Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage
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Feb 13, 2024 • 1h 1min

Savage Lovecast Episode 903

Topics include Instagram's algorithm displaying sexual content, a caller's fear of penetrative sex, a bi man's struggle with erection, and insights into polyamory dynamics from a reality dating show. The podcast also explores the implications of a controversial Deadpool ad, addresses concerns about sexual content on Instagram, and offers advice on performance anxiety and navigating romantic attractions.
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Feb 6, 2024 • 56min

Savage Lovecast Episode 902

Ezra Klein, New York Times contributor and host of the Ezra Klein Show, discusses his time in San Fransisco's polyamorous culture and compares it to NYC's hipster poly scene. They also talk about the failure of the nuclear family and offer advice on navigating straight spaces as a gay couple. Other topics include code switching at the gym and the challenges of non-monogamous relationships and chosen family dynamics.
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Jan 30, 2024 • 54min

Savage Lovecast Episode 901

A gay man discusses his frustration with his boyfriend's polyamory. The dangers of dating men are explored with comedian Dulcé Sloan. A woman questions her boyfriend's drinking habits. The podcast also touches on topics such as women's rights, progressive relationship options, and challenges in finding a partner. The importance of clear communication in polyamorous relationships is emphasized. The hosts address adjusting to new relationships and long-distance love.
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Jan 23, 2024 • 57min

Savage Lovecast Episode 900

A man's wife had to quit drinking due to a medical condition. They used to get tipsy and have wild sex. Now that she can't drink the sex has become rote and inhibited. They plan to go on vacation together, but the caller feels that if they can't have their free-wheeling sex, he doesn't want go on vacation at all. Don't you want to hear Dan's conversation with an adult baby/diaper lover? Yes, yes you do. On the Magnum, a gay man is looking for the most penis-like sex toy he can find that doesn't leak toxic, hormone-disrupting chemicals. Dan brings on our resident sex toy expert, Erika Moen to go over the possibilities.And...pineapples! What do they REALLY mean?Q@Savage.Love     206-302-2064This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage
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Jan 16, 2024 • 57min

Savage Lovecast Episode 899

Topics include navigating a friendship turning into a romantic relationship, dealing with low sexual attraction in dating, advice on different libidos and sexual orientations, social dynamics on hookup apps, challenges of a polyamorous relationship, and more.
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Jan 9, 2024 • 54min

Savage Lovecast Episode 898

Happy Feast of the Ass for all who celebrate!A gay man is fed up with the guys who try to use the gym as their personal hook-up site. When the leering moves into harassment, should he tell management? Or is this just to be expected in gay male spaces? A recently divorced straight man is hot to trot. He dates casually, but catches feelings so soon, that he scares off the women. How can he learn to take it slow? On the Magnum, we are delighted to welcome Damona Hoffman back to the show. Listen in as these titans of the dating advice world chitty-chat, spar and dish it up together. Hoffman's new book "F THE FAIRY TALE: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story" is all about the myths we believe about dating, and how to cultivate a more realistic, successful approach to finding people. And, a gay man hooked up with a much older man (with a giant penis, incidentally.) The man asked the caller if he would be into some BDSM. The caller has never been interested in kink, especially with someone he barely knows. But could "maybe, eventually" get there? How can he communicate his reticence, and still leave the door open, just a crack?Heh heh. Crack. Q@Savage.Love.  206-302-2064This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $80 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage.This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off. 
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Jan 2, 2024 • 49min

Savage Lovecast Episode 897

A German lesbian contemplates a short-term sexual relationship with a conservative woman. A gay man faces the challenge of explaining his past sexual assault experience to a church. The podcast features discussions on queer topics, anal pleasure, and communication strategies in relationships.
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Dec 26, 2023 • 51min

Savage Lovecast Episode 896

A lesbian struggles with falling for lies and getting conned. A man wonders if he should stop paying for his ex-girlfriend's subscriptions due to privacy concerns. Jen Hecht of Building Healthy Online Communities discusses strategies for healthy dating app experiences. The Other Woman from a previous episode calls in. The chapter descriptions cover a range of topics including penile fractures during Christmas, jealousy in open relationships, and navigating coming out and divorce.
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Dec 21, 2023 • 55min

Holiday Extra: A City on Mars

Explore the challenges of sex and procreation in space, including the lack of consideration given to it in space settlement plans. Discuss the difficulties of living and reproducing in space, such as ventilation issues and the impact of weightlessness on sex, gestation, and childbirth. Delve into the risks and challenges of colonizing Mars, including the harsh conditions and the impact of gravity on the human body. Touch on the concept of the 'three dolphin club' and secrecy surrounding sex in space. Speculate on astronaut masturbation in space and the dynamics of polyamorous relationships on Mars. Discuss the book 'A City on Mars' and its insights into space settlement and Elon Musk's plans.
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Dec 19, 2023 • 47min

Savage Lovecast Episode 895

Dick pic backfire! When a woman received an image of her sexting partner's wiener, she was distressed to see small white bumps adorning his penis. Could it be HPV? That's bad, right? Should she tell him? Does he know already? Ah, the folks you'll meet online...A woman connected with a man via Tinder who claimed to have regular vacation sex with his mother. She then found a Reddit community full of folks all claiming the same thing. Is this real? Do we have to date men who have sex with their mothers now? On the Magnum, welcome to the seedy, shady and lucrative world of the NoFap movement. In this "What You Got," Dan interviews neuroscientist and sex researcher Dr. Nicole Prause who analyzed the violent culture of the men who are convinced that masturbation drains them of their masculinity. A trans woman is a switch. She can be the dom, she can be the sub. But she usually ends up domming because of the general shortage of doms. How can a trans gal get tied up already? Q@Savage.Love     206-302-2064This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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