Conversations with Dr. Jennifer How Can Leaders Talk About Sex Without Fueling Fear or Shame?
May 20, 2025
Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, joins to discuss the complexities of sexuality within Latter-day Saint culture. She emphasizes the need for church leaders to address sexuality openly, promoting a hopeful and empowering narrative. They explore how fear and shame hinder healthy choices, the importance of teaching youth self-respect, and how understanding one's sexual identity can strengthen relationships and faith. A must-listen for those seeking healthier conversations around intimacy!
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Value-Action Gap In Church Messaging
- The Church values sexuality but lacks clear guidance on how to build intimate marriages.
- Roles-and-need messaging doesn't create passion or practical pathways to intimacy.
Normalize And Channel Adolescent Desire
- Normalize sexual feelings for adolescents and treat them as a developmental gift.
- Teach them to bridle desire instead of shaming or repressing it so they can choose wisely.
Respond To Confession Without Shame
- When a youth confesses pornography use, normalize attraction and reduce catastrophic labels like 'porn addict.'
- Frame the internet as an unhealthy candy store and help them make clear choices.