:32 Mental Preparation and Self-Talk
06:26 Creating Healthy Associations
08:19 Conclusion and Call to Action

Apr 28, 2025 • 1h 10min
931 - Dr. Robert Glove: Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome
In this conversation, Sathiya Sam & Dr. Glover discussed the pervasive issue of Nice Guy Syndrome and its correlation with pornography addiction and sexual compulsion. Dr. Robert Glover explores the cultural shifts that have influenced masculinity, the importance of emotional awareness, and the critical role of community in supporting men's mental health.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Nice Guy Syndrome and Its Impact
10:01 Cultural Shifts and Masculinity
19:57 Emotional Awareness and Balance in Men
29:58 The Role of Community in Overcoming Loneliness
36:24 Embracing Loneliness and Connection
39:30 The Impact of Convenience on Relationships
40:52 The Value of Challenge and Inconvenience
46:58 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome and Porn Addiction
52:15 The Role of Shame in Sexuality
01:00:22 Healing Through Vulnerability and Community

Apr 24, 2025 • 7min
930 - These 3 Root Issues Are Destroying Your Recovery
In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the three root issues that can hinder recovery from sexual misbehavior: emotional immaturity, childhood trauma, and lies. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and addressing these issues to achieve lasting recovery.
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00:00 Introduction to Recovery Challenges
05:13 The Three Root Issues Destroying Recovery

Apr 22, 2025 • 8min
929 - Will God Bless You More If You Quit Porn?
In this episode, Sathiya Sam discusses the concept of God's blessing, particularly in relation to overcoming personal struggles such as porn addiction. He emphasizes that blessings are not merely material wealth but encompass a broader sense of fulfillment and legacy.
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00:00 Introduction to God's Blessing
02:48 Righteousness and Its Rewards
06:03 The Role of Integrity in Stewarding Blessings

Apr 21, 2025 • 1h 14min
928 - Johnny & Emily Spigelmire: How We Survived Porn Addiction and 3 Affairs in Marriage
In this conversation, Johnny and Emily share their journey of love, marriage, and the challenges they faced over the years. They discuss how they met, their early relationship, and the intentional steps they took to build a strong foundation for their marriage. However, as they navigated parenthood and life’s pressures, secrets began to surface, leading to struggles with pornography and emotional disconnection. The couple reflects on the turning points in their relationship, the impact of their choices, and the importance of communication and faith in overcoming adversity.
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Chapters
00:00 The Beginning of a Journey
03:00 From Friends to Partners
06:10 Building a Purposeful Marriage
09:00 Navigating Early Parenthood
11:55 The First 15 Years: A Honeymoon Phase
15:06 The Unraveling: Secrets and Struggles
17:47 The Impact of Pornography
21:09 The Turning Point: Year 20
23:59 The Consequences of Disconnection
31:16 Navigating Trust and Doubt in Relationships
34:26 The Unraveling: Discovery of Infidelity
39:32 The Impact of Lies and Deception
43:55 The Pain of Betrayal: Understanding the Depths
46:44 The Journey to Full Disclosure
51:43 Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal
56:59 The Decision to Stay: A Covenant of Love
01:01:23 From Brokenness to New Beginnings
01:06:47 Advice for Those in Similar Situations


