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Tripp Lanier
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Apr 26, 2021 • 0sec
Is Believing in God Dangerous? — Jamie Wheal, Recapture the Rapture
Is it dangerous to believe in god or something bigger than yourself?
What do Mars colonization, cults, and the pursuit of heavenly salvation have in common?
And why are so many of us feeling spiritually lost?
Jamie Wheal is the co-author of Stealing Fire and the executive director of the Flow Genome Project. He’s returned to discuss his latest book, Recapture the Rapture. Today we talk about the world’s crisis of meaning, why groups sometimes make us dumber, and trying to fill the god-shaped hole in our hearts.
In this interview:
Rabbi Zalman Shachter, LSD, and being a Jew
Trying to ignore our faith
When Buddha, Lao Tzu, and other traditions don’t fit
Why so many of us long for god
Being “cosmic-orphans”
Plus:
Why we’re in a “meaning crisis”
Our longing to escape the grind of life
The power of the death-rebirth experience
Communities that mean good but go bad
Why cults are a feature of being human
Do we get dumber as members of a group?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/jamie-wheal-recapture-the-rapture
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Apr 20, 2021 • 0sec
Go From Poopy-Pants to Power — Tripp Lanier
Tired of feeling uninspired or “meh?”
Tired of hearing yourself bitch and complain?
And why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?”
In this short video, we explore a simple process to use our mood to our advantage.
In this episode:
Why do moods matter?
What causes our moods?
Why are we giving up our power?
The 3 step process to shift a lousy mood into empowering action
Why do we choose to “cover our ass, kiss ass, or prove we’re not an ass?”
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/use-mood-to-your-advantage
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Apr 6, 2021 • 0sec
Aren’t We All a Little Crazy? Mental Illness to Peak Performance — Keith Kurlander
What if your normal level of stress, anxiety, or depression didn’t have to be normal?
Do you feel like you’re using work, alcohol, or something else to outrun the uncomfortable thoughts in your head?
And how can we use our stress and darkness to help us live a more full, rewarding life?
Before Keith Kurlander became a founder of the Integrative Psychiatry Center, he struggled with serious mental health issues. He ran away from the promise of a highly lucrative life on Wall Street to find relief on a path which took many, many turns.
He worked with everyone from yoga teachers to therapists to meds to shamans to psychedelics to you name it. He tried it. But none of those approaches alone worked for him.
These days he’s dialed in his brain, his body, and his behaviors and his life is back on track.
So what worked? What had him go from struggling to get off the couch to being a husband and father leading two companies today?
Today we explore his story and the reality that all of us deal with some form of mental illness on some level. Here’s to all of us realizing that maybe, just maybe we don’t have to hide, outrun, or settle if we don’t want to.
In this interview:
What if everyone has a bit of mental illness?
Trying to outrun our inner critic, dark thoughts, emotions
Moving from mental illness to peak performance
The stigma of struggling with anxiety and depression
Do we have to blow up our lives in order to make a change?
Plus:
Running away from Wall Street and a lucrative career
Keith’s experiences with mental illness and bipolar disorder
Seeking relief through spiritual growth
How ayahuasca effected Keith’s brain
Keith’s experience with meds
And:
What approaches help us heal mental illness
What is integrative psychiatry and why is it so powerful?
Why you need to be the authority of your path
Integrating psychedelics, ketamine, and functional medicine with traditional therapies
And then:
Betraying ourselves and pushing down that inner voice
Wound worshipping and getting stuck in “healing”
Mental disorders are chosen because we get something from them
What is spiritual bypassing?
What to ask yourself if you’re tired of feeling stuck
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/04/mental-illness-peak-performance
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 24, 2021 • 0sec
Build Confidence: There is No Secret Sauce — Tripp Lanier
Do you struggle to follow through on the stuff you know you need to be doing?
Do you get “shiny object syndrome” and change course too often?
And do you fall into the trap of comparing yourself to others or putting folks on a pedestal?
In this video, I share the story of a coaching client who used his business to transform his mindset and become more confident in the process.
In this video:
Lacking follow through on the important things
Shiny object syndrome — switching strategies
Comparing ourselves to others
Putting others on a pedestal
Looking for the “secret sauce”, hacks, or cheat codes
Also:
Building confidence through consistency
Staying the course
Making sure goals don’t drive you into the ground
Getting through the tough stuff
The key to peace of mind
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/build-confidence
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 8, 2021 • 0sec
How Do You Deal with Criticism? (Part 2) – Brian Johnson
Are you following the herd or taking the lead?
What’s driving your chronic dissatisfaction and frustration?
And how can rubbing people the wrong way be an indicator that you’re on the right track?
Heroic Public Benefit Corporation founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 2 in our series. Today we talk about trolls, anger, and using our deep fear of being misunderstood for a greater good.
When we see someone do the extraordinary, most of the time we only see the impressive outcomes while the gritty, uncomfortable, awkward stuff stays in the shadows. This series is a behind the scenes look as Brian undergoes his own hero’s journey to bring Heroic into the world.
As a coach, I help people navigate this uncertain, challenging terrain everyday, and my hope is that by witnessing Brian’s ups and downs, we can take away some wisdom for our own journey’s.
At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic.
In this interview:
Why do we criticize people who are more courageous than us?
How to tell if you’re playing the victim?
How can anger and criticism be used for good?
Are you defensive or curious?
Can you learn to challenge others without vitriol?
Plus:
Ken Wilber “No one is 100% wrong.”
How to address toxic comments on social media?
What kills a democracy?
What is Cosmic Rage?
How to combat the erosion of common decency?
And:
What’s beyond attention economics?
Why become a Public Benefit Corporation?
How do you act in a sacred environment vs social media?
What’s the difference between anger and aggression?
How to feel more full and satisfied on a daily basis?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/brian-johnson-heroic-2
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 3, 2021 • 0sec
Competitive Mindset: Is There More to Life than Winning and Losing? — Tripp Lanier
Make the most of your competitive mindset without turning life into a pissing match. Tips for dealing with the fear of missing out, losing, and that time I got diarrhea from the FSU vs Miami football game.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/03/more-to-life-than-winning-losing
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Feb 16, 2021 • 0sec
Is There More to Life Than Chasing Money or Importance? — Doc G
Do you worry that you’re on the wrong path in life?
Are you focused on goals and outcomes or doing what you actually enjoy?
And what if there’s more to life than chasing money or the need to be important?
Before Doc G became a writer and host of the Earn and Invest podcast, he was like many doctors. But after years spent chasing outcomes, money and building an ideal version of himself, he realized he was in a trap. Today we discuss how he reinvented his personal and professional life based on what gave him a sense of aliveness and meaning. We’ll also dive into our fixation on money, safety, and why death can be a wonderful teacher.
In this interview:
Is life forcing you to change?
Who are you if you’re not chasing money?
Joseph Campbell on feeling alive
Doing things to prove we’re enough
Why ego gets in the way of meaning or purpose
Plus:
Why Doc G got depressed once he was financially free
Thinking if you were someone else you’d be free once and for all
Redefining your life based on what brings aliveness and meaning
Chasing outcomes instead of enjoying the process
Dealing with resistance and self-doubt
Searching for “hacks” to avoid discomfort, risk, and vulnerability
And:
How dealing with death on a regular basis impacts our ability to live
What is hospice?
What is the dying process like?
How does spirituality affect our ability to die peacefully?
The fear of dying with peace instead of regrets
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/doc-g-earn-invest
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Feb 2, 2021 • 0sec
Winning Your Inner Civil War (Part 1) – Brian Johnson
Do you have a sense that something is rumbling in your soul, trying to get out?
Do you feel confused about who you are professionally?
And are you waiting until you feel ready, or are you building the world you want to live in?
Philosopher and CEO, Brian Johnson is back. This time he’s set his sights on an ambitious goal to create a company that will change the world. The Heroic Public Benefit Corporation is a platform that will provide the tools for optimal living as well as an online community that will become the answer to The Social Dilemma.
At the time of this recording, Brian’s raising $11 million to get the ball rolling, and Heroic stands to be the first company in history to raise $5 million through crowdfunding. There’s so much more to his grand vision, and you can learn more by visiting wefunder.com/heroic.
Now if you’re like most of us, you may have a sense that there’s something calling you to the next level of your life. Perhaps you’re not clear about the role you’re supposed to play or maybe you just don’t want to rock the boat.
Brian is no different. And so as Heroic finds it’s footing in the world, he’s agreed to pull back the curtain and let us in on his personal process. Throughout this series of interviews, we’ll ride along with Brian through his hero’s journey — and find our own gold along the way.
In this interview:
Heeding the call to go big
Dealing with ambivalence
“Am I a philosopher or a CEO?”
“What one can be, one must be.” Maslow
Walt Whitman, “Simmering, simmering, simmering…to a boil”
“What kind of world do I want to live in and what am I going to do about it?”
Building the answer to “The Social Dilemma”
Plus:
Confronting self-doubt
Meditation to increase personal power
Phil Stutz and leaning into the things that scare you
Does pain or discomfort mean something is wrong?
Wanting to find the hack, cheat code, or short cut
How do we know if we’re on the “wrong” path?
And:
Trusting yourself instead of doing what makes others feel comfortable
The key to becoming anti-fragile
Hustling and success that makes us “weak”
Burning ourselves up and out in order to impress others
Is ambition a dirty word?
Living and working in service of something bigger than yourself
No more waiting to lead
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/02/brian-johnson-heroic
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Jan 19, 2021 • 0sec
Are You Selling Your Soul? — John Jantsch
John Jantsch (The Self-Reliant Entrepreneur) discusses how our deeper values play a role in our success. If you’re tired of the typical, hyper-achievement BS that passes for business advice, then this conversation will be a breath of fresh air.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/Self-reliant-entrepreneur-john-jantsch
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com

Jan 5, 2021 • 0sec
The Truth About Relationships – Neil Strauss (Replay)
Neil Strauss (“The Truth”, “The Game”) discusses the gritty truth about his experiences with infidelity, sex rehab, sex clubs, open relationships — you name it. Enjoy this classic interview from The New Man Podcast with Tripp Lanier.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/01/neil-strauss-the-truth
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
https://dangerousbookstore.com