The Whole Therapist Summer Book Series: The Development of a Therapist. Chapter 1
Jul 5, 2022
Abby and Kellee dive into the blending of science and poetry in therapy, exploring how both left and right brain functions play a role in healing. They discuss the metaphor of therapists as 'amygdala whisperers,' fostering safety through this unique approach. Curiosity and discipline in asking transformative questions are emphasized, alongside reflections on the beauty found in grief and triumph. The discussion touches on interdependence between therapist and client, encouraging listeners to recognize beauty and body signals in their practice.
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Science Meets Poetic Connection
- Kozolino argues great therapists blend scientific understanding with poetic human connection.
- This integration creates what he calls an "amygdala whisperer" who builds safety through relationship.
Make Asking A Discipline
- Practice disciplined curiosity to find beauty or hope amid negativity bias.
- Ask generative questions to reshape perspective rather than immediately trying to fix problems.
Use A Shame-Undoing Question
- Use the question, “And how could you have possibly known to do anything different?” to reduce shame.
- Offer this question to help clients see past blame and open toward compassion and growth.
