
Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments
Are you sick of parenting with the ideas of yelling and shame and looking for something that feels better, is different, but still has a sense of boundaries and limits?Welcome to Peace and Parenting! Michelle is a former teacher, counselor, certified parenting coach, mom of two teens, recovering yeller, and perfectionist who parents without using punishments altogether. And guess what? It works! On this show, youโll learn the how behind having kids who are entirely UNPUNISHED but who are also successful, kind, loving, and know how to follow directions. Twice a week, Michelle shares her insights and expertise on connective parenting through solo episodes and interviews with experts and other struggling parents. If you have exhausted all other options and don't know what to do next, this could be the parenting strategy you've been searching for.
Latest episodes

Feb 13, 2024 โข 15min
8 Phrases You Shouldnโt Say to an Upset Child
Explore the impact of words on a child's emotional well-being during distress. Uncover phrases that hinder rather than help, like 'use your words' and 'calm down'. Learn the importance of listening, validating emotions, and providing a supportive environment for children to grow.

Feb 8, 2024 โข 20min
7 Things Connected Parents DONโT Do
The podcast discusses avoiding rushing to children's rescue, not dismissing their emotions, and fostering resilience through mistakes. It also explores the effects of praise on children's behavior and encourages age-appropriate risks for growth. Balancing risk and independence in parenting is highlighted, emphasizing the importance of trust and fostering independence.

Feb 6, 2024 โข 13min
Preparing Our Children for the Real World
Have you ever wondered if our loving and nurturing parenting style prepares our kids for the harsh realities of the real world? Well, let's dive into this important discussion today as I explore a fascinating question from a concerned dad: How does our parenting method equip our children to face a world that might not be as gentle as our homes?From the very first moments of life, our children start understanding the real world โ from a hospital delivery room to preschool dramas and adolescent struggles. Our goal isn't to mirror the harshness of the outside world in our relationships with our children but rather to create a loving and sacred space where they feel safe to share their ups and downs. Join me as I unravel a key strategy for building resilience: empathy. Discover how providing a safe haven at home, where feelings are validated and understood, helps our children navigate life's challenges.๐ Join my new Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.๐ Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now๐ Enjoy todayโs episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.๐ Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Feb 1, 2024 โข 15min
Break Free from Rewards and Punishments
Explore the shift from rewards and punishments to building genuine connections with children. Learn about the importance of long-term parenting goals and the power of empathy and positive reinforcement in fostering cooperation and support in parenting.

Jan 30, 2024 โข 15min
How to Raise Resilient Kids
Exploring the impact of shame on parenting and raising resilient kids, the podcast challenges traditional methods by discussing internal shame, guilt, and the cycle of punishment. It advocates for creating nurturing environments and supporting children through mistakes to promote independence and resilience.

Jan 25, 2024 โข 15min
You Can Trust Your Kids, Hereโs Why
Hey there, amazing parents! Ever wondered if you could truly trust your child's moral compass, especially when they seem to make those tiny, questionable decisions? Today we're diving into a profound exploration of why trusting our little ones is the key to unlocking a beautiful parent-child relationship.Many believe that children are too young to understand the difference between right and wrong. However, did you know that by the age of two, they have already learned a significant amount about morality from observing us? And here's the catch - what if the key to nurturing good behavior in our children isn't constant correction, but rather unwavering trust? If you've ever doubted your child's inherent goodness, this episode is an invitation to see them in the best possible light. Trust your child, and they will trust you in return.๐ Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now๐ Enjoy todayโs episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.๐ Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 23, 2024 โข 14min
The Power of Being the Safe Parent
Explore the beauty of raising authentic children who make mistakes and express their true feelings. Learn about the delicate balance between connection and consequences, and the magic of secure relationships that allow for growth. Join the heartfelt journey of parenting beyond perfection, embracing the messy reality of raising resilient souls.

Jan 18, 2024 โข 14min
Navigating Your Child's Unkindness with Grace
Are you a parent who struggles with how to respond when your child says hurtful things? Do you feel caught between wanting to discipline them and wanting to maintain a strong bond? What if I told you there's another approach to help you build a closer connection with your child while teaching them important life lessons?In a world where punishment and consequences are the norm, it can be hard to imagine a different way of parenting. But by using affection and play, you can turn your child's unkindness into an opportunity for growth. Today Iโll share a personal experience I had with my daughter and how I handled the situation that didn't involve apologies or reprimands. By giving your child the space to navigate their feelings of remorse on their own, you can help them learn to take responsibility for their actions and foster a deeper sense of unconditional love.๐ Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy todayโs episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Jan 16, 2024 โข 12min
The Power of Limits and Boundaries Instead of Punishments and Rewards
Explore the essence of discipline and the power of limits and boundaries in parenting. Learn how to navigate boundaries, consequences, and connected parenting. Discover the importance of building strong connections with children through positive interactions.

Jan 11, 2024 โข 14min
Breaking the 'Punching Bag' Parenting Myth
Have you ever experienced your child's unkind comments that made you feel like their emotional punching bag? In today's episode, we will delve into this common belief that we, as parents, often feel victimized by our children's behavior. Let's explore why we tend to assume this role and challenge this perception. We will examine the power dynamics between us and our little ones and see if there is a more empowering way to handle such situations.๐ Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team nowEnjoy todayโs episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.Buy my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupApple PodcastsSpotifyAmazon MusicInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy