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Wellness Loud
A show based on empowerment. Empowerment of you, the viewer such that you can be your highest self on every level. Through knowledge we will be giving you the information you need to make informed decisions. We lead you to water, you deep dive in.
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Oct 2, 2025 • 1h 9min
How to Teach Kids Emotional Intelligence to Build Real Confidence | ft. Lori Woodley HTS w/ DrG #421
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We spend years teaching kids how to read, write, and memorize facts. But almost no one teaches them how to feel.
This week on Heal Thy Self, Dr. G sits down with Dr. Lori Woodley, a counselor, author, and nonprofit founder who has spent 30 years working with kids, families, and schools. Her message is simple but life-changing: the most important skill we can teach kids isn’t math or grammar. It’s emotional intelligence.
Because here’s the truth:
If a child can’t name their feelings, they can’t regulate them.
If they can’t regulate their emotions, they can’t build confidence.
And without confidence, they grow up wearing masks, hiding their fear, doubting their worth, and drifting through life without direction.
In this conversation, Lori shares powerful insights for parents, educators, and anyone healing their inner child:
The single question that instantly builds trust: “What do you need right now?”
Why the #1 parenting mistake is trying to “teach a lesson” instead of listening.
How kids actually feel the energy adults try to hide and why hypocrisy destroys trust faster than anything.
Why confidence is the foundation skill for every child, and how emotional literacy unlocks it.
The danger of power struggles and how to replace them with collaboration and respect.
How triggers from our own childhood show up in parenting, and why conscious reflection matters more than perfection.
Why kids are more autonomous and aware than we think and how to honor that without losing healthy boundaries.
How emotional intelligence is a muscle that gets stronger with practice, for kids and adults.
The story of Lori’s nonprofit All It Takes, co-founded with her daughter, that’s bringing these tools to schools, educators, and families around the world.
This isn’t just a parenting conversation. It’s about building the kind of emotional literacy that shapes resilient kids, healthier families, and even stronger communities.
If you’ve ever wished your child or even your inner child had more confidence, resilience, and self-trust, this episode could change everything.
👉 Listen now and learn how to raise (and become) emotionally intelligent humans.
Find Dr. Lori Woodley here:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lori.woodley/?hl=enWebsite - https://www.selmuscles.com/
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction2:07 - Rapid Fire8:32 - The 2018 Study That Broke Thyroid Care14:18 - The Essential Thyroid Panel Your Doctor Should Order25:14 - The One Symptom That Screams Thyroid Problem28:16 - Hidden Drivers34:17 - Foods That Trigger Thyroid Inflammation40:05 - The Thyroid-Fertility Crisis No One Talks About44:48 - What It Really Feels Like When Your Thyroid Comes Back Online49:40 - Best Bang-for-Buck Thyroid Interventions

Sep 29, 2025 • 51min
Thyroid Expert: Heal Fatigue Hair Loss and Weight Gain at the Root | ft McCall McPherson w/ DrG #420
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Episode Description:
Exhausted no matter how much you sleep? Struggling with brain fog, stubborn weight, thinning hair, or mood swings; only to hear your doctor say, “Everything looks normal”?
You’re not alone. Millions of people are being dismissed because the medical system is wired to miss what’s really happening. Lab ranges are too broad. Subtle red flags get ignored. And for women especially, symptoms are too often brushed off as stress, hormones, or aging.
This week on Heal Thy Self, Dr. G sits down with McCall McPherson, nationally recognized clinician and founder of Modern Thyroid Clinic, to expose the hidden epidemic of undiagnosed thyroid dysfunction.
You’ll learn why standard medicine misses it, the early signs you need to catch (like thinning eyebrows, high cholesterol, and even feeling cold all the time), and how Hashimoto’s remission is possible when you address the root causes.
We also dive into why “get off your meds” promises are false hope, how trendy hacks like cold plunges can backfire, and the overlooked emotional side of thyroid health: from repression to losing your voice.
In this episode you’ll discover:
• Why thyroid dysfunction often goes undiagnosed for years
• The flaws in “normal” lab ranges that keep patients suffering
• Overlooked symptoms that point to hidden thyroid issues
• Why women are disproportionately dismissed and gaslit by medicine
• How Hashimoto’s remission is possible with the right approach
• The danger of chasing “get off meds” promises
• When popular wellness trends, like cold plunges, can make things worse
• The emotional link between thyroid health, repression, and using your voice
If you’ve ever felt unheard or stuck with symptoms no one can explain, this conversation will finally connect the dots, and give you a new path forward.
🎧 Listen now to uncover what your doctor might be missing.
Find McCall McPherson here:
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:07 - Rapid Fire
8:32 - The 2018 Study That Broke Thyroid Care
14:18 - The Essential Thyroid Panel Your Doctor Should Order
25:14 - The One Symptom That Screams Thyroid Problem
28:16 - Hidden Drivers
34:17 - Foods That Trigger Thyroid Inflammation
40:05 - The Thyroid-Fertility Crisis No One Talks About
44:48 - What It Really Feels Like When Your Thyroid Comes Back Online
49:40 - Best Bang-for-Buck Thyroid Interventions

Sep 25, 2025 • 1h 25min
How Fear Magnetically Attracts What You're Afraid Of | ft. Shaman Durek HTS w/ DrG #419
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Episode Description:
What if the fear you thought you “got over” never actually left—what if it’s still trapped in your body, recycling itself as anxiety, chronic pain, or that emptiness you can’t explain?
That’s the truth most healing methods miss. Your body isn’t broken. It’s communicating. And until you learn its hidden language, nothing really changes.
Enter Shaman Durek—sixth-generation shaman, bestselling author, and one of the most electric spiritual teachers of our time. He reveals how “recycled fear” hijacks your energy, how your words can literally rewire your cells, and how a shift in attention opens the door to clarity, calm, and true vitality.
This isn’t about grinding harder. It’s about finally hearing what your soul has been saying all along.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
✓ How to break the cycle of recycled fear before it takes root in your body
✓ Why your words reshape your cells—and how to choose ones that heal
✓ A 60-second “attention reset” that instantly calms the nervous system
✓ The myth of multitasking—and how monotasking makes you more productive and peaceful
✓ A compassionate way to free yourself from phone addiction without going off-grid
✓ How self-talk shapes your focus, your mood, and even your biology
✓ A micro-ritual to find stillness in the middle of overwhelm
✓ Why endless hacks backfire—and what true consistency unlocks instead
✓ How presence amplifies creativity, relationships, and sleep
If you’ve tried everything and still feel stuck, this conversation is your reset button.
Listen now and reclaim the energy that fear has been stealing from you.
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:30 - Spirituality = Evolution: Beyond New Age Concepts
6:01 - How to Know You're Spiritually Evolving
10:44 - The Matrix Trap: Breaking Free from Societal Programming
15:14 - Cancer & Disease: The Shamanic Perspective on Illness
23:56 - Empathic Energy: How World Suffering Affects Your Health
30:08 - Fear as Medicine vs. Recycled Fear That Destroys
34:14 - The Power of Attention: Where You Focus Creates Reality
40:15 - How Your Body Naturally Removes Fear & Trauma
45:40 - Mental Health: Why Words Create Your Physical Reality
49:37 - Dark Entities & Spiritual Gifts: Reconnecting to Your Abilities
1:02:07 - Death & the Afterlife: No Eternal Damnation
1:14:15 - Blessing vs. Worrying: How to Actually Help Others
1:21:15 - Book Recommendation & Final Wisdom

Sep 22, 2025 • 55min
Skin Doctor: Acne, Eczema & Wrinkles Are Nervous System Problems | ft. Keira Barr HTS w/ DrG #418
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Episode Description:
Expensive skincare not working? Your breakouts keep coming back? You’re treating the wrong thing.
Dr. Keira Barr is a board-certified dermatologist and pioneer in psychodermatology who diagnosed her own melanoma — and discovered that the real culprit behind most skin struggles isn’t bacteria, hormones, or even genetics. It’s your nervous system, stuck in stress mode.
Inside this episode, you’ll discover:
• The stress–skin pipeline: Why cortisol breaks down collagen faster than age.
• Acne + anxiety: 75% of acne sufferers also struggle with stress — and why flare-ups mirror your emotions.
• Eczema, psoriasis & hives decoded: The specific emotions tied to each, from grief to suppressed anger.
• Skin as armor: How trauma imprints on your skin, even decades later.
• The 2-minute ritual: A self-touch practice that activates oxytocin and calms your skin from the inside out.
• Generational echoes: Why mom’s stress during pregnancy predisposes babies to eczema.
• The vacation effect: Why your skin clears when you leave your stress behind — not because of creams.
• The shame loop: How picking and prodding are coping strategies, not bad habits.
• Beauty, redefined:
“Why would I be anti anything about myself? Beauty is acceptance of who we are in our skin.”
This isn't about adding more steps to your routine. It's about understanding that your skin is your nervous system's billboard. Dr. Barr shows you how to address the root cause of inflammation from the inside out. Stop fighting your skin and start listening to it. Your clearest complexion is waiting on the other side of nervous system regulation.
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:34 - Why Product Cycling Doesn't Work if Your Nervous System is Dysregulated
3:36 - Cortisol: The Number One Collagen Destroyer
4:13 - 75% of Acne Sufferers Struggle With Anxiety
5:49 - Dr. Kira Bar's Personal Journey: From Skin Shame to Psychodermatology
11:09 - How Your Nervous System Creates a Highway to Your Skin
15:00 - The Emotional Language of Skin Conditions
21:08 - Eczema in Children: The Family Nervous System Connection
24:55 - Skin Picking as a Coping Strategy, Not a Bad Habit
29:16 - The Body's Armor: Trauma and Autoimmune Skin Conditions
30:36 - How Chronic Stress Destroys Collagen and Accelerates Aging
38:39 - The Healing Power of Intentional Touch for Skin Care
44:25 - Redefining Beauty: Acceptance Over Anti-Aging
47:01 - Your Skin Isn't Misbehaving - It's Messaging
52:47 - From Flare to Flow: Practical Steps for Skin Healing

Sep 18, 2025 • 1h 9min
Attention Expert: Notifications Steal Your Life | ft. Dr. Zelana Montminy HTS w/ DrG #417
Dr. Zelana Montminy, a behavioral scientist and clinical psychologist, dives into the attention crisis caused by modern distractions. She reveals that our 'addiction' is often a response to discomfort, not the devices themselves. Learn about the 23-minute cost of task-switching to our brain and how monotasking can restore clarity. Discover the power of boredom as a tool for creativity and emotional regulation, and gain practical tips on reclaiming focus with simple lifestyle adjustments. Banish notifications and embrace mindfulness!

Sep 15, 2025 • 1h 12min
Light & Intention Rewire Every Cell in Your Body | ft. Dr. Catherine Clinton HTS w/ DrG #416
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Episode Description:
Why are you still tired, stressed, and inflamed — even when you eat clean and take all the right supplements?
The answer: there’s an invisible energy powering every heartbeat, every breath, and every thought.
Modern life scrambles this energy. And until you fix it, no diet, no pill, and no protocol will fully work.
On today’s episode of Heal Thy Self, Dr. Catherine Clinton, ND, reveals how the new science of quantum biology explains what’s really running your health — and how you can tap into it.
Here’s what you’ll discover inside this episode:
• Quantum biology basics: Why your cells work together like a perfectly tuned orchestra — moving energy with amazing efficiency.
• Your mind as medicine: How thoughts create measurable fields that can shift your body’s health in real time.
• The EMF crisis: Why man-made signals disrupt your cells — and simple steps like grounding and light exposure that restore balance.
• Water as your body’s battery: The science of structured water inside your cells and how it powers healing.
• Fascia as your wiring system: How freeing blocked fascia unlocks energy and even stored trauma.
• Daily rhythm resets: The morning light and evening darkness rituals that restore hormones, mood, and sleep.
• Sound healing made simple: How humming boosts nitric oxide, serotonin, and oxytocin while reducing inflammation.
• Grounding in minutes: Why standing barefoot on the earth instantly calms your nervous system.
• Heart–brain coherence: How your emotions create fields that affect not only you, but everyone around you.
This isn’t theory. This is peer-reviewed science meeting practical wisdom. And it gives you simple, powerful tools to recharge your energy, calm your nervous system, and unlock your body’s natural healing.
Don’t miss this conversation — it could change the way you see your health forever.
Find Catherine Clinton here:
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:36 - What is Quantum Biology? Beyond New Age Hype
10:29 - Why Current Medical Models Fall Short
16:20 - How Quantum Fields Affect Physical Health
29:13 - Morning Light Routine: Setting Your Quantum Biology
34:01 - The Power of Conscious Intention on DNA
43:00 - How Your Emotions Create Ripple Effects
50:28 - Where Emotions Get Stuck in Your Body
57:07 - Practical EMF Protection and Grounding Techniques
1:01:22 - 5-Minute Morning Routine for Quantum Health
1:05:11 - Water: The Bridge for All Frequency Information

Sep 11, 2025 • 56min
Cancer Expert: 99% of Cancer Is NOT Genetic & Your Lifestyle Can Stop It | ft. Dr. Connealy HTS #415
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Cancer has been growing in your body for 8-10 years before you feel anything. While conventional doctors wait for symptoms—lumps, pain, bleeding—you're losing nearly a decade of prevention time. Dr. Leigh Erin Connealy, who runs one of America's largest integrative cancer centers, reveals the shocking truth: less than 1% of cancers are actually genetic. The rest are completely preventable, but medical school teaches disease management, not prevention protocols. She's developed blood tests that catch cancer before it becomes cancer, discovered why your emotions literally create disease in your body, and uses protocols to reverse what conventional medicine calls "incurable." Cancer rates are exploding in young people—this isn't wellness talk, it's life-or-death information that could save you or someone you love.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• Cancer's hidden 8-10 year timeline: from first abnormal cell to detectable tumor—why early intervention during this window can prevent cancer entirely, not just treat it after diagnosis
• The real cancer causes: less than 1% genetic, 99% environmental factors including chronic stress, toxin exposure, and unresolved emotional trauma that keeps you in survival mode
• Liquid biopsy breakthroughs: blood tests detecting circulating tumor cells years before imaging shows anything—90% accuracy in identifying cancer development before symptoms appear
• Why conventional treatment fails: surgery, chemo, and radiation treat symptoms but ignore the toxic terrain that allowed cancer to develop in the first place
• The emotional cancer connection: how chronic unresolved stress suppresses immune function and creates the acidic environment cancer thrives in—plus the device that identifies emotional conflicts in minutes
• Advanced prevention protocols: comprehensive blood work detecting hormonal imbalances, heavy metals, and inflammatory markers that predict cancer risk years in advance
• Low-dose chemotherapy revolution: using 10% conventional doses with insulin targeting and immediate detox support to maximize effectiveness while minimizing damage
• The fungal theory of cancer: why medications like fenbendazole and ivermectin show anti-cancer properties and how to use them safely with proper liver protection
• Personalized nutrition strategies: why there's no one-size-fits-all cancer diet and how to determine whether keto, plant-based, or other approaches work for your specific situation
• Energy medicine integration: how frequency therapy, red light treatment, and cellular voltage optimization support healing at the deepest level alongside conventional treatments
Find Dr Connealy here:
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
2:31 - How Early Can Cancer Be Detected?
7:25 - The Biggest Truth About Cancer: 100% Preventable, Not Genetic
12:01 - Hormones & The Great Poisoning: Environmental Toxins Impact
17:45 - What Conventional Cancer Treatment Is Missing
27:08 - Integrative Cancer Protocols
32:04 - The Role of Emotions in Cancer
40:02 - Creating Healing Environments
45:17 - Repurposed Drugs: Fenbendazole, Ivermectin & Cancer Treatment
49:05 - Best Diets for Cancer
56:33 - Liquid Biopsies: Early Detection Technology & Prevention Focus

Sep 8, 2025 • 1h 17min
Spiritual Afterlife: Death Isn’t the End, Pets Join Us Too, Loved Ones Await |ft Julie Ryan HTS #414
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What if everything you've been taught about death is wrong? Medical intuitive and psychic medium Julie Ryan has spent 30 years connecting with spirits and watching thousands of people transition. Her message will shock you: everyone goes to heaven—even people you think don't deserve it.
Your deceased loved ones are around you right now, and you can actually communicate with them. Julie breaks down the 12 phases every soul goes through when dying, reveals why there are no "evil spirits," and shows you how to tap into your own intuitive abilities that you've had since childhood.
Whether you're grieving, afraid of death, or curious about the afterlife, this conversation offers profound comfort and a radically different perspective on what happens when we die.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• The 12 phases of transition: exactly what happens when someone dies, from spirit leaving the body through angelic escort to heaven—validated by 5th-century prayers and modern physics
• Why everyone goes to heaven: no exceptions, no judgment—all spirits are pure love, and the "bad" personality traits stay with the body when we die
• How to communicate with deceased loved ones: your head is like a satellite dish—think of them and they respond instantly with the first thought that comes to mind
• The truth about "evil spirits": they don't exist—what people think are demons are actually lost souls looking for loved ones, often reincarnated family members
• Why children see ghosts until age 6-7: we're all born intuitive, but adults teach kids to shut it down by saying "it's just imagination"
• The emotional roots of cancer: people who are great at giving but terrible at receiving—illness forces them to accept care they've always refused
• How to distinguish real spirit communication from your own thoughts: if it feels neutral or good, it's them; if it feels bad, rephrase your question
• Your innate healing abilities: everyone can heal themselves energetically—Julie teaches people to see inside bodies and connect with spirits in just one weekend
• Why near-death experiences differ from actual death: NDEs are like spiritual snapshots, while real transition involves specific angelic assistance and deceased family greeting you
Find Julie Ryan here:
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:57 - Rapid Fire Questions
8:05 - From Medical Device Inventor to Psychic Medium
14:07 - Why Children See Spirits (And Adults Lose This Ability)
18:01 - How to Connect with Deceased Loved Ones Through Dreams
22:08 - First Experience Seeing Inside Human Bodies as Medical Intuitive
29:08 - The Truth About Ghosts vs Evil Spirits
35:33 - Pope Clement's Message: Teaching the World About Death
44:39 - The 12 Phases of Death Transition Explained
59:02 - Live Reading: Connecting with Christian's Deceased Mother
1:05:55 - Cancer's Emotional Root: The Inability to Receive
1:13:16 - Upcoming Training & Resources for Developing Psychic Abilities

Sep 4, 2025 • 58min
Energy Healer: Break Free From Hidden Cords Draining Your Energy | ft. Dr. Jason Yuan HTS w/ DrG #413
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Episode summary
For empaths, introverts, and anyone who feels other people’s moods deeply: this episode is for you.
Dr. G sits down with Dr. Jason Yuan (ND)—a naturopathic doctor who blends energy healing with practical basics (sleep, minerals, breath, gut care). He explains pranic healing in plain English (think acupuncture without needles) and shares simple habits to use after hard talks, busy rooms, or long days.
• Post-conversation reset (60–120s): pause, breathe a little slower through your nose, then say one release line (silently or aloud): “I release what isn’t mine.”
• Salt routine: in the shower, rub a handful of salt over shoulders/arms and rinse; or take a bath with 1–2 cups of salt to clear that heavy, lingering feeling.
