I Wish You Knew

Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
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Mar 8, 2024 • 1h 1min

Gen Z’s Outlook on Gender Roles, Dating, and More | Ep18 | I Wish You Knew

🎙️ ️ Dive into an intriguing episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, where Gen Z voice Kenzie Carter joins relationship coach Sarah Moore and the attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith for a candid conversation about navigating expectations in today's relationships.   This episode is packed with honest takes on love, life, and everything in between. So buckle up for some thought-provoking conversations, and get ready to have your mind blown (or at least learn something new).   This episode tackles a crucial question: In an era of social media pressures and evolving gender roles, what expectations do Gen Z men and women have for each other in relationships, friendships, and in marriage? 🌟Join us as we explore:   👉 How dating apps have become dehumanizing and transactional, akin to shopping at a market place.  👉 How men can avoid unintentionally making their partners feel unsafe or disrespected. 👉 How traditional gender roles are being challenged by Gen Z couples and how they're redefining what it means to be in a healthy relationship. 👉 How education and financial security influence our relationship expectations and desires. 👉 The secret to finding lasting fulfillment, without needing a million followers. 👉 How dopamine-seeking behaviors from men can hinder genuine connections with women. 👉 Why men who lack oxytocin due to a lack of emotional connection in their upbringing may struggle to meet their partner's emotional needs. From setting realistic expectations to developing healthy, secure attachments, this must-watch episode offers valuable insights for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of modern dating. If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love this one on social media’s impact on modern dating:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnFADHMoRJk    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Follow Kenzie Carter: Website: https://www.kenziecarterscloset.com/   Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheKenzieCarter      Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekenziecarter/  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@_lilheat_    -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Mar 1, 2024 • 59min

Unrealistic Expectations Are Destroying The Dating Market | Ep17 | I Wish You Knew

Debate on escalating women's expectations, impact of social media on relationships, evolution of masculinity, importance of communication, strategies for setting realistic expectations in modern relationships
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Feb 23, 2024 • 1h 1min

What the West Gets Wrong About Masculinity | Ep16 | I Wish You Knew

🎙️ Welcome back to another insightful episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today, Adam and Sarah have an enlightening discussion with Indian podcaster Silawath Irshad about relationships and gender dynamics in India versus the West. They tackle the pressing question: Can traditional family values and gender roles survive in an era of modern feminism and shifting cultural norms? This cross-cultural episode takes you on a thought-provoking journey through marriage, dating, femininity, masculinity, and how India compares to the US. 🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode: How the rise of feminism in India is impacting gender roles and family structures. The differences between traditional Indian and Western views on masculinity. Do Indian women still highly value motherhood and homemaking? How does the modern dating culture in India compare to the state of Western dating? Why Silawath believes men need to "man up" and provide for their families. Sarah and Adam's perspectives on what women vs men really want in relationships. Listening will broaden your cultural awareness and help you reflect on shifting gender dynamics around the world. You'll come away with a nuanced understanding of how traditional values are evolving in the face of modern feminism. If you liked this episode, you will probably enjoy this one too: https://youtu.be/VYpZVZIamZosi=pH1ZDojh8TuG5JsQ A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA. Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “Silawath Irshad” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:      https://silawathirshad.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/silawath_irshad/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/silawathirshad/ Linkedin:    https://in.linkedin.com/in/silawathirshad Twitter:       https://twitter.com/silawathirshad -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.
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Feb 16, 2024 • 1h 7min

The Terrifying Impact of Social Media on Modern Relationships | Ep15 | I Wish You Knew

🎙️ Welcome back to another episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! This week Adam and Sarah are sitting down with digital media expert Matt Daley to dissect the evolving landscape of dating and relationships in our digital age. Matt Daley is a distinguished digital media expert with a deep understanding of the intricate ways in which digital landscapes shape our social interactions, particularly in the realm of dating and relationships (he’s also one of this podcast’s favorite people). This episode courageously confronts the difficult questions surrounding the impact of digital media on traditional dating practices, the rise of platforms like OnlyFans, and the generational shifts in how relationships are formed and perceived today. 🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode:   The significant influence of digital media on conventional dating and relationship norms. Insights from Matt Daley on the role of social media in shaping our views on romance. The contentious nature of dating apps and their contribution to a culture of endless choices, diminishing the value of deep, meaningful connections. A nuanced look at OnlyFans and its controversial yet complex role in redefining modern relationships and societal standards. The unique challenges and opportunities Gen Z faces in navigating love and relationships amidst the digital revolution. The potential of digital media to drive positive transformations in personal relationships, despite notable challenges. Effective strategies for managing the intricacies of love in the era of social media, with an emphasis on the critical role of communication and understanding. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out our episode about Dating Games: https://youtu.be/QCDIUq573B4?si=Me_V3nF7ikwBW5Jo   Go follow Matt on instagram: @matt__daley    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply.   Look, Feel, and Be your best with personal hair, beard, and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow  Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home   Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/   Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore   Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Feb 9, 2024 • 58min

