Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 938
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Oct 22, 2024 
In this lively discussion, Irish comedian Des Bishop, known for his stand-up special "Of All People," shares hilarious insights on male sexuality, including straight guys' surprising interests in butt play. He joins Dan Savage to explore the dynamics of relationships, from a woman's shocking discovery about her boyfriend's hidden family to a married woman's journey into burlesque and exploring her bisexuality. The pair also tackle the sensitive issue of a partner's declining hygiene, offering hilarious yet honest advice on maintaining intimacy.
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Politics Shapes Dating Odds
- Political alignment strongly affects dating prospects; many young women avoid men who publicly support Trump.
- Wearing extreme political signals can sharply shrink your dating pool and radicalize isolated single men further.
Delay Big Sexual Changes While Parenting
- Wait to push major sexual or relationship changes until parenting intensity eases to reduce risk to the child and couple.
- Revisit the idea later and introduce it gently so your partner can marinate and possibly become more open.
Don't Wait Forever For Someone Else's Divorce
- Treat this revelation as a cultural exchange and decide how much emotional investment you want to make given his existing marriage and child.
- Protect yourself by dating others and avoid waiting indefinitely for him to choose you.