Life Kit Dear LK: My folks guilt-trip me into spending the holidays with them
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Dec 1, 2022 Join licensed therapist John Kim as he dives into the complex emotions that surface during the holidays. He provides valuable strategies for navigating family guilt and hurtful comments while balancing personal needs against familial expectations. John emphasizes the power of open communication and boundary-setting to foster a more peaceful holiday experience. Discover how humor and a positive approach can shift the atmosphere, turning potential conflicts into opportunities for growth and connection.
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Outdated Traditions
- Holding onto outdated traditions, like gifting when friendships have faded, can hinder personal growth.
- Embrace change and adapt traditions to reflect current relationships.
Stop Unwanted Gift Exchanges
- Communicate openly with your friends about unwanted gift-giving traditions.
- Suggest alternatives like spending limits or fun activities instead.
Setting Boundaries with Parents
- Set boundaries with your parents regarding holiday visits, even if it leads to guilt or discomfort.
- Prioritize your own needs and desires for your vacation time.