

Financial Feminist
Her First $100K | YAP Media
Fight the patriarchy. Get Rich.™ Join money expert Tori Dunlap as she guides you on how to make more, spend less, and feel financially confident in a world run by rich white men. Through solo episodes and special guest interviews, you’ll walk away with resources to get, save, and grow money to gain financial freedom and kick some patriarchal ass at the same time. New episodes drop every Monday, and mini-episodes drop every other Thursday.
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Oct 7, 2025 • 4min
I Really Need Your Help...
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We’re taking a quick break this week, but don’t worry, we’ll be back in your feeds next week. And next week’s episode is a BIG one. I’m going to be sharing about something that has cost our business hundreds of thousands of dollars over the last few years. But that’s not all––for the last three and a half years, we’ve been building this show together—and now, the Financial Feminist podcast is about to look and feel a little different. I can’t say too much just yet, but trust me, you don’t want to miss what’s coming! Tune in to hear how you can help.
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Sep 30, 2025 • 55min
256. The #1 Money Mistake Couples Make (and How to Avoid It!) Tori's Episode of Here Comes the Drama with Christa Innis
When it comes to love, weddings, and money — things can get messy. In this special episode, we’re re-releasing a conversation I had on the Here Comes the Drama podcast with Christa Innis, to talk about one of the most common (and costly) mistakes couples make: avoiding real conversations about money. From wedding budgets and bachelorette party expectations to navigating debt, boundaries, and financial transparency, we’re unpacking all the drama around love and money. Whether you’re planning your big day, standing beside a friend, or just love a juicy “Am I the A**hole?” wedding story, this episode is full of hot takes, practical scripts, and no-shame advice to help you protect your wallet and your relationships. Plus, we’ll talk about how to plan a wedding you can actually afford.
Resources & Links:
Grab your free bridal party script guide: herfirst100k.com/bride
Here Comes the Drama podcast: https://www.christainnis.com/podcast
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/couples-money-mistakes/
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Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz
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Sep 25, 2025 • 51min
255. I Bought a House! What It’s Really Like to Buy Your First Home Solo
I’ve been that multi-millionaire who rents, proudly defending why homeownership wasn’t the right choice for me—until now. At 31, I bought my first house, and in this episode, I’m sharing everything I learned along the way: the emotional rollercoaster of finding “the one,” the financial surprises (like hidden $50,000 repairs), why I chose a mortgage over paying cash, and what finally made me change my mind after years of renting. Whether you’re saving for your first home, debating if renting still makes sense, or just curious about how a self-proclaimed renter became a homeowner, this is the honest truth about what it really takes to buy a house.
Resources mentioned:
Gentle Giant moving company:
https://www.gentlegiant.com/, 1-800-442-6863
Chelsea Moon - Keller Williams: https://www.sweetlivingrealty.com/agent-profile/chelsea-moon-12338728
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/home-buying-lessons/
Save your seat inside Business Bootcamp! Your COMPLETE roadmap to go from idea to income: herfirst100k.com/business-bootcamp
Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod
Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools
Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz
Special thanks to our sponsors:
Squarespace
Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase.
Indeed
Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD.
Rocket Money
Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD.
Quince
For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
Netsuite
If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 23, 2025 • 1h 13min
254. The TRUTH Behind Reality Show "Millionaires" with Survivor All-Star Parvati Shallow
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What does it really cost to survive — on reality TV and in real life? In this episode of Financial Feminist, I sit down with Parvati Shallow — Survivor legend, and author of “Nice Girls Don’t Win: How I Burned It All Down to Claim My Power.” We talk about her journey from growing up in a high-control spiritual community (yes, basically a cult) to winning multiple seasons of Survivor and becoming one of the most iconic players in reality TV history, and how the scarcity mindset shaped her money, relationships, and self-worth for decades. Parvati opens up about what it means to rewire survival into abundance, motherhood’s lessons in surrender, queerness, and why playing “villain” on TV mirrors the punishment women face for stepping into their power. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” or felt you had to play small to belong, this conversation is for you.
Parvati’s links:
Website: https://www.parvatishallow.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pshallow/?hl=en
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/the-price-of-power/
Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod
Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools
Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz
Special thanks to our sponsors:
Squarespace
Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase.
Indeed
Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD.
Rocket Money
Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD.
Quince
For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
NetsuiteIf your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 16, 2025 • 37min
253. Stop Making These 5 Side Hustle Mistakes with Mal Rowan
Mallory Rowan, an entrepreneur and friend of Tori Dunlap, dives into the five critical mistakes that side hustlers often make. She emphasizes the need to define a clear audience and avoid the overwhelming 'do it all' mentality. Mallory shares effective strategies for refining niche markets and the importance of community support to combat entrepreneurial isolation. Listeners will find actionable tips for maximizing productivity and overcoming the fear of failure, empowering them to take imperfect action toward business growth.

