U Up? When Is Too Early To Reveal A Kink?
Dec 3, 2025
The hosts kick things off discussing must-watch TV, landing on The Sopranos. They dive into a listener's dilemma about too many selfies from a guy and whether the ick is reversible. A juicy debate emerges over the ethics of contacting an ex's workplace after cheating. They tackle how to gently address fragrance sensitivity before dates. Finally, they weigh in on a bold Hinge match revealing a BDSM kink early on, questioning the balance of transparency versus timing!
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Ick Reveals Compatibility, Not Just Behavior
- One person's "ick" can be another person's normal or attractive trait.
- The ick often reveals a deeper mismatch rather than a fixable flaw.
Address Turnoffs Directly
- If a dating habit bothers you, say so directly and promptly.
- Tell him the selfies make you uncomfortable and ask him to cut back or stop.
Don't Weaponize Family Against Exes
- Avoid using family revenge to punish an ex; it harms kids and marks you as vengeful.
- Don't call an ex's employer to expose personal wrongdoing.