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Modern Masculinity

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Jan 2, 2024 • 31min

Fitness: How Your Environment Has an Impact on Your Health with Julio Almanza

We talk to Julio "JC" Almanza, a former gang member, drug addict, and prisoner who turned his life around and became a fitness coach, author, and speaker. JC shares his incredible story of how he overcame his anger, guilt, and demons, and found God, love, and peace in his heart. He also reveals how he uses his hard work, discipline, and consistency to achieve his goals and help others do the same. JC is the founder of Wrong to Strong, a movement that aims to inspire and empower people who are struggling with their past or present circumstances. He also volunteers at prisons, rehabs, homeless shelters, and schools, where he mentors and teaches others how to transform their lives. JC is a living example of what it means to be a man in today’s world, and he has a lot of wisdom and insight to share with us.Chapters:00:00:00 - Introduction to Julio "JC" Almanza's Inspiring Journey00:04:50 - Spiritual Awakening: The Core of Julio’s Transformation00:08:33 - Redefining Masculinity: An Approach to Personal Development00:10:36 - Discipline & Structure: Foundations of Julio’s New Life00:12:00 - The Role of Environment and Community in Personal Change00:26:46 - "Wrong to Strong": Julio’s Path from Prison to Empowerment00:29:22 - Conclusion with Insights and TakeawaysLinks And Resources:Julio Almanza on LinkedInJulio Almanza on InstagramJulio Almanza on FacebookWrong to Strong by JC AlmanzaHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Dec 29, 2023 • 44min

Relationships: How to Embody Modern Masculinity with Jasper Brown

Hector engages with Jasper Brown in a discussion about the complexities and evolution of masculinity in the modern world. Jasper, a respected voice on men's issues, shares his journey through personal challenges and triumphs, offering insights into how men today can balance traditional masculine virtues with emotional intelligence and spiritual growth. They discuss themes such as the impact of societal shifts on male identity, the necessity of healing and personal development, and the cultivation of fulfilling relationships and purposeful living. Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to the Modern Masculinity Podcast00:00:57 - Meet Jasper Brown: A Guiding Voice in Men's Evolution00:02:39 - Jasper's Personal Odyssey: Challenges and Triumphs00:05:56 - Redefining Gender: The Shift in Masculine and Feminine Roles00:08:34 - Embracing Healing and the Quest for Self-Discovery00:10:33 - Childhood Influences and Their Impact on Adult Relationships00:18:18 - Mastering Communication: Key to Strengthening Relationships00:20:36 - Finding Purpose: Steering Life with Clarity and Direction00:22:47 - Societal Influences: Shaping and Reshaping Male Identity00:29:01 - Rediscovering and Embracing True Masculinity00:33:49 - Balancing Emotional Wellness with Masculine Activities00:37:53 - Wrapping Up: Key Insights and Takeaways on Modern ManhoodLinks And Resources:Jasper Brown on InstagramMen's Groups & CoachingThe Legendary LoverJasper on YouTubeHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Dec 19, 2023 • 46min

Parenting: Why Raising Kids Today is Different Than Ever Before with Karl Schmieder

Karl Schmieder, successful entrepreneur and father of three, discusses his journey in molecular biology, fitness secrets including fasting and working out, and balancing professional and personal life. He shares insights on personal development, self-care, and navigating life's challenges. The podcast also explores the impact of food consumption on health, advancements in cancer treatment, and the importance of adaptability and inclusivity in modern masculinity.
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Dec 15, 2023 • 59min

Philosophy: How a Different Perspective Can Change Your Life with Rocco Jarman

Join Hector Santiesteban, as he chats with Rocco Jarman, a visionary who questions conventional wisdom and advocates for ethical leadership. They discuss the nuances of masculinity, and how to live by ethics and morals in a chaotic world. Rocco reveals his secrets on how to overcome life’s obstacles, stay true to yourself, and lead with love. Rocco shares his wisdom on personal growth, the challenges of being a man in today’s world, and the quest for self-actualization. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from these inspiring men.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to the podcast and what it’s about00:00:47 - Meet Rocco Harmon, a visionary and ethical leader00:01:56 - How Rocco questions conventional wisdom and lives by his morals00:03:24 - Journey of Personal Growth and Self-Actualization00:07:54 - Insights and Struggles in Parenthood and Partnership00:10:29 - Ethical Approach to Creating Online Value00:13:21 - Analyzing Social Media's Impact on Authenticity00:21:48 - Dissecting Rapid Changes in Technology and Society00:28:39 - Anticipating the Inevitable Breakdown and Purging of Systems00:30:15 - Discussing the Philosophy of Reason and Knowledge Limitations00:32:32 - Exploring Hermetic Laws and the Pitfalls of Binary Thinking00:35:38 - Advocating for Empathy and Broader Perspectives00:41:45 - Providing Tips on Discernment and Avoiding Distractions00:47:45 - Sharing Breathwork Experiences and Benefits00:49:07 - Reflecting on the Cycle of Life and Personal Development00:54:49 - Highlighting the Importance of Integrating Experiences for Growth00:58:19 - Inviting Listeners to Join the Quest for a Better WayLinks And Resources:LinkedInEyes Wide Open Life PodcastA Better Way Stepping Through by Rocco JarmanEyes Wide Open Life My MojoDojo Life Keeper of the Flame by Rocco Jarman Rocco's Music - RocketSprocket on Spotify Hector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Dec 5, 2023 • 42min

Fitness: Why Martial Arts Are Important for a Man’s Development with Paul Tokgozoglu

Paul Tokgozoglu, a dedicated Jiu-Jitsu practitioner and entrepreneur, shares his unique perspective on how martial arts, specifically Jiu-Jitsu, intertwine with personal growth, resilience, and self-discovery. Exploring themes like the balance between masculine and feminine energies, the importance of community in martial arts, and the parallels between combat sports and life's various challenges, Paul provides a thought-provoking look at how Jiu-Jitsu transcends being just a sport. His journey from the military to embracing his calling in martial arts, along with his insights into parenting, spirituality, and mental health, makes for a compelling narrative that resonates deeply with anyone seeking growth and balance in their lives.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Modern Masculinity: Exploring Growth and Balance00:00:06 - Introducing Today's Theme: Martial Arts as a Life Journey00:00:45 - Meet Paul Tokgozoglu: Jiu-Jitsu Expert and Entrepreneur00:01:49 - Integrating Parenting, Martial Arts Philosophy, and Spirituality00:02:53 - Insights from Paul's ADCC Trials Experience00:04:25 - Embracing Loss as a Lesson in Resilience00:08:36 - Cultivating a Growth Mindset through Martial Arts00:10:58 - Jiu-Jitsu: Beyond Combat to Personal Discovery00:13:59 - The Importance of Community in Martial Arts Practice00:19:50 - How Martial Arts Builds Confidence and Strength00:22:09 - Analyzing Jiu-Jitsu as an Intellectual Pursuit00:24:16 - Discussing the Evolutionary Hunter Concept00:26:21 - Examining Stages of Manhood through Jiu-Jitsu00:28:41 - Fundamentals of Jiu-Jitsu in Life and Business00:31:33 - Jiu-Jitsu as a Metaphor for Life's Challenges00:36:15 - Experiencing the Power of Training Outdoors00:39:33 - Behind the Scenes: The Jiu-Jitsu Outlet Story00:41:10 - Wrapping Up: Paul's Vision and Future ProjectsLinks And Resources:Paul Tokgozoglu on LinkedIn Jiu-Jitsu Outlet Beyond Homosapien Podcast Beyond Homosapien YouTubeHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Nov 28, 2023 • 47min

Mindset: Going Beyond Physical Limits with Jonathan Bogner

Jonathan Bogner, whose journey encapsulates resilience and determination. From battling life-threatening health challenges to reinventing himself in the world of entrepreneurship, his story is a testament to the power of a positive mindset and the importance of mental health awareness. Delving into societal expectations of masculinity, the episode offers valuable insights into overcoming depression, the transformative power of physical activities, and strategies like compartmentalization for balancing business and personal life.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Resilience & Reinvention: Introducing Jonathan Bogner00:01:36 - Dive into Jonathan's Resilient World: Entrepreneurship & Beyond00:07:26 - Heartfelt Struggles: Jonathan's Courageous Health Battle00:12:50 - Breaking the Shackles of Depression: A Journey to Light00:16:51 - The Strength of Words: Power of Communication in Tough Times00:21:12 - Mastering Chaos: Life Lessons in Resilience00:24:15 - Conquering Depression: Tools for Mental Wellness00:27:38 - Mind & Muscle: The Transformative Power of Physical Activity00:29:49 - Unraveling Self-Induced Depression: Pathways to Recovery00:31:16 - Expectations vs. Reality: How Societal Views Shape Us00:34:56 - The Optimism Advantage: Tackling Anxiety Head-On00:40:28 - Goal Setting Mastery: Crafting and Achieving Life Goals00:42:34 - Embracing Uncertainty: The Art of Making Life Decisions00:44:54 - Sharing Wisdom: Personal Stories with Universal Lessons00:46:36 - Reflections and Revelations: Wrapping Up with Key InsightsLinks And Resources:Personal StoriesJonathan BognerHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Nov 21, 2023 • 38min

Relationships: What Women Want from Modern, Masculine Men with GS Youngblood

Hector engages with GS Youngblood, author and coach, delving into the nuances of modern masculinity. They explore overcoming the 'Nice Guy' syndrome, embodying masculinity in relationships, and balancing personal and professional life. Youngblood introduces the 'Masculine Blueprint', a concept focusing on responsiveness, structure, and emotional safety, offering insights into leading intimately with respect and attunement. Youngblood also tackles the impact of media on male self-perception and the dynamics of financial contributions in relationships. A great thought-provoking exploration of how men can grow and positively impact their relationships and society.Chapters:00:00:00 - Kickoff: Unveiling Modern Masculinity with Hector & GS Youngblood00:02:30 - Crafting the 'Masculine Blueprint': New Avenues of Strength00:04:45 - The Juggle is Real: Mastering Work-Life Harmony00:07:00 - Rewriting Scripts: How Media Shapes Male Identity00:10:15 - Money Matters: Revolutionizing Male Role in Finances00:14:05 - The Dance of Intimacy: Leading with Sensitivity and Strength00:18:45 - The Growth Trajectory: Navigating the Modern Male Journey00:23:00 - Connection Craftsman: Sharpening Relational Skills00:26:15 - Harmonizing Love & Leadership: GS Youngblood's Techniques00:29:25 - The Strength of Love: Embracing Empathetic Masculinity00:32:10 - Exclusive Reveal: GS Youngblood's Upcoming Empowerment Workshops00:34:00 - The Final Reflection: A New Era of Masculinity and RelationshipsLinks And Resources:WebsiteInstagramWorkshops The Masculine in Relationship by GS Youngblood The Art of Embodiment for Men by GS YoungbloodHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Nov 14, 2023 • 55min

Relationships: How to Win Your Woman’s Heart … It’s Not Exactly What You Think Pt. 2 with David Peralta

We are diving into the intricate dance of personal growth within the realm of intimate relationships. David Peralta explores how individual paths of development can intersect, clash, and ultimately harmonize within a partnership. He tackles the complexities of nurturing a shared vision, the importance of healing from past traumas, and the art of growing together without losing oneself. This is a deep dive into the heart of what it means to evolve as individuals while fostering a strong, healthy relationship.Chapters:00:00 - Intro: Setting the Stage for Transformation05:35 - The Dark Side of Searching for Validity12:27 - Discovering Authentic Desires in Modern Masculinity14:31 - Redefining Family: Navigating Unconscious Cultural Influence20:00 - Healing a Shattered Self-Image: Embracing Self-Worth22:10 - The Struggle with Emotional Suppression and Its Consequences25:20 - The Crucial Power of Winning a Woman's Heart27:03 - Letting Go of Decades of Pain: The Path to Emotional Liberation29:14 - Empowering Your Vision: Cleaning Up the Past to Move Forward31:50 - Breaking Free: Stories of Resilience and Hope34:00 - Conquering Rejection: The Path to Overcoming Pain36:20 - Aligning with Life: Trusting the Journey of Healing38:35 - Understanding the Roots of Insecurity40:45 - The Masculine Crisis: Redefining Strength and Sensitivity42:55 - Facing the Fear of Emotional Intimacy45:25 - Unveiling the Truth About Relationship Improvement47:40 - The Role of Faith in Personal Development50:00 - Tapping into the Power of Intention and Action52:30 - The Art of Compassionate Self-Reflection54:14 - Closing Thoughts: An Invitation to Join the Journey56:00 - Final Reflections: Embracing the Complexities of Self-DiscoveryLinks And Resources:David Peralta on LinkedInThe Soul Centered FounderHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Nov 7, 2023 • 47min

Relationships: Why Winning a Woman’s Heart Is What Most Men Crave with David Peralta

In a profound exploration of the human condition, David Peralta delves into the essence of forming genuine connections and the importance of confronting our inner blockages. He offers a candid look at how our earliest pains shape our responses in adult relationships and how we can transform these experiences into growth. David's thoughtful discourse provides a roadmap to accessing the stillness and love within ourselves, ultimately enhancing our interactions with others and embracing the full potential of our relationships.Chapters:00:00:00 - Healing Inner Wounds: The Key to Authentic Connections00:04:28 - Overcoming the Fear of Judgment in Relationships00:07:13 - Navigating the Value of Challenges Within Marriage00:11:31 - The Art of Winning a Woman's Heart: Love as the Driving Force00:14:33 - Life's Struggles and Relationship Disconnect: Tapping into Inner Energy00:16:12 - Unburdening Responsibility: Confronting Neglected Issues00:19:11 - Harnessing the Power of Conscious Thoughts and Energy Bonds00:21:43 - Gender Dynamics in Post-Breakup Behavior: Seeking Connection vs. Space00:24:41 - Balancing Happiness: Rethinking the "Happy Wife, Happy Life" Notion00:26:23 - Unpacking the Impact of Emotional Suppression on Childhood00:29:11 - Identifying and Addressing Personal Habits and Unresolved Emotions in Relationships00:34:02 - Finding Purpose and Crafting a Personal Vision00:38:26 - Embracing Relationships as Vehicles for Personal Growth00:41:33 - Creating Emotional Space for Women in Relationships00:42:49 - Empowering Emotional Expression for HealingLinks And Resources:David Peralta on LinkedInThe Soul Centered FounderHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!
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Oct 31, 2023 • 58min

Mindset: Lessons from Climbing Denali, the Tallest Mountain in North America with Ben Gibson

Joining us in this episode is Ben, an experienced mountaineer with a passion for tackling some of the world's most challenging peaks. His expertise extends beyond the climb; it's a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Ben's adventures have taken him from the icy ridges of Denali to the heart of what it means to persevere against all odds. His stories are not just about climbing; they're about the human spirit's capacity to endure and thrive in the face of nature's might.Chapters:00:00:00 - A Challenging Descent: Prioritizing Family Over Summit00:03:17 - Today's Theme: Ben Gibson Returns with a Wild Story00:06:12 - Unveiling the Type Two Kind of Fun Journey: Building Upon the Climb00:10:06 - Navigating Mental Energy in Modern Masculinity: Unraveling the Grip of Expectations00:14:37 - Mountain Mastery and Endurance: The Methodical Path00:17:41 - Finding Your Rhythm: Challenges of Pacing on Unfamiliar Terrain00:20:31 - Exploring the Benefits of Literal Mountain Climbing: Unraveling the Metaphor00:23:52 - A Transformative Journey Down the Mountain: Overcoming Resistance00:25:57 - Embracing Challenges and Conquering Fear on the Mountain00:27:26 - The Importance of Efficient Ascents: Conquering Fear and Curiosity at 16,500 Feet00:31:30 - Navigating Challenges and Finding Solutions: Questioning My Abilities00:35:07 - Why Daily Endeavors Hold the Key to Personal Growth: Unlocking the Power of Consistency00:37:18 - The Struggle of Early Mornings and Inner Turmoil: Confronting the Relentless Battle00:43:11 - A Come to Jesus Moment on the Coldest Night: Pushing Past Doubt00:46:32 - Conquering Fear and Doubt on the Dangerous Climb: Surviving the Autobahn00:47:46 - Unraveling the Influence of Parents and Society: Breaking Free to Discover Your True Path00:50:35 - Battling Unpredictable Weather and Daunting Challenges on Denali: Caught in the Clutches of Nature00:51:52 - The Difficult Decision to Turn Around on the Mountain: Choosing Values over SummitsLinks And Resources:The Athlete Dad Podcast Ben Gibson on Instagram Ben Gibson on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on LinkedInHector Santiesteban on TwitterThanks so much for joining us this week. Want to subscribe to Modern Masculinity? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!

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