

Modern Masculinity
Hector Santiesteban
"Modern Masculinity" is a podcast that explores the real-life challenges that men face today. Whether it's balancing work and family, figuring out how to be a good husband or father, or just trying to make sense of the world - this show is for guys looking for practical, down-to-earth advice and guidance. The podcast discusses the struggles and triumphs of modern manhood and features interviews with men (and women) who can share their methods and mindsets to maneuver the world as a modern man.
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Jan 30, 2024 • 37min
Mindset: Exploring Compassionate Masculinity with Sean Harvey
Sean Harvey shares his insights about redefining masculinity in today's world. Harvey, a pioneer in promoting compassionate masculinity, shares his experiences and perspectives on transforming traditional notions of manhood. The discussion goes deep into the importance of vulnerability, love, and spirituality in reshaping male identity, challenging listeners to rethink their own beliefs about strength and masculinity. Harvey's unique approach of integrating compassion into hyper-masculine environments offers a fresh and necessary perspective, making this episode a compelling listen for anyone interested in the evolution of masculine roles in contemporary society.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Modern Masculinity00:00:46 - Meet Sean Harvey: Redefining Masculine Strength00:02:14 - Practical Spirituality: A New Lens on Masculinity00:04:44 - Challenging Stereotypes in Hyper-Masculine Spaces00:06:05 - Storytelling: A Tool for Masculine Transformation00:12:44 - Sean's Personal Journey: From Warrior to Healer00:14:23 - Spirituality's Role in Rethinking Manhood00:18:57 - Community Support: Essential for Authentic Growth00:25:41 - Love as a Catalyst for Masculine Evolution00:35:10 - Wrap-Up: Envisioning a New Era of ManhoodLinks And Resources:Warrior CompassionSean Harvey on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Jan 23, 2024 • 39min
Career: How to get a 2000% Raise with John Cerasani
Hector engages in a profound conversation with guest John Cerasani, a paradigm of entrepreneurial spirit and personal resilience. John candidly recounts his journey from a secure corporate position to the dynamic world of entrepreneurship, embodying the essence of modern masculinity. His story is not just about business success; it's a multifaceted tale of overcoming obstacles, redefining personal and professional life, and the art of balancing the roles of a single parent and a business leader. John Cerasani is a beacon for those yearning for a shift in their career, seeking to blend ambition with personal values, and aspiring to harmonize professional goals with personal well-being. It’s an essential listen for anyone on the cusp of transformation, offering a blend of inspiration, practical insights, and a fresh perspective on what it means to be successful in today’s world.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Modern Masculinity00:00:39 - Meet John Cerasani: From Corporate Employee to Entrepreneur00:01:16 - John's Pivotal Shift: Trials and Triumphs in the Entrepreneurial World00:02:37 - Single Dad, Entrepreneur: Juggling Parenting and Business00:04:24 - Adapting to Life's Twists: John's Personal Insights00:06:41 - Behind the Scenes: Truths of Corporate Life00:10:03 - John's Bold Decision: The Leap from Corporate to Freedom00:13:00 - Overcoming Hurdles and Excuses in Leaving the 9-500:19:08 - Independent Mortgage: A New Business Frontier00:19:43 - Demystifying the Corporate Ladder Illusion00:21:42 - Risks of Showcasing Success Too Publicly00:23:48 - Mastering the Art of Sales and Prospecting00:28:37 - John's Health and Fitness Journey as an Entrepreneur00:30:42 - Examining the Impact of Modern Diet Trends00:36:44 - Redefining Modern Masculinity Through EntrepreneurshipLinks And Resources:John on InstagramJohn on LinkedIn2000 Percent RaiseJohn on TwitterJohn on TikTokPaid Training by John CerasaniHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Jan 16, 2024 • 43min
Fitness: How Fitness and Mental Health Are Interconnected with Sam Burns
Sam Burns, a father and fitness enthusiast, discusses the vital connection between physical fitness and mental health. He emphasizes the challenges of balancing personal goals and family time, and the importance of incorporating fitness into a busy schedule. Sam also explores the relationship between fitness and modern masculinity, promoting a holistic approach to health and well-being.

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Jan 9, 2024 • 41min
Spirituality: Why a Daily Practice is Necessary with Troy Lavinia
Troy Lavinia, founder of Daily SOS, discusses his journey as an entrepreneur and the power of practical spirituality. He shares the five key areas of life to focus on, creating a vision board, tapping into universal life force, and using spiritual and creative tools for growth. Troy also reveals his daily huddle routine and strategies for success.

Jan 2, 2024 • 31min
Fitness: How Your Environment Has an Impact on Your Health with Julio Almanza
We talk to Julio "JC" Almanza, a former gang member, drug addict, and prisoner who turned his life around and became a fitness coach, author, and speaker. JC shares his incredible story of how he overcame his anger, guilt, and demons, and found God, love, and peace in his heart. He also reveals how he uses his hard work, discipline, and consistency to achieve his goals and help others do the same. JC is the founder of Wrong to Strong, a movement that aims to inspire and empower people who are struggling with their past or present circumstances. He also volunteers at prisons, rehabs, homeless shelters, and schools, where he mentors and teaches others how to transform their lives. JC is a living example of what it means to be a man in today’s world, and he has a lot of wisdom and insight to share with us.Chapters:00:00:00 - Introduction to Julio "JC" Almanza's Inspiring Journey00:04:50 - Spiritual Awakening: The Core of Julio’s Transformation00:08:33 - Redefining Masculinity: An Approach to Personal Development00:10:36 - Discipline & Structure: Foundations of Julio’s New Life00:12:00 - The Role of Environment and Community in Personal Change00:26:46 - "Wrong to Strong": Julio’s Path from Prison to Empowerment00:29:22 - Conclusion with Insights and TakeawaysLinks And Resources:Julio Almanza on LinkedInJulio Almanza on InstagramJulio Almanza on FacebookWrong to Strong by JC AlmanzaHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Dec 29, 2023 • 44min
Relationships: How to Embody Modern Masculinity with Jasper Brown
Hector engages with Jasper Brown in a discussion about the complexities and evolution of masculinity in the modern world. Jasper, a respected voice on men's issues, shares his journey through personal challenges and triumphs, offering insights into how men today can balance traditional masculine virtues with emotional intelligence and spiritual growth. They discuss themes such as the impact of societal shifts on male identity, the necessity of healing and personal development, and the cultivation of fulfilling relationships and purposeful living. Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to the Modern Masculinity Podcast00:00:57 - Meet Jasper Brown: A Guiding Voice in Men's Evolution00:02:39 - Jasper's Personal Odyssey: Challenges and Triumphs00:05:56 - Redefining Gender: The Shift in Masculine and Feminine Roles00:08:34 - Embracing Healing and the Quest for Self-Discovery00:10:33 - Childhood Influences and Their Impact on Adult Relationships00:18:18 - Mastering Communication: Key to Strengthening Relationships00:20:36 - Finding Purpose: Steering Life with Clarity and Direction00:22:47 - Societal Influences: Shaping and Reshaping Male Identity00:29:01 - Rediscovering and Embracing True Masculinity00:33:49 - Balancing Emotional Wellness with Masculine Activities00:37:53 - Wrapping Up: Key Insights and Takeaways on Modern ManhoodLinks And Resources:Jasper Brown on InstagramMen's Groups & CoachingThe Legendary LoverJasper on YouTubeHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Dec 19, 2023 • 46min
Parenting: Why Raising Kids Today is Different Than Ever Before with Karl Schmieder
Karl Schmieder, successful entrepreneur and father of three, discusses his journey in molecular biology, fitness secrets including fasting and working out, and balancing professional and personal life. He shares insights on personal development, self-care, and navigating life's challenges. The podcast also explores the impact of food consumption on health, advancements in cancer treatment, and the importance of adaptability and inclusivity in modern masculinity.

Dec 15, 2023 • 59min
Philosophy: How a Different Perspective Can Change Your Life with Rocco Jarman
Join Hector Santiesteban, as he chats with Rocco Jarman, a visionary who questions conventional wisdom and advocates for ethical leadership. They discuss the nuances of masculinity, and how to live by ethics and morals in a chaotic world. Rocco reveals his secrets on how to overcome life’s obstacles, stay true to yourself, and lead with love. Rocco shares his wisdom on personal growth, the challenges of being a man in today’s world, and the quest for self-actualization. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from these inspiring men.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to the podcast and what it’s about00:00:47 - Meet Rocco Harmon, a visionary and ethical leader00:01:56 - How Rocco questions conventional wisdom and lives by his morals00:03:24 - Journey of Personal Growth and Self-Actualization00:07:54 - Insights and Struggles in Parenthood and Partnership00:10:29 - Ethical Approach to Creating Online Value00:13:21 - Analyzing Social Media's Impact on Authenticity00:21:48 - Dissecting Rapid Changes in Technology and Society00:28:39 - Anticipating the Inevitable Breakdown and Purging of Systems00:30:15 - Discussing the Philosophy of Reason and Knowledge Limitations00:32:32 - Exploring Hermetic Laws and the Pitfalls of Binary Thinking00:35:38 - Advocating for Empathy and Broader Perspectives00:41:45 - Providing Tips on Discernment and Avoiding Distractions00:47:45 - Sharing Breathwork Experiences and Benefits00:49:07 - Reflecting on the Cycle of Life and Personal Development00:54:49 - Highlighting the Importance of Integrating Experiences for Growth00:58:19 - Inviting Listeners to Join the Quest for a Better WayLinks And Resources:LinkedInEyes Wide Open Life PodcastA Better Way Stepping Through by Rocco JarmanEyes Wide Open Life My MojoDojo Life Keeper of the Flame by Rocco Jarman Rocco's Music - RocketSprocket on Spotify Hector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Dec 5, 2023 • 42min
Fitness: Why Martial Arts Are Important for a Man’s Development with Paul Tokgozoglu
Paul Tokgozoglu, a dedicated Jiu-Jitsu practitioner and entrepreneur, shares his unique perspective on how martial arts, specifically Jiu-Jitsu, intertwine with personal growth, resilience, and self-discovery. Exploring themes like the balance between masculine and feminine energies, the importance of community in martial arts, and the parallels between combat sports and life's various challenges, Paul provides a thought-provoking look at how Jiu-Jitsu transcends being just a sport. His journey from the military to embracing his calling in martial arts, along with his insights into parenting, spirituality, and mental health, makes for a compelling narrative that resonates deeply with anyone seeking growth and balance in their lives.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Modern Masculinity: Exploring Growth and Balance00:00:06 - Introducing Today's Theme: Martial Arts as a Life Journey00:00:45 - Meet Paul Tokgozoglu: Jiu-Jitsu Expert and Entrepreneur00:01:49 - Integrating Parenting, Martial Arts Philosophy, and Spirituality00:02:53 - Insights from Paul's ADCC Trials Experience00:04:25 - Embracing Loss as a Lesson in Resilience00:08:36 - Cultivating a Growth Mindset through Martial Arts00:10:58 - Jiu-Jitsu: Beyond Combat to Personal Discovery00:13:59 - The Importance of Community in Martial Arts Practice00:19:50 - How Martial Arts Builds Confidence and Strength00:22:09 - Analyzing Jiu-Jitsu as an Intellectual Pursuit00:24:16 - Discussing the Evolutionary Hunter Concept00:26:21 - Examining Stages of Manhood through Jiu-Jitsu00:28:41 - Fundamentals of Jiu-Jitsu in Life and Business00:31:33 - Jiu-Jitsu as a Metaphor for Life's Challenges00:36:15 - Experiencing the Power of Training Outdoors00:39:33 - Behind the Scenes: The Jiu-Jitsu Outlet Story00:41:10 - Wrapping Up: Paul's Vision and Future ProjectsLinks And Resources:Paul Tokgozoglu on LinkedIn Jiu-Jitsu Outlet Beyond Homosapien Podcast Beyond Homosapien YouTubeHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

Nov 28, 2023 • 47min
Mindset: Going Beyond Physical Limits with Jonathan Bogner
Jonathan Bogner, whose journey encapsulates resilience and determination. From battling life-threatening health challenges to reinventing himself in the world of entrepreneurship, his story is a testament to the power of a positive mindset and the importance of mental health awareness. Delving into societal expectations of masculinity, the episode offers valuable insights into overcoming depression, the transformative power of physical activities, and strategies like compartmentalization for balancing business and personal life.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Resilience & Reinvention: Introducing Jonathan Bogner00:01:36 - Dive into Jonathan's Resilient World: Entrepreneurship & Beyond00:07:26 - Heartfelt Struggles: Jonathan's Courageous Health Battle00:12:50 - Breaking the Shackles of Depression: A Journey to Light00:16:51 - The Strength of Words: Power of Communication in Tough Times00:21:12 - Mastering Chaos: Life Lessons in Resilience00:24:15 - Conquering Depression: Tools for Mental Wellness00:27:38 - Mind & Muscle: The Transformative Power of Physical Activity00:29:49 - Unraveling Self-Induced Depression: Pathways to Recovery00:31:16 - Expectations vs. Reality: How Societal Views Shape Us00:34:56 - The Optimism Advantage: Tackling Anxiety Head-On00:40:28 - Goal Setting Mastery: Crafting and Achieving Life Goals00:42:34 - Embracing Uncertainty: The Art of Making Life Decisions00:44:54 - Sharing Wisdom: Personal Stories with Universal Lessons00:46:36 - Reflections and Revelations: Wrapping Up with Key InsightsLinks And Resources:Personal StoriesJonathan BognerHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!