
selvruled
THE source to accelerate your self-belief, claim your purpose, and become who you are meant to be.
Latest episodes

May 1, 2025 • 17min
E14: Letting Go of Who You Are to Become Who You Are Meant to Be
Oftentimes we stay too strongly tied to an identity long past its expiration date. We are here on earth to grow and expand. Join me this week for my thoughts on letting go for self-evolution.

Apr 24, 2025 • 8min
E13: Fear vs. Desire: The Driving Forces in Life
How often do you find yourself speaking about what you don't want in your life? Let's talk about how to shift from fear pushing you to desire pulling you.

Apr 17, 2025 • 12min
E12: The Gift of an Aloneness Season
Do you find yourself alone? Do you find yourself wanting to resist that reality? Join me for a conversation on the gifts that come from this season when you let go of FOMO and accept the season you are in.

Apr 10, 2025 • 13min
E11: Success That Feels Better Than It Looks
Have you ever pursued a goal or definition of success only to later realize it didn’t bring you what you hoped? Let’s dive into the feelings we chase and how to shift to embodying the deeper side of success we crave.

Apr 3, 2025 • 24min
E10: Self-Ruled Career Transition
Are you dreaming of leaving you role or currently in a career or military transition? Join me for some encouragement on the journey!

Mar 27, 2025 • 26min
E9: Your Story Reveals Your Reality
What if I told you that the way you see your life isn't just reality-- it's a story you've been telling yourself? Join me this week as I breakdown how your unconscious stories hold the key to unlock powerful change in your life.

Mar 20, 2025 • 23min
E8: The Resistance Equation for Change
Have you ever set a big goal, been excited about it, and then found yourself avoiding the very actions it would take to achieve that goal? You're not alone! Join me for a chat about resistance and the equation I've found that has helped me navigate resistance to create change in my life.

Mar 13, 2025 • 20min
E7: Become Your Biggest Fan
Welcome back! The path to personal growth can be a lonely one sometimes. There won't always be a crowd clapping for us. Join me for a chat on how you can become your own biggest fan.

Mar 6, 2025 • 22min
E6: Your Energy is Power
Join me for a chat this week about your greatest resource- your energy. We will look at five areas and I will ask you to consider where you are gaining and where you are losing.

Feb 27, 2025 • 24min
E5: 10 Questions to Get Closer to Your Purpose
After the Marine Corps I spent years searching for my purpose. Now I help other people cultivate their purpose. These are the ten questions I would share with my younger self to get clarity on my purpose. If you are searching for your purpose, this is for you!
10 Questions to Get Closer to Your Purpose:
1. What is most important to you?
2. What is your true nature?
3. What would your perfect day be?
4. What are you curious about?
5. When do you feel energized?
6. Who do you look up to and why?
7. What are you better at than most people?
8. What problems would you like to solve?
9. What is one problem would like to solve everyday?
10. What would you like to be known for?