• Grounding: spend 5–10 minutes barefoot on grass/earth. No yard? Stand still indoors, feel your feet, and breathe slowly for a minute.• Why sensitive people “catch” the room’s mood—and how to turn the volume down• How pranic (hands-off) energy work helps the body reset
• Daily rhythm basics (sleep, minerals, steady meals) that make you more resilient
About the guest:
I’m with Dr. Jason Yuan, a naturopathic doctor who grounds energy practices in physiology—nervous system, breath, minerals, and gut. He cites mind–body research at MD Anderson Cancer Center where a healer’s brain-state shifts were linked to changes in cells, and he turns those insights into simple, repeatable routines.
Listen now to get the full walkthrough and context behind each step.
Find Dr Jason Yuan here:
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Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:36 - Rapid Fire
4:43 - Dr. Yuan's Journey from Skeptic to Energy Healer
8:13 - 25 Years of Eczema: Personal Healing Story
11:57 - What Creates Energy Blocks and Congestion
16:44 - Research: MD Anderson Cancer Study Results
22:12 - Jesus & Collective Consciousness Healing
27:54 - The Three Bodies: Physical, Emotional & Mental
34:31 - Biofield vs Quantum Field Explained
39:30 - Soul as Driver: The Chariot Metaphor
45:07 - Practical Tools: Salt Baths & Energy Hygiene
50:32 - Energetic Cords: How People Drain Your Energy
55:18 - Virtual Sessions & Learning Pronic Healing

Sep 1, 2025 • 52min
Public Speaking Expert: Overcome the Fear That Silences Your Voice | ft. Salvatore Manzi HTS w/ DrG #412
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Episode Summary
Ever start talking in a meeting and your voice cracks, your hands get sweaty, and your mind goes blank? You’re not alone.
Today Dr. G sits down with Salvatore Manzi, a communication coach with 20+ years of experience who’s helped people speak at Y Combinator and the United Nations. He explains why your body does this under pressure—and shares simple moves you can use today so you feel calm, clear, and in control at work, on stage, or on Zoom.
If you avoid speaking up or leave meetings thinking, “I wish I said that,” this episode is for you. You’ll hear how to breathe the easy way before you talk, a quick 10-second move to release nerves, a small hand cue that helps you feel grounded, and a three-word line that stops the mental spiral when someone in the audience looks unhappy or skeptical.
What You’ll Learn• A 3-word reset that stops the spiral: “Not about me.”
• Box breathing made easy—and how many rounds you actually need.
• A 10-second shake-out to dump nervous energy fast (backstage or before a meeting).
• How to flip fear into excitement in seconds (same body feelings, better result).
• A quick body anchor (thumb to finger) to feel grounded on command.
• If you ramble or over-prepare, the fast fix for each.
• What to do when someone looks skeptical without losing your flow.
• The simple rule “one idea → one gesture” so your hands don’t steal the show.
• Why pauses, voice changes, and simple metaphors make people remember you.
• A kinder way to handle imposter thoughts: name the inner critic, then tame it.
• On Zoom: show your hands, use clear small gestures, and add short beats to hold attention.
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About Our Guest:
Salvatore Manzi is a voice and confidence coach helping shy, introverted people find their power. A former terrified speaker turned transformational coach, he specializes in helping introverts stop being invisible and start being heard. With 20+ years of experience and wisdom from living in 17 cities across 8 countries, he transforms people who hate speaking into confident communicators.
• LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/salvatorejmanzi
• Website:https://www.salvatoremanzi.com/
• Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/salvatoremanzi/?hl=en
Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
1:44 - Box Breathing Technique
6:04 - Why Public Speaking is the #1 Human Fear
10:17 - Data Overload vs. Connection
19:56 - The "Not About Me" Technique
31:20 - Taming Your Gremlins: Meet Perry the Perfectionist
38:43 - Handling the Sour Face in the Audience
45:22 - Vocal Variety and the Power of Metaphors