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Everyone needs a little help being a human. From sleep to saving money to parenting and more, host Marielle Segarra talks to experts to get the best advice out there. Life Kit is here to help you get it together. Want another life hack? Try Life Kit+. You'll support the show and unlock exclusive curated playlists and sponsor-free listening. Learn more at plus.npr.org/lifekit
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Dec 15, 2022 • 11min
Dear LK: We bought a dog instead of rescuing one. It cost me a friend
Tania Israel, a psychology professor known for her expertise in navigating difficult conversations, discusses the fallout from a listener's choice to buy a puppy instead of adopting. She offers valuable advice on how to communicate effectively in friendships challenged by differing values. The conversation emphasizes empathy and understanding, urging listeners to engage constructively with those who hold opposing viewpoints. Tania highlights the importance of embracing diverse perspectives to enrich relationships and foster meaningful dialogue.

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Dec 13, 2022 • 21min
How to support people with long COVID
One in five Americans who have had COVID have experienced symptoms lasting three months or more. How can patients navigate this chronic illness? And how can the people in their lives provide comfort and strength? In this episode from our friends at It's Been a Minute, host Brittany Luse talks to the editor and a contributor of a new book, 'The Long COVID Survival Guide.'Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

Dec 12, 2022 • 24min
Build a healthy relationship with your in-laws
Building a good rapport with in-laws can be tricky! Experts share tips on managing unsolicited advice and navigating family dynamics. They emphasize the need for empathy and clear communication, especially during introductions and significant events. Setting healthy boundaries is crucial, particularly after children arrive. A united front with your partner can enhance trust and respect, making relationships more enjoyable. It's all about shifting perspectives for better understanding and fostering meaningful connections.

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Dec 8, 2022 • 21min
How to start new traditions that feel right to you
Explore the transformative power of traditions and their role in fostering connection and unity. Discover how outdated customs can be replaced with practices that spark joy and reflect personal values. Listen to personal journeys of embracing new traditions, particularly for those navigating identity challenges. Learn about the beauty of evolving traditions within diverse communities and the importance of creating enjoyable, low-pressure rituals that prioritize fun and authenticity.

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Dec 6, 2022 • 19min
Piece together your family tree
Micah Anders, a professional genealogist from Minnesota with a focus on anti-racist genealogy, shares her expertise in tracing family histories. She encourages listeners to explore archives, census data, and vital records to uncover hidden gems about their ancestors. The conversation dives into the emotional challenges of researching family dynamics, particularly in mixed-race communities. With practical tips and reflective anecdotes, Micah emphasizes the importance of understanding genealogy as a means to connect with personal identity and legacy.

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Dec 5, 2022 • 19min
Stressed about talking about finances with a new partner? This framework can help
Financial therapist Amanda Clayman, who specializes in navigating money issues in relationships, shares her insights on fostering financial intimacy. She introduces the 'five components of financial intimacy' to help couples tackle the often awkward topic of finances. Amanda discusses how emotional connections intersect with financial discussions and emphasizes the importance of equality and transparency. She provides practical tips for rebuilding trust and enhancing communication, ensuring that financial conversations strengthen relationships rather than hinder them.

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Dec 1, 2022 • 12min
Dear LK: My folks guilt-trip me into spending the holidays with them
Join licensed therapist John Kim as he dives into the complex emotions that surface during the holidays. He provides valuable strategies for navigating family guilt and hurtful comments while balancing personal needs against familial expectations. John emphasizes the power of open communication and boundary-setting to foster a more peaceful holiday experience. Discover how humor and a positive approach can shift the atmosphere, turning potential conflicts into opportunities for growth and connection.

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Nov 29, 2022 • 22min
How to apply the rules of improv to everyday life
Discover how the principles of improv can enrich your everyday life! Embrace spontaneity and creativity while combating anxiety. Learn the 'yes and' mindset to enhance personal relationships and boost self-expression. Through charming anecdotes, explore the beauty of mistakes as gateways to growth. Uncover how curiosity and play foster emotional awareness and joy, reminding us to celebrate our unique identities. Dive into the transformative power of laughter and authentic connection!

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Nov 28, 2022 • 20min
Transform the way you deal with dread
In this engaging discussion, Salim Rushamwala, host of 'More Than a Feeling' and expert on emotions, sheds light on the often-overlooked emotion of dread. He shares creative exercises like drawing your fears and scheduling worry time to help reframe your relationship with anxiety. The conversation also touches on deep themes, including how embracing mortality can enhance life’s meaning and the restorative power of nature to combat climate change dread. Expect insightful reflections and practical tools to navigate everyday worries.

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Nov 26, 2022 • 18min
How much money do you need to become a parent? An episode from This Is Uncomfortable
Rima Hreis, host of the Marketplace podcast This Is Uncomfortable, dives into the emotional and financial dilemmas surrounding parenthood. She shares insights from a couple grappling with the financial implications of starting a family, emphasizing the pressures of security versus desire. The conversation highlights the value of financial therapy, emotional connections to money, and practical strategies like 'money dates' to reframe financial discussions. It's a candid exploration of how couples can navigate the intersection of money and dreams of parenthood.


