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Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

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Oct 17, 2024 • 1h 5min

Building Relationships That Transcend Conflict

Dr. Finlayson-Fife was invited by Mormon Women for Ethical Government (MWEG) to speak on how we can maintain hope and foster healthy relationships during a time of deep political polarization. In the presentation, Dr. Finlayson-Fife discusses how we can bridge divides with those who think differently by showing genuine care, listening with humility, and seeking to understand others' experiences, using their perspectives to broaden our own. Dr. Finlayson-Fife emphasizes that, while we cannot make people think the way we think, we CAN care about each other despite our differences. This connection not only expands our own understanding, but strengthens our ability to work to solve our shared challenges, which is key to thriving in our families, communities, and society
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Oct 8, 2024 • 1h 8min

Loneliness in Marriage | Q&A Discussion

**Save $100 on any of our upcoming 2024 events with code LIVE** When we get married, most of us imagine a life full of connection and companionship. But when you feel overlooked, unchosen, or disappointed by how your spouse shows up emotionally or sexually, marriage can start to feel lonely and isolating. In this hour-long Q&A session, Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers questions from those feeling unchosen, isolated, and disconnected in their most important relationship.  Listen in as Dr. Finlayson-Fife answers the following: * Is loneliness a normal part of marriage? * What are reasonable expectations for emotional connection with a spouse? * How can I create more connection when my spouse doesn’t make any efforts? * Can an "okay" marriage ever become a passionate one? * What can I do if I feel unseen, unliked, unappreciated, and unchosen in my marriage? You can watch the recording of this Q&A session HERE. 
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Oct 1, 2024 • 25min

The Art of Cherishing

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, a sex and relationship expert with a PhD in Counseling Psychology, joins Dan Purcell to explore the art of cherishing a spouse. They discuss how love often clashes with personal expectations, highlighting the need for gratitude and presence in relationships. Key topics include the courage to cherish amid challenges, moving past resentment, and the powerful choice to actively love your partner. Their conversation is an invitation to transform personal growth and deepen intimacy, with practical insights for nourishing enduring connections.
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Sep 24, 2024 • 31min

3 Ways to Become a Better Partner

Dr. Finlayson-Fife, a marriage counseling expert, teams up with Rachel Nielsen, a personal growth podcast host, to explore how couples can enhance their relationships. They dive into the importance of self-confrontation for deepening connections and the need for kindness when facing disappointments. The conversation also highlights sexuality's crucial role in marriages and offers strategies for fostering open communication and personal growth. Their insights promise to inspire couples looking to strengthen their bond.
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Sep 10, 2024 • 54min

The Problem with Indecision (Straddling)

**Straddling / Indecision is one of the new losing strategies introduced in the 2024 Strengthening Your Relationship course update! Learn more HERE!** When the path ahead is uncertain, taking a step forward can feel daunting. So much so that in the face of a difficult choice, many of us become paralyzed with indecision. We delude ourselves into thinking that with more time or with more information we will make the “right” decision. The one that won’t be painful. The one that won’t lead to regret. While gathering information is an important part of the decision making process, refusing to choose is, paradoxically a choice, and one that is driven by fear, not courage. In this powerful Q&A session, Dr. Finlayson-Fife took questions from her audience about indecision / straddling. The discussion that followed was a beautiful exploration of vulnerability, fear, finitude, and the importance of claiming our choices in life and in marriage.
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Sep 3, 2024 • 30min

Curious About Retreats?

We've got a lot of incredible events on the calendar, click HERE to learn more (and SAVE $200 on the Art of Desire Retreat w/code DESIRE)! In this episode (originally published in 2022), Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Kattie Mount to discuss the different types of events she offers, and why these events can be so transformative, even for those who have already taken the online courses. If you've been curious about what it is like to attend one of Dr. Jennifer's in-person events, you don't want to miss this episode of Marriage on a Tightrope! Listen to learn more about:  * Why in-person events are such a powerful way to learn the principles taught by Dr. Finlayson-Fife * What you can expect if you attend an in-person retreat alone or with your spouse * If retreats are appropriate for post-Mormons and couples in mixed-faith marriages  * A breakdown of the material covered during each of Dr. Finlayson-Fife's upcoming retreats  * The stages of sexual development (and why sex gets better with age!)
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Aug 28, 2024 • 48min

Movement and Motherhood

The all encompassing nature of motherhood makes it difficult for many women to stay connected to their identity outside of that role. But when we lose touch with ourselves and our individual desires, we disconnect from an important source of internal strength, one that can sustain us throughout even the most difficult periods of motherhood. In this NEW episode of Moving Thru Momlife, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins host Lindsey Taylor to discuss how women can stay connected to their bodies, desires, and sexuality throughout every age and stage of motherhood and how maintaining this important connection will provide them with a much-needed source of strength. At the beginning of the episode, Jennifer talks about her mother's experience taking dance classes later in life, you can watch a short film about that explores the story more in-depth HERE. If you enjoyed this episode, you would LOVE Dr. Finlayson-Fife's Art of Desire Retreat -- we still have a few tickets left! Click HERE for more information.
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Aug 20, 2024 • 50min

Let's Talk About...Talking to Kids About Sex

Despite their reactions to our attempts to discuss it, our children are looking to us to help them make sense of their sexuality.   And while the prospect of talking to kids about sex can feel daunting, these conversations—no matter how imperfect—make it clear to our children that we care about them, are invested in their wellbeing, and can handle discussing difficult topics with them. In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Andee Martineau of the Connect Method Parenting Podcast to share valuable insights on how parents can foster an ongoing, healthy, and honest dialogue with their children about sex and how doing so will empower them to make informed, confident, and integrity-driven choices around sexuality. For a deeper exploration on these topics, enroll in Dr. Finlayson-Fife's recently updated How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex course!  Dr. Finlayson-Fife will also be discussing this topic at the upcoming Restore Conference-- CLICK HERE and use code RESTORE20 to save!
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Aug 6, 2024 • 32min

Sexuality and Selfhood: Creating Strength in Ourselves and Our Intimate Relationships

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an expert in women's sexuality, joins Kattie Mount, host of the Marriage on a Tightrope Podcast. They dive into the empowering themes from the Art of Desire retreats, where women explore their relationships with themselves and their sexuality. The discussion covers overcoming societal expectations, embracing self-identity, and building fulfilling intimate connections. Listeners hear about the profound journeys of self-discovery that help bridge cultural gaps and promote deeper understanding among diverse women.
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Jul 30, 2024 • 33min

Eros and The Light of Christ [Restore 2023 Presentation]

Dr. Finlayson-Fife, an expert at the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, shares profound insights on Eros as a transformative force. She argues that love can enhance spiritual growth and emphasizes the importance of authentic connection through vulnerability. The discussion includes reflections on navigating loss and finding purpose, with personal anecdotes highlighting resilience and hope. The impact of maternal strength is also celebrated, reminding listeners of the enduring spirit of love in overcoming life's challenges.

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