The Jordan Harbinger Show 1236: Bedroom Blame Game Sparks Consent Shame | Feedback Friday
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Nov 7, 2025 Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on consent and coercion within complicated marriages. The hosts explore a listener's challenging memories of intimacy and shared responsibility. Next, they inspire a 19-year-old grappling with UK visa restrictions while discovering a passion for entrepreneurship. They also tackle the nuances of communication, offering strategies to improve career interactions. Finally, advice is given to a young retiree facing skepticism about his early retirement. Insights abound in this revealing conversation!
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Consent Can Be A Co-Produced Dynamic
- Consent in long-term relationships can be a complex co-production, not always a clear perpetrator-victim story.
- Jordan Harbinger emphasizes parsing shared responsibility and understanding both partners' patterns to be accurate and fair.
Do Post-Divorce Self-Work On Communication
- Examine your own communication patterns and how they affect intimacy after a fraught marriage.
- Jordan recommends ongoing self-reflection and therapy to process feelings and change future behavior.
Both Partners Can Experience Violation Differently
- Both partners can feel taken advantage of in different ways, even within the same sexual dynamic.
- Gabriel Mizrahi notes trauma history and dissociation often complicate agency and interpretation of events.