Sep 11, 2025 • 1h 11min
Stop Doing It All: Building Equity in Relationships with Eve Rodsky (Best Of)
Eve Rodsky, author of 'Fair Play' and 'Find Your Unicorn Space,' shares insights on building equitable relationships. She highlights the hidden burdens of invisible labor and offers practical strategies to navigate domestic responsibilities. The discussion covers the Fair Play system for accountability, fostering communication between partners, and redefining roles at home. Eve emphasizes patience and the journey of supporting each other's growth while embracing imperfection, ultimately leading to healthier partnerships.

Sep 9, 2025 • 1h 9min
252. How to Build a Business That Lasts with Carrie Kerpen
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What if the “safe” choice—a steady paycheck, a traditional career path, playing small—was actually holding you back from building the business you’ve always dreamed of? In today’s episode, I sat down with Carrie Kerpen—entrepreneur, author, and founder of the Whisper Group—who built and sold an eight-figure company and now helps women transform their businesses into valuable, sellable assets. We get into how financial fear and freedom shaped her entrepreneurial journey, why most of us never feel “ready” to start, and the key shifts you can make to build a business that not only survives but thrives. If you’ve ever wondered how to create a business that lasts, this conversation is your blueprint.
Carrie’s links:
Website: https://www.wearethewhispergroup.com/Book: https://www.wearethewhispergroup.com/the-whisper-way-book Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carriekerpen/?hl=enFind out how much your business is worth: http://whispercalculator.com
Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-build-a-business/
Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community! Join the $100K Club: https://herfirst100k.com/100k-pod
Our favorite travel and cash-back credit cards, plus other financial resources: https://herfirst100k.com/tools
Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz
Special thanks to our sponsors:
Squarespace
Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase.
Indeed
Get a $75 sponsored job credit to get your jobs more visibility at Indeed.com/FFPOD.
Rocket Money
Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD.
Quince
For your next trip, treat yourself to the luxe upgrades you deserve from Quince. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
Netsuite
If your revenues are at least in the seven figures, download the free e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 2, 2025 • 51min
251. From Idea to Income: How to FINALLY Start Your Business with Mal Rowan
Mallory Rowan, a dynamic business coach and entrepreneur, inspires aspiring business owners to break free from self-doubt. They discuss how to shift from dreaming to doing by embracing imperfection and taking messy action. The power of pursuing passions is highlighted, alongside practical tips for overcoming sales anxiety. Mallory shares insights into navigating a creative business in a social media-driven world, emphasizing resilience and authentic connections. Tune in for guidance on turning your idea into income and taking control of your financial future!

Aug 28, 2025 • 30min
250. How Much Money Do I Need to Feel Safe?
Listeners dive into the multifaceted idea of financial safety, revealing how personal experiences shape perceptions of wealth. Explore the emotional ties to money, influenced by societal expectations and cost factors. The discussion highlights the evolving definitions of wealth, especially among women, and emphasizes the need for emotional understanding of finances. As lifestyle shifts occur, issues like inflation complicate feelings of security. Join a conversation that challenges traditional views and encourages a deeper connection with personal financial goals.

Aug 25, 2025 • 1h 23min
249. Good Girls Finish Last (How to Stop People-Pleasing and Start Living) with Elise Loehnen
Elise Loehnen, bestselling author of 'On Our Best Behavior', joins the discussion to tackle the pressures of societal expectations on women. They delve into how ‘good girl’ conditioning restricts personal authenticity and reshape narratives around body image, success, and finances. Elise emphasizes embracing wholeness over perfection and navigating feelings of fear and envy. They also discuss the importance of intuition in decision-making, challenging societal standards, and fostering self-acceptance, inspiring listeners to break free from oppressive norms and live authentically.