

Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
Michelle Kenney, M. Ed
Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions. Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through solo episodes and interviews with experts and other struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.
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Jan 18, 2024 • 14min
Navigating Your Child's Unkindness with Grace
Are you a parent who struggles with how to respond when your child says hurtful things? Do you feel caught between wanting to discipline them and wanting to maintain a strong bond? What if I told you there's another approach to help you build a closer connection with your child while teaching them important life lessons?In a world where punishment and consequences are the norm, it can be hard to imagine a different way of parenting. But by using affection and play, you can turn your child's unkindness into an opportunity for growth. Today I’ll share a personal experience I had with my daughter and how I handled the situation that didn't involve apologies or reprimands. By giving your child the space to navigate their feelings of remorse on their own, you can help them learn to take responsibility for their actions and foster a deeper sense of unconditional love.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 16, 2024 • 12min
The Power of Limits and Boundaries Instead of Punishments and Rewards
Explore the essence of discipline and the power of limits and boundaries in parenting. Learn how to navigate boundaries, consequences, and connected parenting. Discover the importance of building strong connections with children through positive interactions.

Jan 11, 2024 • 14min
Breaking the 'Punching Bag' Parenting Myth
Have you ever experienced your child's unkind comments that made you feel like their emotional punching bag? In today's episode, we will delve into this common belief that we, as parents, often feel victimized by our children's behavior. Let's explore why we tend to assume this role and challenge this perception. We will examine the power dynamics between us and our little ones and see if there is a more empowering way to handle such situations.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 9, 2024 • 13min
What Is Connection and How Do I Use It in My Parenting
Delve into the magic of connection in parenting, focusing on quality time and nurturing, empathy to address behaviors, positive parenting practices, and the shift towards connection-based parenting. Join the 30-day challenge for a holistic parenting transformation.

Jan 4, 2024 • 10min
The College Conundrum: Unveiling the Myths Around College and Success
Do you feel society’s pressure pushing our kids to go to college? Well, today on the Peace and Parenting Podcast I want to break free from the college-or-bust narrative! In this episode, I dive deep into the pressures our children face to go to college, not just in the U.S., but across the globe. My daughter, Esme, recently faced the daunting decision of leaving for college, sparking a candid conversation at our dinner table. From alternative paths like community college to challenging the link between grades and success, we explore the liberating notion that success isn't one-size-fits-all. So, are we overloading our children with expectations, or are we nurturing their individuality?🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 2, 2024 • 15min
Replacing “Good Mom” Syndrome for Good Enough
Imagine this: you're at the grocery store, your child throws an unexpected tantrum, and suddenly, you feel the judgmental eyes of society on you. I get it; I've been there. In this episode I unravel the myth of the "good mom" and the relentless pressure we put on ourselves. Together, we'll explore the historical roots of this pressure, the need for control, and the generational traumas we unknowingly carry. Let's break free from the cycle of judgment and embrace the imperfect, beautiful journey of parenthood. It's time to be the "good enough" parent for our kids and ourselves.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 28, 2023 • 34min
The D-Word: When and How to Navigate a Divorce (With Kate Anthony)
Are you currently in a toxic relationship, but you're staying in it for the sake of your children? Today, I am joined by Kate Anthony, the author of "The D-Word," as we explore the topic of divorce, co-parenting, and the difficult decision-making process that many women have to go through when considering divorce. Kate shares her insights on toxic marriages, societal roles, and how they can affect children. As a divorced parent myself, we both share our personal experiences, discussing our challenges and victories. Kate shares the biggest mistake she made when going through her divorce. If you are considering the D-Word, our conversation might help you understand the complexities of divorce and offer you some guidance and a deeper understanding of this life-changing decision.🔗 Check out Kate’s book “The D-Word” here: https://kateanthony.com/dword/🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 26, 2023 • 10min
My 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge for You
Discover how small moments of connection with your kids can transform your relationship. Join the 30-Day Parenting Challenge for personalized support and resources on connected parenting. Embrace a supportive community for successful parenting and make 2024 the year of connected parenting

Dec 21, 2023 • 30min
How to Play With Your Tweens and Teens (with Mary Van Geffen)
Are you struggling to bridge the gap with your older kids through play? Today I am joined by parenting coach Mary Van Geffen in a beautiful conversation that explores the magic of play, especially with the often misunderstood tweens and teens. Mary unveils the secrets of connecting with "spicy" children through play, emphasizing its role as their love language. From penguin wrestling to dance parties, Mary and I share practical tips, creative play ideas, and some unconventional approaches that can turn everyday moments into opportunities for connection.🔗 Check out Mary’s Tweens & Teens Class or her other classes on offer at her website www.maryvangeffen.comEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowBuy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 19, 2023 • 17min
Why I Don’t Use Rewards-Based Systems When Parenting
Are you using star charts or food rewards to motivate your kids? Do you think it's making a difference in how they respond? Today I want to take you on a reflective journey into the world of parenting strategies. Drawing from my teaching experience, I question the effectiveness of these methods and explore the individual responses our children have to them. I’ll share the long-term effects of relying on external motivators and uncover the transformative power of connected parenting. It’s time to rethink praise language and engage in conversations that go beyond the surface, delving into the heart of our children's feelings, processes, and learning experiences. Get ready for a thought-provoking exploration that could redefine your parenting approach! 🔗 Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowBuy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy