Modern Masculinity

Ben Gibson explores the intersection of physical pursuits and fatherhood. He shares his own experiences and struggles in balancing his ambition and responsibility as a dad. Ben emphasizes the importance of doing cool shit and integrating passions into family life. He highlights the need to communicate with partners, create comprehensive plans, and adapt to challenges. Ben Gibson ultimately aims to inspire and empower fathers to live fulfilling lives while being present for their families.Chapters:00:00:00 Unpacking Modern Masculinity and Fatherhood with Ben Gibson00:01:10 The Adventure Sports Dad: Walking the Line of Ambition & Parenting00:03:30 The Multi-Faceted Man: Fatherhood, Marriage, and Being a Provider00:04:55 Juggling Work, Passion Projects, and Family Time00:06:42 Chasing Physical Goals: Reframing Masculine Ambition00:09:18 Mountain Escapes: Finding Deeper Connections and Fulfillment00:10:35 Honoring Past Generations While Carving New Paths00:12:43 Today's Man: Striking a Balance between Duty and Passion00:14:49 Rekindling the Spirit: The Need for Adventurous Pursuits00:19:42 Entrepreneur Dad: Weighing Risks and Rewards00:21:36 Fatherhood & Adventure: Keeping the Spark Alive00:24:13 Real Talk: Evaluating Priorities and Taking Time for Self-Reflection00:27:13 The Pitfalls of Overlooking Important Conversations00:30:00 Parenthood Vs. Career: Striking the Right Balance00:32:04 Crafting the Narrative of the "Athlete Dad"00:35:05 Navigating Ambition and Finding True Fulfillment00:36:18 Celebrating the Transformative Role of Present FathersLinks And Resources:Ben's LinkedInThe Athlete Dad Ben's Instagram The Athlete Dad Instagram Hector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Jesse Harless, an expert in addiction and trauma, shares his personal journey and insights into the world of addiction recovery. He discusses the challenges faced by entrepreneurs and the importance of marketing one's business in the face of adversity. Jesse also sheds light on the male mental health crisis and its connection to addiction. He emphasizes the role of self-love and community in the recovery process and highlights the potential benefits of integrating plant medicine into addiction recovery. Jesse offers thought-provoking perspectives on addiction and provides valuable insights for listeners seeking guidance in their own recovery journeys.Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction: Jesse Harless's Expertise in Addiction & Trauma00:04:49 Challenges Men Face: Overcoming People Pleasing00:10:04 From Survival to Heartfelt Connection: Changing Mindsets00:11:42 Compassion's Crucial Role in Supporting the Struggling00:17:11 Reaching a Pivotal Moment: Recognizing the Need for Help00:19:03 The Crossroads: Long-term Recovery & Psychedelic Medicines00:20:55 Recovery’s Path: Laying the Groundwork for Deep Integration00:23:34 Welcoming Life's Twists in the Recovery Journey00:26:27 Diving Deeper: Questioning Personal Beliefs & Integration00:30:27 Navigating Powerful Experiences & Holistic Growth in RecoveryLinks And Resources:Jesse HarlessLinkedInEntrepreneurs in Recovery PodcastEntrepreneurs in Recovery Podcast YouTube Schedule a One-on-One with JesseIf Not You, Then Who? by Jesse Harless Smash Your Comfort Zone with Cold Showers by Jesse HarlessHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Dom the Hypnotist explores the power of hypnotism and self-hypnosis for personal growth. He discusses the challenges of company growth and remote leadership, his brief stint at Google Maps, and overcoming failure and embracing change. Dom also shares the success and controversy surrounding sleep hypnosis for business owners and salespeople, as well as the power of affirmations and overcoming subconscious blocks. He emphasizes the importance of open-mindedness in finding a partner and provides an overview of a membership program with hypnotherapy services. Dom's unexpected journey into hypnosis is discussed, along with his accelerated goals of transitioning to full-time hypnotherapy in just three months. Chapters:00:00:00 Meet Dom: Unleashing the Power of Hypnotism for Personal Development00:01:22 Hypnotism Unveiled: Harnessing Unconventional Tools for Self-improvement00:03:45 Redefining Masculinity: A New Age Approach00:09:36 Dom's Unexpected Odyssey: The Hypnosis Journey00:12:01 Triumph Through Hypnosis: Dom's Unexpected Success00:14:58 Blindsided: Surprising Discoveries in the NFL00:19:59 Epiphany: Client's Awakening to the Power of Language Transformations00:22:18 Breaking Barriers: Overcoming Subconscious Limitations00:27:24 The Hunt for an Equal Partner: The Significance of Avoiding Distortion00:32:00 Spiritual Transformation: From Skeptic to Healer in HypnotherapyLinks And Resources:YouTubeDom the Hypnotist on LinkedinDom the Hypnotist Apple AppDom the Hypnotist Google AppHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Philip Folsom, a leadership and culture consultant, shares insights on navigating the hero's journey to find freedom and meaning. He discusses the challenges men face in a shifting cultural landscape and the