
Man Within Podcast
Ready to experience a life of confidence, success, and integrity? The Man Within Podcast is the world’s #1 podcast for helping men achieve their fullest potential. We provide principles, tools, and practical insights to help professional men unlock their potential and develop a bulletproof inner life. If you want thriving relationships, a strong connection with God, and freedom from personal struggles, this podcast is for you.
I am Sathiya Sam, your host, a world-renowned coach, international speaker, and author. I specialize in helping professional men achieve long-term success and freedom. My signature program, DeepClean™, has helped athletes, doctors, pastors, executives, and entrepreneurs overcome personal challenges by resolving the root issues.
Join us on The Man Within Podcast to explore new topics, gain valuable insights, and become the best version of yourself.
Latest episodes

May 18, 2025 • 57min
940 - Parker Hymas: You are not watching Porn... You are watching R*pe
In this conversation, Parker discusses his journey with Fight the New Drug, an organization dedicated to raising awareness about the harmful effects of pornography. He shares insights on the changing public perception of pornography, the importance of education and awareness, and the societal impacts of porn consumption. The discussion also touches on the ethics of pornography, the challenges of sexting among youth, and the crucial role parents play in guiding their children through these issues.
This conversation delves into the multifaceted impacts of pornography on individuals and society, emphasizing the importance of home education, mental health, and the role of live events in raising awareness. The speaker discuss the escalating nature of pornography consumption, its detrimental effects on mental health, and the significance of research in informing the public. They also highlight the need for diverse influencer engagement and faith-based approaches to effectively communicate the message. Personal stories of recovery and the importance of self-care in addressing heavy topics are also explored.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Fight the New Drug
03:02 Parker's Journey with Fight the New Drug
05:57 Public Perception of Pornography
09:00 Educational Approaches to Pornography Awareness
11:54 Societal Impacts of Pornography
14:56 The Ethics of Pornography
18:12 Sexting and Its Consequences
20:57 Parental Guidance on Pornography and Sexting
28:32 The Role of Home Education in Addressing Pornography
29:00 Understanding the Individual Impact of Pornography
30:18 Mental Health and Pornography Consumption
33:04 Future Strategies for Raising Awareness
36:24 The Importance of Live Events in Education
37:08 The Role of Research in Awareness
38:44 Pandemic Effects on Pornography Consumption
40:28 Influencers and Celebrity Voices on Pornography
42:41 Diverse Influencer Engagement Strategies
44:20 Faith-Based Approaches to Pornography Education
47:10 Self-Care in Heavy Conversations
51:11 Powerful Stories of Recovery and Awareness

May 15, 2025 • 12min
939 - How To Be There For Your Wife During Recovery
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses how husbands can support their wives during recovery from personal struggles. Drawing from a recent expert call with Lila Peyser, he emphasizes the importance of personal health for men in relationships.
The conversation explores the need for men to focus on their own well-being to foster trust and healing in their marriages. Sathiya also introduces the concept of a Roots-Based Approach to recovery, encouraging listeners to define what health means for them and to pursue it holistically.
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00:00 Introduction to Supporting Your Wife
02:51 The Importance of Personal Health
05:45 Defining Health and Its Impact
09:07 The Roots-Based Approach to Recovery

May 13, 2025 • 10min
938 - Q&A - I'm Free of Porn, How Do I Get Free of Lust?
In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about struggling with lust after overcoming pornography. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the motives behind lustful thoughts and the need for deep internal transformation to achieve lasting freedom. Sathiya discusses the relationship between lust and pornography, highlighting that overcoming one requires addressing the other. He encourages listeners to explore their emotional triggers and fantasies to facilitate healing and personal growth.
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00:00Understanding Lust and Its Impact
03:05The Journey to Overcoming Lust
05:57Deep Internal Transformation for Lasting Change

May 11, 2025 • 54min
937 - Jason Martinkus: Doing Recovery Vs Living Recovery
In this conversation, Jason Martinkus discusses the evolution of his marriage coaching practice, Redemptive Living, focusing on the shift from sobriety to emotional work in recovery.
He shares insights from his personal journey of overcoming betrayal and the importance of character change, particularly humility, in the recovery process. The discussion also covers how to measure progress in recovery, emphasizing the difference between streaks and trends, and the significance of integrating data with emotional understanding in personal growth. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the importance of emotional connection in relationships, particularly in the context of recovery from infidelity. They discuss the need to meet emotions with empathy rather than data, the dynamics of emotional and physical affairs, and the significance of understanding core wounds.
The concept of the 'grieving boat' is introduced to illustrate the challenges faced during recovery, and the distinction between shame and conviction is explored. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the importance of building trustworthiness through character development and connection.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Redemptive Living
03:11 Shifts in Recovery Focus
06:09 The Journey of Marriage Restoration
08:57 Character Change and Humility
11:51 Measuring Recovery Progress
15:01 Data vs. Emotion in Recovery
28:57 Emotional Connection vs. Data Response
31:07 The Role of Empathy in Relationships
32:50 Understanding Emotional and Physical Affairs
36:34 Embracing Core Wounds
39:29 The Grieving Boat Concept
45:55 The Importance of Connection in Recovery
51:15 Shame vs. Conviction
52:42 Building Trustworthiness in Relationships

