

Savage Lovecast
Dan Savage
Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
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Jul 16, 2024 • 54min
Savage Lovecast Episode 924
Topics include helping a partner achieve orgasm post-circumcision, managing jealousy in a brat/dom dynamic, exploring face blindness with a science reporter, navigating dating as a stay-at-home dad, and the importance of clear communication in relationships.

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Jul 9, 2024 • 51min
Savage Lovecast Episode 923
Andy Richter joins in to talk about replacing the term 'body count' with something more positive and the dynamics of the 'relationship escalator.' They also discuss a woman who has an orgasm every time she sees a masseuse. The hosts delve into ethical debates in porn fiction and the importance of clear communication in relationships.

Jul 2, 2024 • 3min
No Show Announcement
The hosts announce their vacation but promise to be back on July 9. They promote a new episode of Sex and Politics with Amanda Markot.

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Jun 25, 2024 • 52min
Savage Lovecast Episode 922
Topics include navigating non-monogamy in relationships, disclosing polyamory to family, supporting LGBTQ+ Ukrainians, addressing negative reactions to coming out, toxic codependency in relationships, discussing sensitive conversations, exploring boundaries of monogamy, and exploring female-led relationships.

Jun 18, 2024 • 52min
Savage Lovecast Episode 921
Author Lyz Lenz discusses escaping a joyless marriage and embracing her independence. Topics include finding a selfish lover, oral sex boundaries, and defining sex in national parks. The episode also debunks anti-sex bed rumors at the Olympics and explores emotional domination in relationships.

Jun 11, 2024 • 50min
Savage Lovecast Episode 920
Topics include a straight man posing as gay to deal with a drunk homophobe, introduction of Bad Advice column, etiquette of dating app disclosures, entering gay male spaces, and inclusivity at Pride events.

Jun 4, 2024 • 52min
Savage Lovecast Episode 919
Comedian Jared Goldstein and Dan discuss gay men rejecting long-haired homos, straight men not getting 'headaches,' and whether dreams get weirder as we age. A woman faces the choice between single or double mastectomy while dealing with her ex's criminal charges. Another caller struggles with dating a woman who isn't over her boss ex-husband, who hunts caribou.

May 28, 2024 • 51min
Savage Lovecast Episode 918
Topics include a boyfriend's son stealing underwear, navigating past infidelity with children, anal health with Dr. Evan Goldstein, polyamory troubles, and setting boundaries in sugar baby relationships. The episode also touches on disclosing infidelity to children and unique celebrations among couples.

May 21, 2024 • 55min
Savage Lovecast Episode 917
Lesbian caller wonders if a married couple is serious about group sex. 17-year-old girl reflects on a tumultuous relationship with an older man. Comedian Rachel Feinstein talks tea bagging. Dan and Nancy share their first-time stories. Man copes with grief through frequent masturbation.

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May 16, 2024 • 19min
Sex & Politics #30 Micro Version
Lawyer and LGBTQ advocate Diana Adams and Dan discuss the importance of legal protections for polyamorous individuals. They touch on the need for separate legal rights outside of marriage, sperm donation dilemmas, and even try to score some free legal advice.


