

U Up?
Betches Media
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes. To sign up and become a friend (with benefits) today head to: subscribe.betches.comWatch U Up? on YouTube: http://youtube.com/betches
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Dec 10, 2025 • 1h 33min
How Old Is Too Old To Be Gaming?
Jared shares a hilarious story about being approached by Hannah Berner’s cousin, including a moment where he is told to look less “miserable” during a mid-Florida night out. They share fun family memories, and Jordana recalls Lindsay Lohan’s BETCHES cameo that was a highlight this year. They then get into listener questions and debate how old is too old to play video games and why it is frustrating when your partner hides their hobby. Next, they tackle an “icky or picky” scenario about a date who brought an overnight bag, which is thoughtful but a little presumptuous. J&J also weigh in on red flags versus dealbreakers, including staying friends with an ex, unsolicited critiques about your apartment, and being asked to pay for a date at the last minute. It is a fun episode you do not want to miss! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 5, 2025 • 50min
Will Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez's Relationship Survive 2026?
Dive into the wild world of celebrity relationships, where the hosts dish on the most shocking 'Jump Scare Couples' of 2025! Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez's future is put under the microscope, while JoJo Siwa's age-gap romance with Chris Hughes raises eyebrows. Skepticism surrounds Sydney Sweeney and Scooter Braun's liaison, but optimism shines for Katy Perry and Justin Trudeau. Plus, the hosts tackle a listener's quirky question about dating profile pics. Get ready for a fun mix of love, laughter, and predictions!

Dec 3, 2025 • 1h 32min
When Is Too Early To Reveal A Kink?
The hosts kick things off discussing must-watch TV, landing on The Sopranos. They dive into a listener's dilemma about too many selfies from a guy and whether the ick is reversible. A juicy debate emerges over the ethics of contacting an ex's workplace after cheating. They tackle how to gently address fragrance sensitivity before dates. Finally, they weigh in on a bold Hinge match revealing a BDSM kink early on, questioning the balance of transparency versus timing!

Nov 28, 2025 • 34min
Should I Break Up Before or After the Holidays?
The hosts dive into the whirlwind of post-Thanksgiving emotions and festive shopping habits. They compare their unique styles of Black Friday shopping and discuss the allure of luxury watches. A clever twist on white elephant gift exchanges sparks creativity, while they offer insights on navigating holiday gift-giving with family. In a heartfelt segment, they advise on whether to break up before or after the holidays, tackling the tricky dilemma with humor and honesty. Tune in for relatable holiday dilemmas and entertaining debates!

Nov 26, 2025 • 1h 13min
How to Answer ‘Why Are You Still Single?’
As the holidays approach, the hosts share strategies for dealing with the dreaded question, "Why are you still single?" They offer fun tips for surviving Thanksgiving Eve, a night synonymous with drinking. A listener wonders if meeting a partner's family after just six weeks is too soon, sparking a debate on relationship timelines. They also tackle hilarious revenge stories about dating misadventures, while encouraging openness and honesty about holiday anxieties. It's a lighthearted dive into love, relationships, and festive family gatherings!

Nov 21, 2025 • 1h 20min
How Do I Navigate My New Polyamorous Relationship?
Sean Kilby, a former producer of the show and recently single after a 22-year relationship, shares his journey into casual dating and navigating non-monogamy. He discusses the thrill of speed-dating and his intense connection with a woman in an open relationship. As they explore their dynamics, Sean grapples with the balance between love and casual encounters. He reflects on his desire for exclusivity and the happiness found in both single life and committed relationships. The conversation dives into emotional work, FOMO, and the tension between stability and freedom.

Nov 19, 2025 • 1h 17min
Jennifer Lawrence’s Secret TikTok a Red Flag?
The hosts tackle the controversial topic of post-date "Did you get home safe?" texts, debating their sincerity versus perceived manipulation. They delve into Jennifer Lawrence's rumored secret TikTok account, exploring whether lurking online as a troll is a red flag in dating. Listener questions add spice, covering wedding gift etiquette, the quirks of dating identical twins, and the intriguing habit of joining every class action lawsuit. The episode is filled with laughs and relatable takes on love, dating, and modern life!

Nov 14, 2025 • 1h 19min
8 Years of U Up? Our Wildest and Most Iconic Moments!
Join Jordana and Jared as they celebrate eight hilarious years of dating insights! They reminisce about unforgettable moments, like the infamous 'poop story' and a laugh-out-loud Santa joke. The duo shares awkward celebrity encounters and critiques viral dating trends, all while exploring humor's role in dating. They also discuss their desire for more male perspectives and imagine dream celebrity guests. With reflections on listener favorites and memorable segments, this special celebration is packed with laughter and relatable dating wisdom!

Nov 12, 2025 • 1h 25min
Is Saying 'Boyfriend' Cringe?
The hosts dive into a dubious message from someone posing as a pro hockey player, questioning whether it's a scam or flirty. They discuss a listener's concern about the embarrassment of having a boyfriend while trying to maintain independence. A humorous take emerges as they suggest clever ways to tell noisy neighbors to quiet down. Finally, they play a spirited game of Red Flag or Dealbreaker, debating scenarios involving pet cleanup, witchcraft, and age discrepancies in dating. Expect laughs and relatable insights!

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Nov 7, 2025 • 31min
Dating Titles: Exclusive vs Boyfriend
Join Jordana and Jared as they dive into quirky Thanksgiving traditions and debate the joys of cold versus warm holiday weather. They hilariously dissect the differences between being exclusive and a boyfriend while sharing relatable stories about ghosting and revenge fantasies. You'll hear about the nuances of dating dynamics, including whether intimacy should precede commitment. With standout recommendations like Skims pajamas and a comedic take on navigating modern relationships, it’s all about keeping love lighthearted and fun.


