Journey Beyond Divorce Podcast

A stay at home, homeschooling mom shares her journey of feeling lost and unseen yet loving being a mom and wife. As her marriage dissolved, so too did her identity. Through a journey from fear to faith, Lisa found her voice and leaned heavily into her Heavenly Father, strengthening her faith and resolve to grow through this difficult transition. During Lisa's divorce one child faced deep struggles, another got engage and married and she navigated an identity crisis and overwhelming fear, landing on the other side of divorce, happily employed with a great relationship with her kids and her relationship with God. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources mentioned in this episode: JBD Sponsor: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd JBD Sponsor: Talking Parents: https://talkingparents.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. With its cutting-edge technology, Soberlink enables users to easily and discreetly submit breathalyzer tests from anywhere, providing real-time results and facilitating ongoing support from loved ones and professionals. Whether you're navigating personal recovery or supporting someone in their journey, Soberlink's innovative approach ensures a higher level of accountability and peace of mind. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible. Whether you're coordinating schedules or sharing crucial documents, TalkingParents offers a reliable solution for maintaining clarity and organization in your co-parenting arrangement. TalkingParents also helps reduce conflict by keeping communication focused and professional. The platform's built-in tools promote transparency and accountability, making it easier to manage parenting responsibilities and address issues constructively. Visit TalkingParents.com to discover how their services can support your co-parenting journey and bring peace of mind to your family.

Today, we're delving into the transformative power of solo travel, especially for those navigating the challenging waters of divorce. Join us as we uncover how embracing self-discovery through solo journeys can be a powerful tool for healing and personal growth. Whether you're looking to reclaim your sense of adventure or find new perspectives on your life after a major change, this episode is packed with insights on how travel can help you expand into the next chapter of your life. Episode Highlights The Role of a Travel Coach: Discover what sets a travel coach apart from a traditional travel advisor and how they can help you plan a transformative solo travel experience. Benefits of Solo Travel After Divorce: Learn about the unique advantages of traveling alone, including how it fosters self-discovery, boosts confidence, and offers a fresh outlook on life. Personal Growth Through Travel: Explore how solo journeys can lead to profound personal growth, helping you reconnect with yourself and uncover new passions. Real-Life Success Stories: Hear inspiring stories from women who have transformed their lives through solo travel after experiencing divorce. Guest Spotlight: Dawn Pick Benson Dawn is a renowned transformational travel coach and the Founder & Owner of GlobeStory. With a career spanning nearly 50 countries and significant experience living and working in the Middle East and Eastern Europe, Dawn brings a rich tapestry of insights to our discussion. As a Global Ambassador for the Travel Coach Network and a Certified Cultural Intelligence facilitator, her expertise has been featured in top publications like The Washington Post, TripAdvisor, The New York Times, Wander, and Woman's World. Dawn's passion for helping women rediscover themselves through travel is both inspiring and transformative. Tune in to hear how her unique approach can help you embrace your next chapter through the power of solo travel. Connect with Dawn: Download The Free Guide: Solo Travel After Divorce: https://www.dawnpickbenson.com/solo-travel-after-divorce-offer Follow Dawn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dawnpickbenson Follow Dawn on Substack: https://dawnpickbenson.substack.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dawnpickbenson/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bravejourneyforwomen YouTube: https://youtube.com/@dawnpickbenson Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. With its cutting-edge technology, Soberlink enables users to easily and discreetly submit breathalyzer tests from anywhere, providing real-time results and facilitating ongoing support from loved ones and professionals. Whether you're navigating personal recovery or supporting someone in their journey, Soberlink's innovative approach ensures a higher level of accountability and peace of mind. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible. Whether you're coordinating schedules or sharing crucial documents, TalkingParents offers a reliable solution for maintaining clarity and organization in your co-parenting arrangement. TalkingParents also helps reduce conflict by keeping communication focused and professional. The platform's built-in tools promote transparency and accountability, making it easier to manage parenting responsibilities and address issues constructively. Visit TalkingParents.com to discover how their services can support your co-parenting journey and bring peace of mind to your family.

Temporary shared custody is one of the hardest parts of divorce. Both parents experience deep emotions when it comes to their children, making this transition challenging but crucial. It's a time of significant change, and embracing temporary shared parenting can ultimately benefit everyone involved. For the primary parent, adjusting to not being with the kids all the time can be a struggle. They might initially believe that the other parent isn't capable of taking care of the children simply because they haven't had the opportunity before. However, seeing how the other parent engages with the kids can provide valuable insights into co-parenting and the effectiveness of a temporary parenting plan. This period of adjustment also offers the primary parent some 'free time,' which can be used for self-care and personal growth. For the primary income earner, experiencing the custody schedule they are fighting for can be eye-opening. They might discover that their work schedule needs adjusting or that they enjoy the increased time with their children and make it a priority. On the other hand, they might realize that sustaining such an arrangement is not feasible due to work or travel obligations. For the kids, spending time alone with each parent helps them see that different parenting styles are not necessarily bad, just different. This transition allows everyone to step out of denial and start experiencing life differently, even while still living under the same roof. Understanding the dynamics of temporary shared custody can lead to a more harmonious co-parenting experience and better outcomes for the entire family. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsors: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. With its cutting-edge technology, Soberlink enables users to easily and discreetly submit breathalyzer tests from anywhere, providing real-time results and facilitating ongoing support from loved ones and professionals. Whether you're navigating personal recovery or supporting someone in their journey, Soberlink's innovative approach ensures a higher level of accountability and peace of mind. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd ======= TalkingParents provides a comprehensive platform designed to simplify co-parenting and enhance communication between parents. With secure messaging, a shared calendar, and features for tracking parenting time, TalkingParents ensures that all important details and agreements are documented and accessible. Whether you're coordinating schedules or sharing crucial documents, TalkingParents offers a reliable solution for maintaining clarity and organization in your co-parenting arrangement. TalkingParents also helps reduce conflict by keeping communication focused and professional. The platform's built-in tools promote transparency and accountability, making it easier to manage parenting responsibilities and address issues constructively. Visit TalkingParents.com to discover how their services can support your co-parenting journey and bring peace of mind to your family.

Join us as we unpack the wisdom of *The Codependency Revolution* and learn how to create a future free from the chains of codependency. Episode Highlights: Understanding Codependency and Its Origins: Discover how these patterns often form in high-conflict relationships, particularly with narcissistic partners, and learn about the historical and psychological factors contributing to these unhealthy dynamics. Breaking Free from Codependency: Learn actionable strategies for overcoming codependent behaviors as we unpack key insights from Rosenberg's book. This segment provides practical advice on how to break free from cycles of self-sacrifice and unhealthy dependency, empowering you to take control of your life and rebuild healthier relationships. Embracing Self-Love and Independence: The journey towards self-love and independence is essential for anyone recovering from a high-conflict divorce or past relationships. We discuss how Rosenberg's concept of "Self-Love Deficit Disorder™" offers a path to self-reclamation and personal growth, equipping you with tools to cultivate a fulfilling and autonomous life. Guest Spotlight: Ross Rosenberg Ross Rosenberg, M. Ed., LCPC, CADC, is a global thought leader and renowned expert in codependency, narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and trauma treatment. He is the Self-Love Recovery Institute's CEO/owner and primary contributor. His latest book, "The Codependency Revolution: Fixing What Was Always Broken" exposes the shadow side of a field that has always been lost, never established credibility, and, without bad intentions, hurt far more people than it has helped. It provides compelling insights on a complex, frequently misunderstood topic while offering a historical explanation for why he is "fixing what has always been broken." Additionally, his pioneering contributions to the mental health field include sweeping theoretical and practical updates (revision) on codependency, which he aptly renamed "Self-Love Deficit Disorder™." He is renowned for his expert psychotherapy, public speaker/educator, and expert witness work. Ross's global success is illustrated by his 30 million YouTube video views and 295K subscribers. His "Self-Love Recovery" podcast is globally ranked at 2.5%, with over 200K downloads. Connect with Ross: Buy the Book: https://www.amazon.com/Codependency-Revolution-Fixing-Always-Broken/dp/B0D46NFSV1 Subscribe to his YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8OgfVyM8u5xhoHTJPa9sOQ Visit his Website: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/ Listen to his Podcast: https://www.selfloverecovery.com/pages/podcast Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce A word from our sponsor: Soberlink is a revolutionary tool designed to support individuals in their journey to sobriety. As a leading provider of remote alcohol monitoring, Soberlink offers a secure and reliable solution that helps people stay accountable and transparent in their recovery process. With its cutting-edge technology, Soberlink enables users to easily and discreetly submit breathalyzer tests from anywhere, providing real-time results and facilitating ongoing support from loved ones and professionals. Whether you're navigating personal recovery or supporting someone in their journey, Soberlink's innovative approach ensures a higher level of accountability and peace of mind. We're grateful for Soberlink's commitment to enhancing the recovery process and providing valuable resources to our listeners. Learn more about how Soberlink can make a difference in your journey at www.soberlink.com/jbd

In this episode, we dive into crucial divorce preparation strategies, focusing on how to prepare for separation while maintaining secrecy and integrity. We cover essential steps such as gathering financial documents, consulting with a matrimonial attorney, and setting up new email accounts, post office boxes, and bank accounts to safeguard your privacy. We also discuss the importance of seeking support from therapists, coaches, and loved ones during this challenging time. Discover why strategic preparation is key to navigating the divorce process smoothly and achieving better outcomes. Learn how to balance secrecy with effective planning to ensure you're ready for the transition ahead. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical advice for handling this critical phase of divorce with confidence and clarity. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources Mentioned: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com

Today's guest, Marie-Elizabeth Mali is a Mentor and Brain-Trainer for high-achieving women - and she specializes is FLOW! We're invited to reinvent ourselves through challenging transitions like divorce. It's an opportunity for us to examine how we have been thinking and behaving and to let go of what hasn't been working and adopt new ways of thinking and being that better serve us. Episode Highlights: Understanding Flow vs. Force: Explore the difference between struggling through conflict and embracing a more effortless, intuitive approach to navigating your divorce. Reinventing Yourself During Divorce: Learn how to use challenging transitions as opportunities for personal growth and transformation with Marie-Elizabeth Mali's insights. Innovative Techniques for Emotional Resilience: Discover how biohacking, shadow work, and subconscious reprogramming can help you manage stress and find inner peace. Empowering Yourself with Grace: Gain practical strategies to regulate your nervous system, trust your intuition, and step into a state of miraculous flow during high conflict situations. Guest Spotlight: Marie-Elizabeth Mali Meet Marie-Elizabeth Mali, a renowned Mentor and Brain-Trainer specializing in guiding high-achieving women through midlife transitions with grace and ease. As an expert in cultivating flow rather than force, Marie-Elizabeth offers transformative strategies that blend biohacking, shadow work, and subconscious reprogramming. Her unique approach empowers individuals to navigate challenging periods, like high conflict divorces, by embracing their inner wisdom, regulating their nervous systems, and stepping into a state of miraculous flow. With her guidance, you'll discover how to reinvent yourself, thrive amidst adversity, and achieve success without the struggle. Connect with Marie-Elizabeth: Your Free Gift: Wise Woman Power Quiz Website: https://marieelizabethmali.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/marieelizabethmali Facebook: https://facebook.com/marieelizabethmali LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/marieelizabethmali TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@marieelizabethmali YouTube: https://youtube.com/@MarieElizabethMali Journey Beyond Divorce Resources: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com Follow JBD on Instagram: @journey_beyond_divorce

Join Kristen as she shares her powerful journey from Ivy League success and Wall Street prominence to navigating the complexities of narcissistic abuse and co-parenting. After stepping away from her career to raise their children, Kristen found herself isolated and facing the challenges of parenting alongside a narcissistic ex-husband. Through this tumultuous period, she rediscovered her self-confidence and learned to accept her ex's behavior as a co-parent. Now, several years post-divorce, Kristen enjoys her weekends of freedom while her children are with their father. She has built a new social circle and embraced life with a renewed sense of purpose. Kristen's story is one of resilience, growth, and finding joy after overcoming adversity. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources mentioned in this episode: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com

Today, we're delving into a critical topic that affects many: how to protect yourself financially when facing betrayal in your marriage. Episode Highlights: Practical steps you can take to safeguard your financial interests. Discover what you need to have a clear plan and the right support to avoid being taken advantage of during this challenging time. Explore how to navigate the financial infidelity crises, empowering you to protect your financial future amidst complex divorces. Guest Spotlight: Kimberly Rae Nelson Kimberly Rae Nelson, CFA, CDFA, is renowned for her expertise in high net worth divorces. With over two decades of experience, Kimberly has been recognized for her achievements, including the 2019 Woman of Achievement Award and being ranked #5 on AdvisorHub's 100 Registered Investment Advisors to Watch List. She specializes in unraveling complex marital finances, offering strategies for empowerment during challenging times. Thank you for tuning in to today's episode. Remember, understanding your financial rights and having a strategic plan are crucial steps toward securing your future. Join us next time as we continue to explore ways to empower your financial journey. Resources Mentioned: Website: https://coastalbridgeadvisors.com/team/kimberly-nelson Email: knelson@coastalbridgeadvisors.com Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-nelson-cfa-9113316/ Journey Beyond Divorce Resources mentioned in this episode: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com

How do you handle coparenting when your spouse (or soon to be ex) is behaving more like a kid? There may be underlying issues like substance use, neurodiversity or they just may be (much) less responsible than you wish they were. How do you navigate things like shared custody and lifestyle decisions for your kids, when they just aren't in the same place? Karen & Diane challenge our listeners to explore their part in the dynamic, and discuss the fine line between having compassion and caretaking (or even co-dependency!) They also will provide some concrete tools to make solid decisions from a place of discernment rather than from fear. Journey Beyond Divorce Resources Mentioned: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com

This episode dives deep into the unique struggles men face during divorce, from the pervasive feeling of being unable to protect their children to the profound loss of identity that comes from no longer being seen as the family's provider and protector. Episode Highlights Understanding Men's Unique Challenges During Divorce Societal Expectations and Biases The societal challenges men face during divorce, including the judgment of being seen as villains and navigating a biased legal system. Emotional Struggles and Mental Health Concerns The emotional hurdles men encounter, from feelings of inadequacy as a provider and protector to the alarming statistic that divorced men are nine times more likely to commit suicide than the average person. Strategies for Emotional Recovery and Resilience Developing Emotional Intelligence Techniques for men to break through lifelong conditioning to suppress emotions and find safe spaces for emotional expression. Healing and Moving Forward Practical steps for overcoming shock, betrayal, grief, and anger to build healthier relationships and achieve emotional recovery. Guest Spotlight: Rachael Sloan Who is Rachael Sloan: Rachael Sloan is a Master NLP Practitioner, Certified Life Coach, and the creator of Better Beyond Divorce. Her program focuses on emotional recovery for men facing the challenges of divorce. With her deep expertise in helping men navigate their emotional landscapes, Rachael offers valuable strategies for healing from the profound impacts of divorce and building a fulfilling future. Thank you for tuning into this episode. We hope Rachael Sloan's insights have offered you a deeper understanding of the unique challenges men face during divorce and provided you with practical tools for emotional recovery and growth. Remember, seeking support and embracing emotional intelligence are key steps towards healing and finding new paths to happiness. Resources Mentioned: Rachael's Website: https://www.rachaelsloancoaching.com/ Subscribe to Rachael's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf0VOpkxwHJjuyl7f2zMkeQ FREE GIFT - FREE MASTERCLASS: How to Take Back Control of Your Life After Divorce Focused on the unique challenges men face during divorce and the steps they need to take to overcome them, become the best version of yourself and take control of your future. Check out Rachael's "Better Beyond Divorce" Program: https://resources.rachaelsloancoaching.com/join-bbd-jbd-link Journey Beyond Divorce Resources mentioned in this episode: Soberlink: www.soberlink.com/jbd Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com