

Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
Michelle Kenney, M. Ed
Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions. Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through solo episodes and interviews with experts and other struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.
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Dec 14, 2023 • 24min
Case Study: A Playful Approach to Discipline
The podcast discusses a parent's struggle with a child who refuses to communicate during tough moments. It focuses on shifting from consequences to connection, catering to a strong-willed child's sensitivities, and reducing the weight of shame.

Dec 12, 2023 • 14min
Why I Talk to the Aggressive Child First
Discover the importance of addressing the needs of an aggressive child first in conflicts, emphasizing connection and empathy over punishment. Explore real-life strategies for fostering positive behavior changes and effective emotional regulation techniques.

Dec 7, 2023 • 23min
Case Study: The Sibling Argument Dilemma
Shannon seeks advice on handling sibling rivalry between her daughters. The podcast explores resolving conflicts by addressing the aggressor first. It discusses family dynamics, understanding roots of rivalry for stronger bonds, and effective strategies for fostering healthy relationships.

Dec 5, 2023 • 19min
The Transformative Power of Special Time
Explore the power of 'special time' in parenting, dedicating moments to connect with children, enhance cooperation, and strengthen family dynamics. Discover the transformative impact of quality one-on-one interactions, fostering love, understanding, and reducing the need for punishments. Get practical guidance and insights on building connections with your children.

Nov 30, 2023 • 13min
The Balance between Free Will and Control
Explore the balance between free will and control in parenting, reflecting on the impact of control in relationships. Navigate triggers, nurture autonomy, and foster loving connections with children. Delve into the dynamics of control and connection in relationships, emphasizing the importance of maintaining autonomy while building strong bonds.

Nov 28, 2023 • 34min
Case Study: Managing Emotions
Have you ever found yourself struggling to manage the needs of your children, especially when they are of different ages and require different levels of attention? Parenting can sometimes feel like a never-ending challenge, and it's not always easy to stay calm and connected with your kids, especially when you're feeling overwhelmed. Recently, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Christina, one of my Instagram followers, to discuss this very topic. Christina had a great question that I'm sure many of us can relate to: How can we regulate our emotions and stay connected with our children, even when we're feeling triggered? In this conversation, we delve into the challenges of self-regulation, dealing with sibling rivalry, and navigating bedtime battles. We share personal stories, insights, and practical tips to help you navigate the ups and downs of parenthood.🔗 Check out my masterclass Sibling Rivalry: Why What You’re Doing Is Making It WorseEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nov 23, 2023 • 15min
Navigating Tricky Holiday Moments
As we kick off the holiday season, I've got a special episode for all of you who are navigating family gatherings with kids. From questionable hugs to forced thank-yous, we explore why children shouldn't be burdened with these expectations. Today I discuss cultivating genuine connections, respecting a child's boundaries, and the power of play in diffusing tense moments. Learn how setting limits with a playful twist can transform family dynamics.And for those challenging sibling squabbles or unexpected meltdowns, discover the art of discreetly handling them without an audience. Before you embark on your family festivities, tune in to this episode for a fresh perspective on parenting during the holidays. And happy holidays from the Peace and Parenting podcast!🔗 How to Navigate the 7 Trickiest Holiday Moments🔗 The Ultimate Guide to Special TimeEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Nov 21, 2023 • 19min
Case Study: Preparing for and Recovering from Stimulating Events
Child psychology expert Shanon and host explore maintaining connection with kids in stimulating environments, handling attention-seeking behavior, and fostering cooperation without traditional discipline methods. They share insights on enhancing parent-child relationships, preparing for transitions, and prioritizing connection over directives in parenting.

Nov 16, 2023 • 10min
Ditching Distraction for Genuine Connection
Delving into parenting strategies, the podcast explores the impact of distraction on children's emotional processing. Emphasizing the power of genuine connection in everyday moments, it highlights the benefits of fostering empathy and understanding. The importance of emotional connection and resilience, as well as the positive impact on behavior and parental bond, are also discussed.

Nov 14, 2023 • 11min
Parenting Your Quiet, Self-Deprecating Kids
Are you a parent struggling to connect with a child who seems quiet, self-deprecating, and introverted in the face of challenges? You're not alone! I have been struggling with the unique dynamics of parenting children like this with my daughter, Pia.Today I’ll share my personal journey through the ups and downs of supporting Pia, who is transitioning to high school and grappling with schoolwork, low self-esteem, and a different temperament compared to her outspoken sister. The big question here is: How do we effectively communicate and connect with children who internalize their struggles and emotions?Discover the power of empathy and the art of being a safe space for your quiet, people-pleasing child. I'll share my own experiences, successes, and setbacks, and offer practical advice on how to resist the urge to fix everything and let them take responsibility for their challenges.Take a look at my upcoming 3-Day Parenting Unplugged event. Get 15% OFF for a limited time.Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy