U Up? Is Christmas A Relationship Test?
Dec 24, 2025
The hosts dive into gym flirting and the fatigue of modern dating, exploring emotional self-protection. They tackle the tricky topic of introducing a partner to family during the holidays, plus the right timing for breakups and navigating the dating scene afterward. Listeners share stories about retrieving sentimental ornaments and the nuances of gift-giving with friends versus partners. They also discuss cultural holiday customs, the maturity of believing in Santa at 21, and share personal tales about holiday traditions that keep the festive spirit alive.
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Gym Selfie That Triggered Reflection
- Jared describes hesitating to flirt with a woman at Barry's after seeing her take gym selfies twice.
- That moment sparked a wider reflection on dating burnout and emotional self-protection.
Avoid Letting Past Pain Freeze You
- People often avoid new romantic risks because they've "seen the movie" of how things end and want to spare themselves pain.
- Jared admits this tendency and warns that staying comfortable can kill whimsy and growth.
Use Holidays To Gauge Relationship Seriousness
- If a family holiday matters, bring up the invitation directly and clarify expectations with your partner.
- Use holiday plans as an opportunity to test whether your relationship is integrated and serious.