May 8, 2025 • 12min
936 - Honor Thy Mother, or Else...
In this episode, Sathiya discusses the significance of Mother's Day in the context of recovery, emphasizing the deep connection many men have with their mothers compared to their fathers. He explores the importance of honoring mothers, even in challenging relationships, and how this act can lead to healing and understanding. The conversation also touches on navigating trauma and the impact of maternal relationships on addiction, encouraging listeners to celebrate their mothers and reflect on their contributions.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Mother's Day and Recovery
05:10 The Importance of Honoring Mothers
09:24 Navigating Relationships and Trauma
10:50 Final Thoughts and Encouragement for Mother's Day

May 6, 2025 • 10min
935 - Q&A - How Do I Decouple Multiple Traumas?
In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about the complexities of intersecting traumas. He discusses the nature of trauma, emphasizing the importance of processing and integrating experiences rather than simply categorizing them as separate wounds. Sathiya encourages listeners to explore the patterns and emotions associated with their traumas, suggesting that understanding these connections can lead to deeper healing. He also highlights the value of seeking professional help when necessary, while reinforcing the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in the recovery journey.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Trauma and Healing
02:15 Understanding Intersecting Traumas
05:28 Processing Trauma: The Importance of Integration
08:45 Finding Patterns in Trauma Responses

May 5, 2025 • 1h 31min
934 - Adam Schafer: From Mowing Lawns to Making Millions
In today’s episode of the Man Within Podcast, I sit down with Adam Schafer, co-founder of the Mind Pump Podcast — one of the most popular fitness podcasts in the world — to unpack his wild journey from mowing lawns as a broke teenager to building a multimillion-dollar fitness empire.
If you know the Mind Pump Show, you know the impact Adam, Sal, Justin, and Doug have made in the health and wellness space. But in this conversation, you’ll hear the behind-the-scenes story — the risks, the failures, the shady business deals, the turning point with marijuana clubs, and how one simple podcast idea exploded into a global brand.
🎙️ Get ready, because we'll talk about:
Adam’s humble beginnings as a teenage entrepreneur
The raw truth about chasing money (and why it didn’t satisfy)
How the Mind Pump Media team formed and scaled their business
Business lessons that apply to any entrepreneur, creator, or dreamer
The real reason vulnerability and authenticity built their loyal audience
Whether you're a fan of Mind Pump Show, an aspiring entrepreneur, or someone who's hit rock bottom and wants to rebuild — this is a must-listen.
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Today's chapters are:
00:00 - Introduction and NBA Passion
01:51 - The Mind Pump Team Dynamics
05:01 - Early Entrepreneurial Experiences
09:47 - Transitioning to Fitness Industry
16:02 - The Marijuana Business Journey
23:01 - Realizations and Shifts in Career
30:02 - Building an Authentic Fitness Brand
32:48 - Navigating the App Landscape
36:04The Birth of Mindpump
40:47 - Building Community and Value
45:53 - Monetizing the Podcast
50:22 - Mindpump's Evolution and Revenue Streams
54:59 - Real Estate Ventures and Investment Strategies
01:02:54 - The Journey into Angel Investing
01:07:14 - Building a Coaching Business for Trainers
01:12:05 - Navigating Media and Communication Challenges
01:16:03 - Transforming Financial Relationships
01:25:28 - Achieving External Freedom and Fulfillment

May 1, 2025 • 9min
933 - I'm Afraid To Give Up Porn. What Should I Do?
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya explores the psychological dynamics of recovery, particularly the struggle of letting go of past coping mechanisms like pornography. He discusses the feelings of emptiness and fear that can arise during recovery, drawing parallels to the biblical story of the Israelites in the wilderness. Sathiya emphasizes the importance of having a 'promise' or vision to keep moving forward during challenging times in recovery, encouraging listeners to focus on the positive changes that lie ahead.
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Chapters
00:00 The Psychological Dynamic of Recovery
02:48 Navigating the Wilderness of Change
06:14 The Power of Promise in Recovery

Apr 29, 2025 • 9min
932 - Q&A - How Do I Handle Bathroom Temptations?
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about overcoming environmental triggers related to pornography and masturbation. He discusses the importance of understanding the psychological and neurobiological aspects of these triggers, offering practical advice on how to break associations with certain environments, particularly bathrooms.
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00:00 Introduction and Listener Engagement
01:21 Understanding Environmental Triggers
02:16 Breaking Neural Associations
04:32 Mental Preparation and Self-Talk
06:26 Creating Healthy Associations
08:19 Conclusion and Call to Action

Apr 28, 2025 • 1h 10min
931 - Dr. Robert Glove: Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome
In this conversation, Sathiya Sam & Dr. Glover discussed the pervasive issue of Nice Guy Syndrome and its correlation with pornography addiction and sexual compulsion. Dr. Robert Glover explores the cultural shifts that have influenced masculinity, the importance of emotional awareness, and the critical role of community in supporting men's mental health.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Nice Guy Syndrome and Its Impact
10:01 Cultural Shifts and Masculinity
19:57 Emotional Awareness and Balance in Men
29:58 The Role of Community in Overcoming Loneliness
36:24 Embracing Loneliness and Connection
39:30 The Impact of Convenience on Relationships
40:52 The Value of Challenge and Inconvenience
46:58 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome and Porn Addiction
52:15 The Role of Shame in Sexuality
01:00:22 Healing Through Vulnerability and Community