U Up?
Betches Media
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes. To sign up and become a friend (with benefits) today head to: subscribe.betches.comWatch U Up? on YouTube: http://youtube.com/betches
Episodes
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Nov 14, 2025 • 1h 19min
8 Years of U Up? Our Wildest and Most Iconic Moments!
Join Jordana and Jared as they celebrate eight hilarious years of dating insights! They reminisce about unforgettable moments, like the infamous 'poop story' and a laugh-out-loud Santa joke. The duo shares awkward celebrity encounters and critiques viral dating trends, all while exploring humor's role in dating. They also discuss their desire for more male perspectives and imagine dream celebrity guests. With reflections on listener favorites and memorable segments, this special celebration is packed with laughter and relatable dating wisdom!
Nov 12, 2025 • 1h 25min
Is Saying 'Boyfriend' Cringe?
The hosts dive into a dubious message from someone posing as a pro hockey player, questioning whether it's a scam or flirty. They discuss a listener's concern about the embarrassment of having a boyfriend while trying to maintain independence. A humorous take emerges as they suggest clever ways to tell noisy neighbors to quiet down. Finally, they play a spirited game of Red Flag or Dealbreaker, debating scenarios involving pet cleanup, witchcraft, and age discrepancies in dating. Expect laughs and relatable insights!
Nov 7, 2025 • 31min
Dating Titles: Exclusive vs Boyfriend
Join Jordana and Jared as they dive into quirky Thanksgiving traditions and debate the joys of cold versus warm holiday weather. They hilariously dissect the differences between being exclusive and a boyfriend while sharing relatable stories about ghosting and revenge fantasies. You'll hear about the nuances of dating dynamics, including whether intimacy should precede commitment. With standout recommendations like Skims pajamas and a comedic take on navigating modern relationships, it’s all about keeping love lighthearted and fun.
Nov 5, 2025 • 1h 17min
How to Know You’re Ready to Move In
Jordana shares her pregnancy journey, comparing it to uncertain relationships. The hosts explore whether a love for energy drinks in the morning is a red flag. Listeners weigh in on ghosting after a first date and navigating situationships. They discuss moving in with partners, offering practical advice on when to take that leap, and reflect on their past experiences. The duo analyzes awkward first dates and the complexities of app culture, including how quickly connections can fade.
Oct 31, 2025 • 47min
Did Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco Win Halloween?
Halloween shenanigans take center stage as two hosts unveil their costumes, with one hilariously testing her dog’s reaction. They debate the dorkiest Halloween choices, from dressing like your pet to gym parties. Celebrity couple costumes are rated, featuring Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco’s quirky looks and a critique of the Biebers' low-effort Flintstones getup. Listeners are encouraged to embrace bold costume choices, even in relationships. Plus, a nod to Heidi Klum’s extravagant Halloween feats rounds out the festivities!
Oct 29, 2025 • 1h 19min
Halloween Reveals Your True Relationship Status
Exciting news as Jordana announces she’s expecting twins—one biologically and one via surrogate! The discussion pivots to Halloween, exploring how the holiday can reveal your relationship status. Is it too early to invite a new fling to a party? Opinions vary! They also critique Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard’s anniversary post for its creepiness factor. Lastly, they tackle red flags in relationships, including a dilemma about a couple's costume featuring a cat. A mix of humor and insight keeps listeners engaged!
Oct 24, 2025 • 50min
Have These Dating Trends Gone Too Far?
Jordana and Jared dive into the wild world of dating trends, from fashion fads to turn-off Instagram bios—one featuring a dead dog, which is a total no-go! They hilariously compare themselves to celebrities like Matt LeBlanc and Emily Ratajkowski. Discussions on VR porn raise eyebrows as they explore its potential effects on relationships. Plus, they offer insights on what makes an Instagram bio attractive or cringe-worthy. Get ready for laughs and relatable dating dilemmas!
Oct 22, 2025 • 1h 28min
Mom Kisses Son, Major Ick
Jared is ignoring the TikTok trend of divorcing your parents and as he’s looking to buy a house, he’s bringing his parents along to help showing why you still need them as an adult. A listener shares being accused of posting about her date in the “Are We Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook group, sparking a meltdown from her soon to be Bravo famous ex. J&J react to a mom kissing her adult son on the lips, debate red flags, and rank relationship quirks. They also cover wingwoman tips and why forgetting a birthday is a red flag for effort and commitment! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Oct 17, 2025 • 40min
Is the Pen Pal Dating Trend Back?
A recent TikTok sparks a lively discussion about the modern pen pal trend in dating. The hosts debate why some men persist in texting without making plans, questioning their intentions. They explore seasonal dating patterns and the motivations behind this pattern. Listeners weigh in on whether an ex should continue participating in a mutual NFL survivor pool post-breakup. The conversation takes a turn toward age gaps in dating, dissecting when it's acceptable and when it might feel inappropriate.
Oct 15, 2025 • 1h 16min
How To Date Someone Outside Your Faith
This episode starts with Jordana sharing how her cute puppy Ronnie gave her an unexpected wake-up call, which even led to her losing her phone! J&J then dive into listener advice, reading about a woman dating outside her faith and offering tips on handling her traditional parents while explaining why meeting the person matters more than expectations. They break down twins posting matching photos on dating apps, define what a “mini makeout” really is, and roast the worst breakup text clichés like “I’m rooting for you” and “you deserve better.” Plus, they debate whether snoring or using a CPAP machine is a deal breaker or just a lame excuse?
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