Is Getting Married Riskier Than Ever Before? These Statistics will SHOCK you!! Ep14 I Wish You Knew Podcast

🎙️ Welcome back to another contentious episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast! Today, Adam and Sarah engage in a riveting debate that might just change the way you view traditional relationships and marriage in our modern world. They tackle the pressing question: Do traditional relationships still have a place in today’s rapidly evolving society? This episode takes you on a journey through the complexities of dating, the legal entanglements of marriage, and the modern skepticism towards traditional marital commitments.   🌟Here's what to keep an ear out for in this episode:   The relevance of traditional relationships and marriage in modern society The impact of online dating and social media on our views towards love and commitment The legal and financial implications of marriage, especially concerning men's fears. The role of prenuptial agreements in securing one's financial future. How attachment theory and childhood experiences influence our adult relationships. The potential for reforming the institution of marriage to better fit contemporary values. Strategies for navigating the dating world while upholding or questioning traditional values. The importance of communication, understanding attachment styles, and premarital education in fostering healthier relationships. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to check out out episode about Dating Games : https://youtu.be/QCDIUq573B4?si=Me_V3nF7ikwBW5Jo A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.    Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com  ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow “I Wish You Knew”: ------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: ------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   ------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there. 
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Feb 2, 2024 • 55min

Psychotherapist reveals Hidden Impact of Childhood Attachment on Your Love Life | Ep13 | I Wish You Knew

Psychotherapist Jessica Baum discusses the impact of childhood attachment on adult relationships. Topics include: why we are attracted to the familiar, choosing partners that are bad for us, identifying attachment wounds, replaying childhood trauma, the anxious-avoidant relationship, becoming observers of our nervous system, and choosing the right partner.
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Jan 26, 2024 • 48min

High Value Woman Mindset: OnlyFans Model vs Trad Wife? | Ep12 | I Wish You Knew

The podcast discusses the definition and characteristics of a high-value woman, exploring the impact of societal norms and the importance of genuine self-worth. It also covers relationship competencies and the complexities of modern dating, emphasizing the need for understanding and respecting women's perspectives.
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Jan 19, 2024 • 1h 10min

Google Executive Reveals The Happiness Algorithm: Discover The Secret | Ep11 | I Wish You Knew

Join hosts Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith as they talk with Mohammad Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer for Google X and acclaimed author of "Solve for Happy" and "Scary Smart." They discuss insights from Google X, finding joy in dating, gender dynamics, effective communication, self-discovery, vulnerability, balancing individuality and partnership, debunking relationship myths, navigating dating burnout, and transitioning from casual to committed relationships.
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Jan 12, 2024 • 55min

Destructive, Millennial, Behaviors That Are RUINING Modern Dating | Ep10 | I Wish You Knew

This podcast discusses the challenges of modern dating, including navigating the dating landscape, honesty and games in dating, gender-specific challenges, online dating insights, and building confidence. They also explore the importance of clear communication, optimizing dating app bios, showing up as your true self, developing charisma, and the impact of stress and anxiety on dating interactions.
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Jan 4, 2024 • 52min

Why NARCISSISTS Plague Millennial Relationships | Ep 9 | I Wish You Knew

Experts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore discuss the distinction between narcissistic traits and true narcissism, the consequences of overusing the term 'narcissist,' and the reasons why victims of narcissism may exhibit narcissistic tendencies themselves. They also explore attachment styles, the impact of social media on dating, and the myths surrounding male sexuality. The podcast concludes with strategies for navigating rejection, fostering healthy relationships, and empowering men in the dating scene.

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