importance of embracing traditional masculine archetypes. Philip emphasizes the need for men to take ownership of their lives, overcome self-sabotage, and break free from the limitations imposed by societal expectations. Through self-awareness, resiliency, and initiation processes, men can step into their full potential and live lives of purpose and significance.Chapters:00:00:00 Diving into Timeless Archetypes of Masculinity: An Introduction to Philip Folsom00:02:33 Navigating Leadership: Unpacking Contemporary Challenges in Various Roles00:03:44 Transitioning Challenges: From Structured Environments to the Unknown00:07:00 Power of Unity: Community, Shared Values and the Formation of Purposeful Men's Groups00:10:04 Building the Brotherhood: Four Stages of Establishing a Supportive Culture00:11:33 Honor vs Pride: An Exploration of Differing Cultural Perspectives00:14:10 Silent Suffering: Addressing the Critical State of Men's Mental Health00:17:07 Holistic Approach: Connecting Health, Relationships, and Life Goals00:19:57 The Hero's Weight: Embracing Responsibility and Personal Accountability00:25:35 Breaking Ancestral Chains: The Hero's Redemption Journey towards Freedom00:26:54 Consciousness and Awareness: Key Ingredients for Finding Personal Freedom and Meaning00:32:47 Masculinity through Ages: Its Evolution and Influence in Ancient and Contemporary Narratives00:35:28 The Role of Boundaries: Discussing Absence of Fatherhood Initiation in Modern CultureLinks And Resources:King of the Four Houses My Wolf TribePhilip Folsom on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Ted Rensaw discusses the challenges he is currently facing in understanding what it means to be a "real man" and in promoting the importance of fathers in today's society. He explores the misconceptions around masculinity and the cultural stereotypes that hinder the progression of healthy masculinity. Ted also emphasizes the need for men to have strong connections with other men for support, growth, and the sharing of experiences.Chapters:00:00:00 Introduction: The Journey Towards Better Understanding of Masculinity00:04:16 Examining Society's Binary View of 'Alpha' and 'Beta' Males00:06:49 The Role of Community Support in the Alpha Male Paradigm00:09:36 Debunking Myths: Alpha Males and Parenthood00:11:53 Finding the Right Resources and Support for Fathers00:13:57 The Absence of Positive Portrayals of Fatherhood in Media00:18:24 Wrestling with Feelings: The Complex Emotions Tied to Fatherly Affection00:21:43 Navigating Relationship Changes Amid Women's Empowerment00:23:50 The Shifting Grounds of Financial Stability and Family Roles00:26:13 Insights on Relationship Dynamics and Perceptions of Military Service00:28:56 The Lifeline of Social Networks: A Key to Survival00:32:41 The Significance of Male Relationships, Particularly for Fathers00:33:57 The Magic of Male Solidarity through Shared Fatherhood Experiences00:37:01 Rethinking Fatherhood: A Plea for Redefined MasculinityLinks And Resources:Mindful Teaching PracticesTed Rensaw on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Alan Heymann, an executive and leadership coach, about the evolving nature of masculinity and the challenges that men face in today's world. Alan discusses his book, "The Soup Book," which offers 52 analogies for leadership and personal development. He emphasizes the importance of questioning traditional gender roles and expectations and finding a balance between personal well-being and fulfilling responsibilities as a man, whether it be as a husband, father, or leader.Chapters:00:00:00 Deciphering Contemporary Masculinity: Insights and Challenges00:02:54 Masculinity in Flux: Rebalancing Traditional Roles00:05:42 Striving for Balance: Seeking Aid During Trying Times00:08:35 Rethinking Gender: Challenging Stereotypes and Redefining Masculinity00:11:49 Leadership Dynamics: Striking a Balance between Authority and Empathy00:13:45 Unmasking Relationship Perspectives: A Deep Dive into Ingrained Beliefs00:15:20 The Potency of Analogies: Enhancing Coaching Dialogues00:17:32 Progressing Leadership Styles: Transitioning from Authoritative Structures00:20:20 Valuing Individual Contributions: Defying Pre-set Societal Norms00:25:26 Handling Life's Complexities: A Guide to Navigate through Slippery Situations00:27:55 Bite-sized Wisdom: A Comprehensive, User-friendly Collection for Personal GrowthLinks And Resources:Alan Heymann on LinkedIn Peaceful DirectionHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

