The Whole Therapist

Dive into the nuances of therapist development as Abby and Kellee explore the idea of 'shuttling'—oscillating between experience and reflection. They discuss the importance of naming countertransference to foster co-consciousness in sessions. Laughter ensues as they question professional rituals, like wearing headphones, shining light on unexamined practices. The transformative power of consultation is emphasized as a means to enhance therapeutic work, while creative, embodied learning methods are encouraged to enrich clinical practice.

Abby and Kellee dive into the blending of science and poetry in therapy, exploring how both left and right brain functions play a role in healing. They discuss the metaphor of therapists as 'amygdala whisperers,' fostering safety through this unique approach. Curiosity and discipline in asking transformative questions are emphasized, alongside reflections on the beauty found in grief and triumph. The discussion touches on interdependence between therapist and client, encouraging listeners to recognize beauty and body signals in their practice.

In this engaging discussion, the hosts emphasize the importance of sharing resources between therapists and clients. They explore the idea of reading together, particularly focusing on Louis Cozolino's work. The conversation reveals how therapists can break down the gatekeeping mentality, encouraging open dialogue about recommended books. By integrating both left and right brain processing, they illustrate how resources can enhance therapeutic relationships. Nonclinical materials, like poetry, are highlighted for their profound healing potential, fostering community and connection.

Abby and Kellee explore making mistakes in the therapy room, and the shame that becomes very alive and present for therapists. They share their own stories of mistakes with clients, the shame they felt, and ways they have learned to regulated through these moments. They also include an audio clip from a professor at a local university who shares his own mistake as an intern therapist and the shame that followed. Abby and Kellee use an IPNB lens to offer compassion to themselves and all therapists regarding the responses to clients that turn into mistakes. Topics Touched on:Bonnie Badenoch: https://www.nurturingtheheart.comTimothy Wienecke: https://empoweredchangece.com/contact-me/The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows: https://www.amazon.com/Dictionary-Obscure-Sorrows-John-Koenig/dp/1501153641Practicing Mindfulness: https://www.amazon.com/Practicing-Mindfulness-Essential-Meditations-Everyday/dp/1641521716Richard Powers: http://www.richardpowers.net Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com

Topics Touched on:Abby and Kellee explore healing others and having to hold boundaries with our own families and friends. They express the grief that can be present when healers see their own family or friends suffering but needing to maintain the boundary of not becoming their healer. They also hold the relief that may come for some knowing they cannot be the healer for their friends our family. Abby and Kellee share the difficulty of separating our therapist part from our friend and/or family member part.  Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com

Self-disclosure. What is it? When do we use it? When is it helpful? When can it be harmful? Abby and Kellee discuss the importance of awareness around the intention of the therapist’s disclosure. They ask when does self-disclosure create expansion and joining for the therapist and client? Kellee and Abby give examples of when disclosure has been helpful or not helpful for them as clients, and their own clients. Topics Touched on:The Development of a Therapist. Healing Others. Healing Self: Louis Cozolino- https://www.amazon.com/Development-Therapist-Healing-Others-Self/dp/0393713954A Handful of Quiet: Happiness in Four Pebbles: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/a-handful-of-quiet-happiness-in-four-pebbles_thch-nht-hnh/877515/item/10429135/?gclid=CjwKCAjwo8-SBhAlEiwAopc9W705o0X71FlTBvaTkQJSrS-Iwo6_kkvnqCvL_6j-wuBATDHNGNkvExoCeeoQAvD_BwE#idiq=10429135&edition=7306409 Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com

Have you ever had that client that “talks at you,” or noticed you yourself “talking at the client?” Do you ever wonder if words in the therapy room may not be the most optimal for healing? Abby and Kellee spend this episode exploring how “talking”, a left brain skill, must be used intentionally to heal our clients. Topics Touched on:World Association of Sandtray Therapy Professionals (WASP): https://worldsandtherapy.comLorraine Freedle: http://lorrainefreedle.com/sandplay-therapy/Dan Siegel: https://drdansiegel.comBonnie Badenoch: https://www.nurturingtheheart.comThe Development of a Therapist. Healing Others. Healing Self: Louis Cozolino-https://www.amazon.com/Development-Therapist-Healing-Others-Self/dp/0393713954Marshall Lyles: https://www.marshalllyles.comParis Goodyear-Brown: https://www.parisgoodyearbrown.comIain McGilchrist: https://www.amazon.com/Matter-Things-Brains-Delusions-Unmaking-ebook/dp/B09KY5B3QL Follow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com

Get ready to talk about money! How do we decide our rates? Abby and Kellee explore their personal relationship with money, and how this impacts their relationship with money as private practice owners. While Kellee and Abby focus this episode on those who have private practices the episode encourages all therapists to become aware of their own relationship with money, and how this lives inside their bodies, their epigenetic story. Topics Touched on:Robyn Mourning: https://www.ominiralabs.comDr. Bukky: https://myrelationshiphq.comTalking about Race with Dr. Bukky Kolawole: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hc8b0I36WeQ&t=2003sAbby’s contact for EMDR consultation:abby@beandbelongcounseling.orgKellee’s contact for EMDR consultation: https://anchorcounselingco.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com

What happens when therapists feel uninspired? The hosts dive into the complexities of this experience and explore whether it's necessary to reignite that passion or simply allow it to be. They discuss the benefits of uninspiration, touching on burnout and the importance of co-regulation during training. Strategies to reconnect with play are shared alongside the value of drawing inspiration from life outside therapy. Plus, they reflect on trusting clients to lead and the rich, unpredictable nature of the therapeutic relationship.

Abby and Kellee touch on grief, and the ways it shows up for therapists in the field. They share the need to welcome grief again and again; it cannot be box that is just “checked off.” Abby and Kellee explore ways to set boundaries as therapists navigate the hard work they do in this field. Topics Touched on:Michael Pollan- https://michaelpollan.comKate Bowler- https://katebowler.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.comFollow us: https://www.instagram.com/the_whole_therapist/https://www.facebook.com/TWTPodcasters/ Visit our website:https://wholetherapistinstitute.com Email us: wholetherapistinstitute@gmail.com