The Jordan Harbinger Show

Spies use psychology to recruit traitors and build deep connections. Here, former spy Julian Fisher reveals the authentic art of strategic influence.Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1164What We Discuss with Julian Fisher:Authenticity is paradoxical in espionage. Spies must be genuine people to build real trust, yet they also lie about their identity. This contradiction requires exceptional self-awareness and emotional intelligence.Quality relationships beat quantity networking. Meaningful connections with targeted individuals who can help achieve specific goals are far more valuable than collecting hundreds of superficial contacts.Personality profiling reveals deeper insights. Understanding someone's background, struggles, and journey tells you more about who they really are than just their job title or surface-level information.Preparation and homework create connection. Researching someone's interests and referencing them naturally (like Julian's football gambit in Zimbabwe) can instantly shift dangerous situations into opportunities.Walk to important meetings for mental clarity. A 20-minute walk before crucial conversations clears mental baggage, stimulates creativity, and helps you arrive fully present and focused.And much more...And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here — even one sentence helps! Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course!Subscribe to our once-a-week Wee Bit Wiser newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom!Do you even Reddit, bro? Join us at r/JordanHarbinger!This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors:The Cybersecurity Tapes: thecybersecuritytapes.comBetterHelp: 10% off first month: betterhelp.com/jordanAirbnb: airbnb.com/hostHomes.com: Find your home: homes.comAG1: Welcome kit: drinkag1.com/jordanDid you hear our two-part conversation with the retired ATF agent who worked undercover for years to bust numerous criminal organizations — including the notorious Pagan’s [sic] motorcycle club? Catch up starting with episode 673: Ken Croke | Undercover in an Outlaw Biker Gang Part One here!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dr. Becky Kennedy, a parenting expert and author of Good Inside, shares her wisdom on raising emotionally healthy children. She emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries while validating feelings, explaining how these two elements work together to foster resilience. Dr. Kennedy advocates for 'doing nothing' strategically to model emotional regulation, and she highlights that allowing kids to face challenges builds their confidence. The conversation also critiques the pursuit of immediate happiness in parenting, stressing that struggle is vital for growth.

Explore the complexities of intimacy and independence as a trans woman navigates personal liberation after betrayal. Delve into the intersection of money, freedom, and identity through unconventional financial practices in sex work. Catch a humorous discussion on oddities of travel, embodying the art of storytelling. Unpack the challenges of emotional entanglements at work, where professional boundaries blur with romance. Finally, glean insights on making confident life choices amidst uncertainty and the empowering journey of embracing vulnerability.

Tegan Broadwater, a former undercover cop with 18 months spent infiltrating the Crips, shares gripping tales of high-stakes deception. He reveals the shocking truth about corrupt police officers warning gang members of raids. Budget constraints led to perilous solo operations, yet his work helped build a monumental case resulting in significant arrests. Tegan argues that mentoring at-risk youth is crucial for breaking cycles of crime, offering hope and support to children of incarcerated parents. His insights into identity and the psychological toll of undercover work are both profound and eye-opening.

Tegan Broadwater, a former undercover cop who infiltrated the Crips, shares harrowing tales of life in the dangerous world of gang culture. He reveals how authenticity trumps acting during undercover work and discusses the business-like nature of gang operations, where trust is paramount. Broadwater explains the challenges of maintaining credibility without using drugs and elaborates on the fragile dynamics of trust within drug trade interactions. Expect captivating insights into the complexities of identity and the psychological pressures faced by undercover officers.

In this discussion, comedian and skeptic Michael Regilio dives deep into the controversial world of IQ tests. He reveals their dark history, including ties to eugenics and forced sterilization, and critiques the cultural biases embedded in test questions. Regilio also highlights the surprising Flynn effect—an increase in IQ scores over the decades—not attributed to genetics but to environmental factors. With humor and insight, they explore the limitations of IQ as a true measure of intelligence, urging listeners to rethink common misconceptions.

The hosts tackle a listener's dilemma about executing a corporate coup against family members who hijacked the family business through manipulation. They explore the emotional complexities of helping a friend stuck in a toxic relationship and the psychological toll it takes on loved ones. The conversation also dives into the repercussions of significant bank fraud faced by recent business buyers, emphasizing the need for better financial protections. Join the lively banter filled with insights on family dynamics and personal growth.

Kelsey Grammer, renowned for his roles in Cheers and Frasier, delves into the profound impact of his sister's tragic murder on his life and artistry. He discusses how grief shapes authenticity in his performances, providing emotional depth that resonates with audiences. Grammer candidly recounts his battles with addiction, linking them to unresolved grief. His reflections emphasize the importance of remembering loved ones for their joy rather than just the pain of loss, highlighting a powerful journey of personal recovery and artistic expression.

Documentarian Andrew Callaghan, known for All Gas No Brakes, digs deep into the psychology of radicalization and conspiracy theories in America. He reveals how unprocessed trauma fuels extreme political beliefs, particularly among the January 6th Capitol rioters. Callaghan discusses the negative impacts of social media addiction and highlights the need for genuine community connections over material wealth. He predicts Generation Alpha may view tech usage as harmful, similar to smoking today, emphasizing the importance of human bonds in navigating modern chaos.

Dive into a complex relationship where love struggles against addiction and paranoia, showcasing the challenges of supporting a partner while setting boundaries. A corporate manager grapples with the moral dilemma of workforce cuts amidst profit celebrations, wrestling with loyalty and honesty. Explore the intricate dynamics of friendship during crises, emphasizing the need for healthy boundaries. Plus, practical advice on overcoming imposter syndrome and balancing personal growth with professional demands.