
Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, you’ll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions. Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through solo episodes and interviews with experts and other struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.
Latest episodes

Jan 9, 2024 • 13min
What Is Connection and How Do I Use It in My Parenting
Delve into the magic of connection in parenting, focusing on quality time and nurturing, empathy to address behaviors, positive parenting practices, and the shift towards connection-based parenting. Join the 30-day challenge for a holistic parenting transformation.

Jan 4, 2024 • 10min
The College Conundrum: Unveiling the Myths Around College and Success
Do you feel society’s pressure pushing our kids to go to college? Well, today on the Peace and Parenting Podcast I want to break free from the college-or-bust narrative! In this episode, I dive deep into the pressures our children face to go to college, not just in the U.S., but across the globe. My daughter, Esme, recently faced the daunting decision of leaving for college, sparking a candid conversation at our dinner table. From alternative paths like community college to challenging the link between grades and success, we explore the liberating notion that success isn't one-size-fits-all. So, are we overloading our children with expectations, or are we nurturing their individuality?🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 2, 2024 • 15min
Replacing “Good Mom” Syndrome for Good Enough
Imagine this: you're at the grocery store, your child throws an unexpected tantrum, and suddenly, you feel the judgmental eyes of society on you. I get it; I've been there. In this episode I unravel the myth of the "good mom" and the relentless pressure we put on ourselves. Together, we'll explore the historical roots of this pressure, the need for control, and the generational traumas we unknowingly carry. Let's break free from the cycle of judgment and embrace the imperfect, beautiful journey of parenthood. It's time to be the "good enough" parent for our kids and ourselves.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 28, 2023 • 34min
The D-Word: When and How to Navigate a Divorce (With Kate Anthony)
Are you currently in a toxic relationship, but you're staying in it for the sake of your children? Today, I am joined by Kate Anthony, the author of "The D-Word," as we explore the topic of divorce, co-parenting, and the difficult decision-making process that many women have to go through when considering divorce. Kate shares her insights on toxic marriages, societal roles, and how they can affect children. As a divorced parent myself, we both share our personal experiences, discussing our challenges and victories. Kate shares the biggest mistake she made when going through her divorce. If you are considering the D-Word, our conversation might help you understand the complexities of divorce and offer you some guidance and a deeper understanding of this life-changing decision.🔗 Check out Kate’s book “The D-Word” here: https://kateanthony.com/dword/🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 26, 2023 • 10min
My 30-Day Connected Parenting Challenge for You
Discover how small moments of connection with your kids can transform your relationship. Join the 30-Day Parenting Challenge for personalized support and resources on connected parenting. Embrace a supportive community for successful parenting and make 2024 the year of connected parenting

Dec 21, 2023 • 30min
How to Play With Your Tweens and Teens (with Mary Van Geffen)
Are you struggling to bridge the gap with your older kids through play? Today I am joined by parenting coach Mary Van Geffen in a beautiful conversation that explores the magic of play, especially with the often misunderstood tweens and teens. Mary unveils the secrets of connecting with "spicy" children through play, emphasizing its role as their love language. From penguin wrestling to dance parties, Mary and I share practical tips, creative play ideas, and some unconventional approaches that can turn everyday moments into opportunities for connection.🔗 Check out Mary’s Tweens & Teens Class or her other classes on offer at her website www.maryvangeffen.comEnjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowBuy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 19, 2023 • 17min
Why I Don’t Use Rewards-Based Systems When Parenting
Are you using star charts or food rewards to motivate your kids? Do you think it's making a difference in how they respond? Today I want to take you on a reflective journey into the world of parenting strategies. Drawing from my teaching experience, I question the effectiveness of these methods and explore the individual responses our children have to them. I’ll share the long-term effects of relying on external motivators and uncover the transformative power of connected parenting. It’s time to rethink praise language and engage in conversations that go beyond the surface, delving into the heart of our children's feelings, processes, and learning experiences. Get ready for a thought-provoking exploration that could redefine your parenting approach! 🔗 Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowBuy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dec 14, 2023 • 24min
Case Study: A Playful Approach to Discipline
The podcast discusses a parent's struggle with a child who refuses to communicate during tough moments. It focuses on shifting from consequences to connection, catering to a strong-willed child's sensitivities, and reducing the weight of shame.

Dec 12, 2023 • 14min
Why I Talk to the Aggressive Child First
Discover the importance of addressing the needs of an aggressive child first in conflicts, emphasizing connection and empathy over punishment. Explore real-life strategies for fostering positive behavior changes and effective emotional regulation techniques.

Dec 7, 2023 • 23min
Case Study: The Sibling Argument Dilemma
Shannon seeks advice on handling sibling rivalry between her daughters. The podcast explores resolving conflicts by addressing the aggressor first. It discusses family dynamics, understanding roots of rivalry for stronger bonds, and effective strategies for fostering healthy relationships.