The Hook Up

Angela White, the world’s biggest porn star, shares her candid insights on the adult film industry and the importance of genuine connections in performances. She discusses mastering oral pleasure with effective techniques and emphasizes the significance of aftercare post-intimacy. The conversation dives into emotional complexities, including crying after sex as a form of vulnerability release, while also unpacking feminism in porn and the evolving landscape of sexual kinks. Angela's honesty brings a fresh perspective to intimacy and sexuality.

Dr. Tara, a sex and relationship communication professor with a massive TikTok following, shares her expertise on building sexual confidence. She emphasizes the importance of self-esteem and offers practical tips like journaling and mindful masturbation. The conversation also touches on 'edging' for enhanced pleasure and explores intimacy beyond penetration, highlighting the significance of non-penetrative activities. Dr. Tara encourages a broader understanding of sexual experiences, advocating for variety and the value of nipple play for everyone.

Reflecting on a challenging year, the hosts share their personal struggles and wins while discussing the complex landscape of modern dating. They dive into the intriguing 'trad wife' phenomenon and critique its cultural implications. Insights on dating as a neurodivergent individual reveal the importance of supportive partnerships. A unique discussion on uterus didelphus adds a fresh perspective to reproductive health. Predictions for 2025 highlight the need for higher standards and better communication in relationships, promising hope for future connections.

It’s hard to know when a relationship has run it’s course - so when there’s nothing really wrong or really right, how can you trust your gut on what to do? We get some advice from psychologist and couples therapist Elizabeth Neale.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

From waffle stomping and ewok kinks, to reusing a housemate’s sex toy and having a SWAT team investigate your nudes - we round up the most cooked secrets spilled by you this year.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

What does the research show when it comes to relationships with big age gaps? How likely are they to be successful? And when is an age gap problematic? Professor of Psychology from Deakin University Gery Karantzas weighs in on the age gap debate in dating.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Bimini, a non-binary drag queen and DJ from RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 2, discusses their vibrant journey in drag culture. They delve into the intersection of punk aesthetics and queer politics, emphasizing self-expression and authenticity. Bimini shares insights on navigating queer identity, the emotional impact of hair loss, and the importance of humor and acceptance. Engaging in playful hypotheticals about love and connection, they explore the meaning of intimacy beyond societal norms while critiquing media portrayals of queer relationships.

Explore how attachment styles shape dating and relationships, from anxious to secure. Gain insights into the emotional patterns rooted in childhood experiences. Discover transformative strategies to shift from insecure attachments to more secure connections. Hear personal stories that reveal the potential for growth and understanding in love. This journey navigates the complexities of attachment theory, offering tools for fostering healthier relationships.

Comedian and podcaster Chloe Maddren, known for her viral response to online harassment, shares her transformative journey of monetizing trolls through OnlyFans. She humorously discusses the power of turning negativity into empowerment, dives into the complexities of modern relationships, and addresses the balance between sex positivity and body neutrality. Chloe also reveals quirky subscriber requests and shares anecdotes from her performances, highlighting the unique intersections of art, attraction, and friendship in the creative community.

In this engaging conversation, Jeff Guenther, a TikTok-famous therapist with over two decades of experience, dives deep into the therapy boom on social media. He shares insights on the importance of self-identity within relationships and how to listen, not just react. Jeff explores the balance between chaotic and stable love by discussing 'red flag' and 'green flag' sparks, as well as the complexities of fantasy in romantic connections. His blend of humor and wisdom sheds light on navigating today's emotional landscape.