I Wish You Knew

Psychotherapist Jessica Baum discusses the impact of childhood attachment on adult relationships. Topics include: why we are attracted to the familiar, choosing partners that are bad for us, identifying attachment wounds, replaying childhood trauma, the anxious-avoidant relationship, becoming observers of our nervous system, and choosing the right partner.

The podcast discusses the definition and characteristics of a high-value woman, exploring the impact of societal norms and the importance of genuine self-worth. It also covers relationship competencies and the complexities of modern dating, emphasizing the need for understanding and respecting women's perspectives.

Join hosts Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith as they talk with Mohammad Gawdat, former Chief Business Officer for Google X and acclaimed author of "Solve for Happy" and "Scary Smart." They discuss insights from Google X, finding joy in dating, gender dynamics, effective communication, self-discovery, vulnerability, balancing individuality and partnership, debunking relationship myths, navigating dating burnout, and transitioning from casual to committed relationships.

This podcast discusses the challenges of modern dating, including navigating the dating landscape, honesty and games in dating, gender-specific challenges, online dating insights, and building confidence. They also explore the importance of clear communication, optimizing dating app bios, showing up as your true self, developing charisma, and the impact of stress and anxiety on dating interactions.

Experts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore discuss the distinction between narcissistic traits and true narcissism, the consequences of overusing the term 'narcissist,' and the reasons why victims of narcissism may exhibit narcissistic tendencies themselves. They also explore attachment styles, the impact of social media on dating, and the myths surrounding male sexuality. The podcast concludes with strategies for navigating rejection, fostering healthy relationships, and empowering men in the dating scene.

Hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore discuss the pervasive double standards in modern dating and how societal norms and misconceptions impact relationships. They explore the influence of social media, share real-life examples, and provide advice for navigating the challenges with empathy and respect.

On this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, Sarah Dawn Moore and Adam Lane Smith engage in a discussion about their experiences as relationship coaches. This episode offers a unique, behind-the-scenes look at what it's like when coaches share their insights and advice. Sarah and Adam open up about some of the most challenging cases they have encountered, delving into stories of clients struggling with relationship issues. The conversation takes an intense turn as they discuss scenarios where clients have faced significant difficulties in their love lives, from struggling to move past a first date to dealing with emotionally unavailable partners. Key discussion points include: The challenges faced by men in dating, especially those who either overwhelm their dates or attract partners who aren't emotionally available. Strategies to help clients who are workaholics or who have difficulties expressing their emotions in relationships. The impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, particularly the role of parental figures in shaping one’s approach to love and intimacy. The journey of helping clients transition from superficial attraction to deeper, more meaningful connections. The process of guiding clients through understanding and breaking their destructive relationship patterns. This episode is a must-listen for anyone in the modern dating scene. Understanding that the difficulties you are going through are also shared by many others who struggle to find a partner, love and relationships. Sarah and Adam not only share their professional experiences but also offer insights and tips that listeners can apply to their own lives. If you liked this episode we know you will love our conversation with Zuby:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VYpZVZIamZo&t=1976s&ab_channel=IWishYouKnewPodcast    A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, Feel and Be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more:   Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website: iwishyouknew.show Instagram: instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter: www.twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify: open.spotify.com/show Apple: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809    Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.adamlanesmith.com Youtube: @attachmentadam Instagram: www.instagram.com/attachmentadam Twitter: twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro    Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  @sarahdawnmoore Instagram: www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore Twitter: twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore   Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.  Thanks for listening.

Elise Michaels, a Men’s Dating and Relationship coach, joins Adam and Sarah on an insightful conversation about men's mental health, childhood wounds, masculinity, and healthy relationships. They discuss the impact of childhood wounds, attracting fulfilling relationships, avoiding dating pitfalls, and the importance of vulnerability in building intimacy. They challenge notions of modern day feminism and encourage men to have confidence in their masculinity. They also touch on red flags in dating, creating space for a partner, and understanding real chemistry and attraction.

In this week's episode of the "I Wish You Knew" podcast, hosts Adam Lane Smith and Sarah Dawn Moore delve into the complexities of modern masculinity with their special guest, Zuby. As a British rapper, author, speaker, and podcast host, Zuby brings a unique blend of personal and professional experiences, shaped by his diverse background and global perspective. In this episode, Zuby explores the current crisis of masculinity in Western societies, dissecting the challenges and misconceptions surrounding traditional and contemporary male roles. He shares insights from his life journey, including his upbringing in Saudi Arabia, education at Oxford University, and his evolution as an independent artist and thought leader. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including: The impact of cultural diversity on Zuby’s understanding of masculinity. The role of family, faith, and personal values in shaping a healthy masculine identity. The paradox of choice in modern society and its effects on gender dynamics. Debunking myths around masculinity, feminism, and societal expectations. Practical advice for men and women to navigate contemporary challenges in relationships and self-development. Zuby also discusses his book, "Strong Advice: Zuby's Guide to Fitness for Everybody," emphasizing the importance of physical fitness in personal empowerment and self-discipline. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a deeper understanding of masculinity in today's world and looking for ways to navigate its complexities with wisdom and authenticity.   ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- A special thanks to our sponsor Rugged Legacy Grooming Supply. Look, feel and be your best with personal hair, beard and grooming products recommended by top relationship and style specialists. And, unlike other brands, Rugged Legacy designs its products with all-natural oils and scents, made right here in the USA.  Use code: IWYK20 for a 20% Exclusive I Wish You Knew Discount  https://ruggedlegacygrooming.com/ -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------   Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com Looking to develop in your relationships? Work with Sarah: www.sarahdawnmoore.com   -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------  If you like what you’re listening to and want to hear more: -------------------------------------------------- Follow Zuby:  -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://teamzuby.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ZubyMusic  Twitter: https://twitter.com/zubymusic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zubymusic/ Zuby’s Music: https://www.zubymusic.com/ -------------------------------------------------- Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast: -------------------------------------------------- Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok:       https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod Twitter:      https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809   -------------------------------------------------- Follow Adam Lane Smith: -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheBrometheus Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro   -------------------------------------------------- Follow Sarah Dawn Moore:   -------------------------------------------------- Website: https://www.sarahdawnmoore.com/home Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4EmjdHH2GTLzy9jx14svEQ  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahdawnmoore/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/SarahDawnMoore Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahdawnmoore     Next episode drops Thursday :) See you there.

Adam and Sarah debunk bad dating advice, including the friend zone myth and judging sexual skills. They discuss the impact of bad dating advice and the importance of consistency. The podcast explores attachment styles, suffocation and chasing, women's desires, sexual performance, emotional connection, and tips for navigating the dating world.