We dive deep into the heart of modern masculinity, exploring the intricate balance of personal growth and parenting. We share our experiences as husbands, fathers, and professionals, navigating the complexities of mental health, setting healthy boundaries, and the profound impact of our actions on future generations. We're not just talking about the surface-level stuff here; we're peeling back the layers to reveal the raw, authentic challenges and triumphs of being a man in today's world. It's a journey of self-discovery, a call to action, and a testament to the power of open dialogue. Chapters:00:00:00 - Kickoff of our deep dive into modern masculinity00:04:09 - Meet our guest: A man juggling roles as a family man, podcaster, and servant00:07:03 - The balancing act: Navigating parenting and professional life00:10:31 - The power of intentional wishing and the importance of self-care00:14:23 - Looking beyond titles: Finding personal validation beyond material success00:18:44 - From selfishness to selflessness: The journey of becoming a responsible father00:21:03 - The art of giving: Exploring generosity with expectations00:25:57 - The pitfalls of seeking validation and how to navigate them00:27:49 - A second chance at life: Living vicariously through your children00:32:26 - Parenting as a spiritual investment: Shaping future generations00:34:40 - Shifting gears: Priorities, long-term vision, and the journey of self-discovery00:38:29 - Navigating the social media age: The need for real connection and purpose00:40:24 - Embracing intentionality: Finding fulfillment in life and parenting00:42:17 - The balancing act revisited: Juggling parenthood and personal dreams00:44:29 - Amplifying the conversation: Promoting meaningful discussions on modern masculinity00:45:50 - The transformative experience of fatherhood00:47:00 - The quest for true fulfillment and purpose in lifeLinks And Resources:The Modern ManTed Phaeton on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban sits down with Brian Page to discuss the evolving dynamics of modern households. They delve into the challenges and adjustments that come with dual-income households, where traditional gender roles are shifting. They discuss managing money, household chores, and fostering a more equitable relationship at home. Chapters:00:00:00 - Gratitude and Reflection: Starting the Modern Masculinity Journey00:01:59 - The Modern Husband: Pioneering Conversations on Modern Masculinity00:05:01 - Redefining Masculinity: The Shift towards Collaboration in Work and Family Life00:06:41 - Happiness in Marriage: Insights from a Cambridge University Study00:10:18 - Breaking Stereotypes: The Disconnect between Money and Masculinity00:16:05 - The Social Media Impact: Challenges of Validation and Gender Roles00:17:32 - Shifting Paradigms: Challenging Traditional Gender Roles and Household Responsibilities00:22:21 - The Path to Financial Happiness: Balancing Household Responsibilities00:24:02 - Equitable Relationships at Home: A Documentary Perspective00:27:22 - The Modern Husband: A Guide to Managing Money and Home Life for CouplesLinks And Resources:Brian Page on LinkedInModern HusbandsModern Husbands PodcastHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

In this episode of Modern Masculinity, Hector Santiesteban joined by Mac Scotty McGregor. They discuss the challenges and opportunities of navigating masculinity in today's world, with a particular focus on self-care, emotional expression, and societal expectations. McGregor shares his personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of balance, communication, and self-definition in expressing masculinity. Chapters:00:00:00 The Necessity of Regular Health Checkups for Men00:03:49 The Journey of Male Evolution: Balancing Communication and Responsibilities00:06:12 Redefining Masculinity: The Role of Nurturing in Relationships00:09:09 Lessons from a Patient Mentor00:14:19 The Impact of Gender Roles and Societal Expectations on Men00:16:44 The Clash of Expectations and Traditional Values in Florida00:20:47 Celebrating Diversity in Gender Expression: The Spectrum of Masculinity and Femininity00:26:26 The Need for Men to Find Stress Relief MethodsLinks And Resources:Website Mac Scotty McGregor on LinkedIn Positive Masculinity Now Hector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

In this thought-provoking episode of the Modern Masculinity podcast, host Hector Santiesteban engages in a deep conversation with guest Ed Frauenheim. They delve into the complexities of modern masculinity, discussing the challenges men face in defining their roles and identities in today's society. The episode explores personal growth, societal expectations, and the evolving concept of masculinity, offering a fresh perspective on what it means to be a man in the 21st century.Chapters:00:00:00: Unveiling the Importance of Men Discovering Their Internal Callings and Compass00:03:36: Navigating the Emotional Toll of Taxes and Surprise Debt00:07:21: The Modern Struggle: Defining Masculinity Amidst Confusion, Regression, and Hope00:09:55: Breaking the Mold: A New Flavor of Masculinity Beyond Traditional Stereotypes00:11:29: Challenging the Norm: Embracing a Fuller Life Beyond Traditional Gender Roles00:12:48: The Involved Parent: Finding Fulfillment by Challenging Traditional Gender Roles00:16:38: Walking the Tightrope: Balancing Responsibility and Ambition in Relationships00:18:16: Breaking Free: Rediscovering the Internal Life Beyond External Expectations00:20:44: Connecting with Ed Frauenheim: Sharing His Book and Ways to Connect on LinkedIn and His WebsiteLinks And Resources:Website Reinventing MasculinityEd Frauenheim on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!