RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery

In this final part of the "now what?" series, Kylene and Patrick discuss what steps a coupleship can take when moving towards recovery or reconciliation after betrayal.   This includes, establishing safety, increasing and improving communication, engaging in the tools we have covered in the past 3 episodes, and giving it the time needed. Healing takes time, and the brain and nervous system need time to pass to believe that safety is real.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Today's episode is a continuation of last week's episode supporting a betrayed partner immediately after discovery. Last week we focused on tangible action steps like connecting to a specialized coach or therapist and setting early boundaries.    This week, we are discussing mental, emotional and relational things to think through early on after discovery including having compassion on your emotional parts in grieving this traumatic experience and giving yourself time to gather the information you need.   Sobriety vs Recovery episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000684064277   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

In today's episode we discuss the initial steps a betrayed partner can take to create stability and begin the first steps of recovery.    We discuss why locking everything down can be helpful, and why it's important to connect with others whether it's friends or professionals to support you through your healing journey.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Today’s episode kicks off our 3-part “Now What?!” series, starting with the addict: You’ve been discovered. You’ve been found out. Now what do you do? In this episode, we walk through tangible first steps—who to connect with, how to begin your sobriety journey, and why facing the hard things head-on is essential for long-term healing and health. We also explore early relational dynamics. If you’re entering recovery while hoping to repair a relationship, there are key mindsets and behaviors that can either build trust—or further damage it. We break down what truly supports healing in these early stages. Recovery is possible. And in this episode, we share the steps that those who find lasting recovery consistently take. Sobriety vs Recovery ep: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000684064277   Getting Started Resources:  https://www.canva.com/design/DAGdxcXQ7ao/o5u9mYKFqkrZHBW1DIQTyQ/view?utm_content=DAGdxcXQ7ao&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link2&utm_source=uniquelinks&utlId=h0c8eacefa3   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

In today's episode, Patrick and Kylene share why creating a vision is so important, offering some examples of how that helped them in their recovery journey as well as offering you reflections and questions to ask yourself as you begin creating your own life vision.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

This discussion highlights unexpected benefits of recovery during the holiday season. Patrick shares insights on the need for deeper healing beyond just stopping negative behaviors. He emphasizes growth in empathy and communication skills. Kylene reveals that coaching and listening to diverse stories have profoundly shaped her worldview. They explore the balance of empathy with accountability, expressing admiration for each other's strengths. The conversation concludes on the importance of building real connections and trust in relationships.

Creating new, positive habits is a key piece of successful recovery. In today's episode, Patrick shares thoughts on the importance of consistency as well as sharing tools,resources and tips on how to stay consistent through the inevitable ups and downs of life.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Daily Tools for Sobriety Series - RecoverU episodes 67-71 Customizable Productivity Planner ( what Kylene uses): https://www.papier.com/us/stationery/daily-productivity-planners/ Better Every Day Journal: https://www.insidethenout.com/products/better-every-day-journal 5 Year Journal: https://www.levenger.com/products/5-year-journal Full Focus Planner: https://fullfocusstore.com If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

In this week's episode, Kylene is discussing what are some signs that you are in a safe and healthy relationship? She shares conversations that exemplify safety, as well as offering examples from her relationship with Patrick.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

The podcast dives into the emotional turmoil of feeling unchosen after betrayal and the struggle against comparison. Kylene shares her inspiring journey towards self-acceptance, emphasizing the importance of choosing oneself first. They discuss practical healing tools like therapy and EMDR, highlighting mutual recovery's role in strengthening relationships. Courageous conversations and consistent actions are framed as vital for rebuilding trust and connection. The hosts remind listeners that prioritizing healing can lead to profound relational change.

In today's episode, Kylene speaks with Ron Rhea about his book, "The Grounded Liberation Method". They walk through his 10 root method, discussing why mindfulness and connection are important and the gifts that facing your emotions and shadows can offer in life.   Grounded Liberation Book: https://books.by/ron-rhea-ii   Work with Ron: https://stan.store/TempleBuildingCoaching   Follow Ron on IG: @temple.building.coaching   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune