

The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
(Apple's Best of 2018) In-depth conversations with people at the top of their game. Jordan Harbinger unpacks guests' wisdom into practical nuggets you can use to impact your work, life, and relationships. Learn from leaders (Ray Dalio, Simon Sinek, Mark Cuban), entertainers (Moby, Tip "T.I." Harris, Dennis Quaid), scientists (Neil deGrasse Tyson, Bill Nye), athletes (Kobe Bryant, Dennis Rodman, Tony Hawk) and an eclectic array of fascinating minds, from art forgers and arms traffickers to spies and psychologists.
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Feb 18, 2021 • 1h 34min
471: Steven Hassan | The #iGotOut Guide to Quitting QAnon
Steven Hassan, an expert on undue influence and the founder of the Freedom of Mind Resource Center, dives deep into the psychology behind the QAnon phenomenon. He explains how disinformation thrives in our polarized society and why intelligent individuals can fall victim to cult-like beliefs. Using his BITE model, he reveals the manipulative tactics employed by such movements. The discussion includes strategies to help loved ones escape from QAnon's grip and emphasizes the importance of empathy and critical thinking in addressing these complex issues.

Feb 16, 2021 • 1h 27min
470: Bruce Sackman | A Glimpse Behind the Murder Curtain
Bruce Sackman, a renowned investigator and co-author of "Behind the Murder Curtain," uncovers the chilling world of medical serial killers lurking in veterans hospitals. He reveals the challenges in detecting these killers, often masked by the medical community's trust barrier. Sackman discusses the staggering body counts of these perpetrators compared to infamous serial killers, and he shares insights into the psychological motivations behind their actions. His work has not only exposed these crimes but also inspired systemic changes to prevent future tragedies.

Feb 12, 2021 • 47min
469: Should a Cheater Get a Second Chance? | Feedback Friday
The hosts dive into the complex question of whether a cheater deserves a second chance, sparking reflections on infidelity and personal growth. A listener shares a haunting false confession story, underscoring the importance of legal advice. The conversation shifts to guiding an idealistic sibling toward practical paths in life. They also tackle workplace dynamics, offering strategies for managing conflicts with a difficult boss while ensuring professionalism. Emotional wellbeing, career support, and open communication take center stage in this engaging dialogue.

Feb 11, 2021 • 50min
468: Jack Schafer | Getting People to Reveal the Truth Part Two
Jack Schafer, a retired FBI special agent and current professor, shares fascinating insights on elicitation versus interrogation. He reveals how FBI techniques can be applied to everyday situations like negotiating salaries or determining if your teen is partying. Listeners learn about three key signals for building trust, how presumptive statements can trick us into revealing secrets, and the power of using a third-party perspective to understand hidden thoughts. His blend of humor and expertise makes this discussion both enlightening and entertaining.

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Feb 9, 2021 • 49min
467: Jack Schafer | Getting People to Reveal the Truth Part One
Jack Schafer, a retired FBI special agent and assistant professor, shares his expertise in elicitation and persuasion. He discusses how elicitation, unlike interrogation, is more effective in getting the truth, illustrating techniques that can apply to everyday situations like negotiating or connecting with teenagers. Listeners learn about three friend signals for establishing rapport and the risks of presumptive statements that can lead to unguarded truths. Schafer also reveals how a third-party perspective can uncover hidden thoughts. It's a fascinating deep dive into the psychology of truth-telling!

Feb 5, 2021 • 38min
466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent | Feedback Friday
The hosts dive deep into the emotional struggle of deciding whether to reconnect with a dying, narcissistic parent. They explore the importance of self-care and setting boundaries while navigating toxic familial ties. Listeners also get insights on how to handle being an informal therapist for someone who never takes advice, alongside strategies for dealing with career stagnation after years of hard work. Plus, the benefits of embracing age as an asset in professional life are highlighted, encouraging ongoing learning and growth.

Feb 4, 2021 • 1h 21min
465: Thomas Erikson | How to Protect Yourself from Psychopaths
Thomas Erikson, a behavioral expert and bestselling author, dives deep into the world of psychopathy, revealing that not all narcissists are psychopaths, but all psychopaths are narcissists. He discusses the chilling tactics they use, like gaslighting and love bombing, to manipulate and control others. Erikson emphasizes self-awareness and setting firm boundaries as crucial strategies for self-protection. Plus, he shares personal travel tales that highlight resilience and a positive mindset amid life's unpredictability. A must-listen for recognizing toxic relationships!

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Feb 2, 2021 • 1h 6min
464: Ramit Sethi | I Will Teach You to Find Your Dream Job
Ramit Sethi, bestselling author of 'I Will Teach You to Be Rich', shares his expert insights on landing your dream job and negotiating salaries. He reveals that many are underpaid by $10,000 a year and emphasizes the importance of networking to access the hidden job market. Discover how to tailor your resume effectively and understand what hiring managers really want. Learn negotiation techniques and how to assess if you’re being fairly compensated, while exploring the mindsets that can help navigate your career growth.

Jan 29, 2021 • 49min
463: Saying Sayonara to Sister's Swindling Sweetie | Feedback Friday
This episode dives into the drama of a sister's swindling boyfriend who’s draining family resources. The hosts discuss the delicate art of confronting toxic relationships while maintaining family bonds. They also explore the responsibility of privilege in social justice discussions, stressing empathy and authenticity in advocacy. Furthermore, the struggles of a dedicated but undervalued teacher highlight the need for protection against burnout and finding fulfillment in challenging workplaces. It's a rich mix of family dynamics, social issues, and personal growth!

Jan 28, 2021 • 50min
462: Linda Carroll | Unlocking Lasting Love Skills
Linda Carroll, a licensed marriage and family therapist and author, shares her expertise on building lasting love. She emphasizes that love is a skill that can be developed rather than just a feeling. Carroll discusses the true roots of relationship conflicts, suggesting they often stem from deeper issues. She introduces the concept of the Woodpecker Syndrome and critiques common clichés about love. Her insights encourage self-awareness and emotional accountability, guiding listeners to break free from unhealthy patterns in their relationships.


