Savage Lovecast

The hosts announce their vacation but promise to be back on July 9. They promote a new episode of Sex and Politics with Amanda Markot.

Topics include navigating non-monogamy in relationships, disclosing polyamory to family, supporting LGBTQ+ Ukrainians, addressing negative reactions to coming out, toxic codependency in relationships, discussing sensitive conversations, exploring boundaries of monogamy, and exploring female-led relationships.

Author Lyz Lenz discusses escaping a joyless marriage and embracing her independence. Topics include finding a selfish lover, oral sex boundaries, and defining sex in national parks. The episode also debunks anti-sex bed rumors at the Olympics and explores emotional domination in relationships.

Topics include a straight man posing as gay to deal with a drunk homophobe, introduction of Bad Advice column, etiquette of dating app disclosures, entering gay male spaces, and inclusivity at Pride events.

Comedian Jared Goldstein and Dan discuss gay men rejecting long-haired homos, straight men not getting 'headaches,' and whether dreams get weirder as we age. A woman faces the choice between single or double mastectomy while dealing with her ex's criminal charges. Another caller struggles with dating a woman who isn't over her boss ex-husband, who hunts caribou.

Topics include a boyfriend's son stealing underwear, navigating past infidelity with children, anal health with Dr. Evan Goldstein, polyamory troubles, and setting boundaries in sugar baby relationships. The episode also touches on disclosing infidelity to children and unique celebrations among couples.

Lesbian caller wonders if a married couple is serious about group sex. 17-year-old girl reflects on a tumultuous relationship with an older man. Comedian Rachel Feinstein talks tea bagging. Dan and Nancy share their first-time stories. Man copes with grief through frequent masturbation.

Lawyer and LGBTQ advocate Diana Adams and Dan discuss the importance of legal protections for polyamorous individuals. They touch on the need for separate legal rights outside of marriage, sperm donation dilemmas, and even try to score some free legal advice.

Peggy Orenstein talks with Dan about the risks of erotic choking, Madonna/whore complex, and unattainable desires. They also discuss a gay man's wet & messy kink and the challenges of shame. Listeners share relationship dilemmas and seek advice on intimacy and dating struggles.

When you throw a sweaty, sexy party, and most of the guests have left, except for your girlfriend and her ex, and this ex offers to suck your dick, saying his current girlfriend won't mind a bit, should you take his word for it? A woman has met a new guy and likes him a lot! And he likes her too! You know what else he likes? His sex doll. He spent $1000 on it. The caller is very squicked out and doesn't know if it's deal-breaker or not. On the Magnum, it's a love fest between Dan Savage and our guest- TV writer Stan Zimmerman. His work as a comedy writer is seen throughout many notable TV shows and sitcoms including The Golden Girls, Gilmore Girls, Roseanne, and The Brady Bunch movies. They talk about how Stan had to be closeted throughout his time writing for The Golden Girls (!!!), the special relationship many gay boys have with their mothers and grandmothers, and the gritty, gutty works of television. Finally, a straight man in his 70s has always had a fantasy of being weak and abused. This erotic desire ruined his marriage. Lately, it's morphed into him fantasizing about being a frail woman. Is this a common fantasy? How can he indulge it? Q@Savage.Love      206-302-2064This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $80 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com/Savage, and use the offer code Space80.This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage.Get a 4-week trial, free postage, and a digital scale at https://www.stamps.com/savage. Thanks to Stamps.com for sponsoring the show!