

Don't Force It: How to Get into College without Losing Yourself in the Process
Sheila Akbar, PhD
For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions. Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity. From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid conversations and expert guidance on making it to, through, and beyond college.
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Aug 7, 2024 • 29min
Don McMillan: Boarding Schools
In today's episode, I sit down with Don McMillan, and we delve into the intricate world of boarding schools, the unique experiences they offer, and the comprehensive process of finding the right fit for students. Tune in to discover how boarding schools can shape a student's academic and personal growth, and learn about valuable resources for navigating this important decision!BioDon brings over 30 years’ experience as a passionate educator to his work overseeing McMillan Education’s leadership team and the counselors working in traditional and international school and college planning. In close collaboration with his leadership team, Don enjoys staying out ahead of admission trends and continually enhancing the best guidance practices of the group by developing and delivering regular in-house supervision and professional development trainings. In addition to the leadership of his group of highly experienced educational counselors, Don is considered a leader in the field. Frequently quoted in national outlets like The New York Times and The Boston Globe, Don has spoken about trends in college admissions and boarding schools to audiences of educators at national conferences, independent school Boards of Trustees, and international schools on several continents, bringing to his presentations the same commitment to students that he brought to his years teaching and leading in independent school. Follow Don on LinkedIn.Links and Resources:McMillan Education WebsiteOwl Boarding School GuideAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Aug 1, 2024 • 36min
What Really Matters in College Admissions
In today’s episode, I discuss strategies for understanding a college’s evolving needs and how to guide students in presenting their best selves. Tune in for insights on navigating the complex college admissions landscape and making informed decisions.Access the full recording of the webinar here: https://signeteducation.com/eventsSign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Jun 26, 2024 • 53min
Team Signet: The College Essay
In today's episode, I sit down with Signet's College Experts: Joanna Graham, Jasper Nighthawk, and Satia Marotta. We explore the latest trends in college admissions, discussing what has changed in the landscape and what students can do to stand out. Whether you're just starting your college journey or you're deep in the application process, this episode is packed with information you won't want to miss. Tune in and get ready to navigate the path to college with confidence!BioJoanna Graham is one of Signet’s top admissions consultants. She has decades of experience in the college admissions and standardized testing space, having worked as an admissions interviewer and application reader at Georgetown University and then as an independent admissions consultant in the DC area. Joanna received her Bachelor’s degree in Language & Linguistics and Sociology from Georgetown University. Joanna stands out because she is a current member of the Board of Governors at Georgetown, she spent nearly a decade working at the Graduate Management Admissions Council and she volunteers at a variety of athletic and military organizations such as Dog Tag Bakery, Team Red White & Blue, the Ironman Foundation, and the Pat Tillman Foundation.Jasper Nighthawk has been working at Signet since 2016 and has tutored for over a decade. He specializes in writing (specifically college essays) and academic coaching, and he graduated with an AB from Harvard College and got his MFA from Antioch University LA. Jasper stands out because he is a practicing poet and author, he loves sports, cooking, writing, and his pet cat, he works as the University Storyteller of Antioch University, editing over a hundred articles a year, hosting an award-winning podcast, and crafting the story of that institution, he previously worked for seven years as a Poet in the School, and he has lectured on creative writing at both UCLA and Wesleyan. Satia Marotta started working for Signet in 2018 and has many years of tutoring experience. She holds a Bachelor of Science with High Distinction from Worcester Polytechnic Institute (WPI) and a Master’s of Science and Doctor of Philosophy in Psychology from Tufts University. She loves research and teaching. Satia stands out because she worked as a Graduate Writing Consultant at Tufts and as a Peer Academic Coach at WPI, she is an avid fiber artist and enjoys crocheting, weaving, and quilting. She even spins and dyes her own yarn, and she is a diligent bullet journaler and has been working on her doodles, hand lettering, and handmade papermaking skills. '24-'25 Common App Essay Prompts: https://www.commonapp.org/blog/common-app-announces-2024-2025-common-app-essay-promptsAccess the recording of our webinar here: https://signeteducation.com/eventsSign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Jun 20, 2024 • 27min
Eric Endlich: Learning Differences & the College Process
Join me in today's episode as I chat with Eric, founder of Top College Consultants. Together, we dive into the dynamic world of higher education and explore the fascinating journey of navigating neurodiversity. Eric unveils his invaluable insights on empowering twice-exceptional students and the pivotal role mentorship plays in their triumphs. Get ready for an enriching conversation filled with eye-opening advice and heartwarming anecdotes. Don't miss out – tune in now!BioEric Endlich, Ph.D., clinical psychologist and founder of Top College Consultants®, guides neurodivergent students nationwide through the college application process. He co-teaches the UC Irvine continuing education course for educational consultants, Working with Students with Learning Differences, and co-manages an 18,000-member Facebook group for parents of college-bound neurodivergent students. Dr. Endlich has served on the Learning Differences/Neurodiversity and Diversity/Equity/Inclusion Committees of the Independent Educational Consultants Association (IECA), and was honored with IECA’s “Making a Difference” award for contributions such as a database of neurodiversity-friendly colleges. A national presenter and professional writer, he is also a researcher on a project to develop college readiness software for autistic high school students and a study to enhance student-teacher relationships for autistic children, as well as an advisory board member for the UCLA Tarjan Center. Dr. Endlich is regularly interviewed by various media including Forbes, Money magazine, College Confidential, and U.S. News & World Report. Finally, he is a neurodivergent parent and adult. Follow Eric on LinkedIn.Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Jun 12, 2024 • 33min
David Hawkins and Tom Bear: Character in College Admissions
In today's episode, I sit down with Tom Bear and David Hawkins, and we delve into the significance of character in the college admissions process, the mission of NACAC, and the evolving landscape of higher education. Tune in to explore how character matters more than ever in shaping the future of higher education!BioTom Bear, Ed.D. has spent over thirty years in college enrollment. He is currently the Vice President for Enrollment Management at Rose-Hulman Institute of Technology. Prior to Rose, Tom served as Senior Director for Enrollment Management at the University of Notre Dame. Additionally, Tom was Vice President for Enrollment Services at the University of Evansville. During his career, Tom has worked with both admission and financial aid decision-making. He has built enrollment yield models, introduced holistic admissions, managed financial aid scholarships, administered pre-college programs, and promoted student diversity and inclusivity. He has also been involved in the selection of merit scholar recipients including the Notre Dame Scholars (including Hesburgh/Yusko Recipients) and Noblitt Scholars at Rose-Hulman. Tom currently serves on the boards of Private College 529 and Voyageur Outward Bound. He has also been a member of the Indiana ACT Council. Tom currently serves as the Chair for NACAC’s Character Focus Initiative. He earned his doctorate degree from Indiana University and did extensive research on student retention.David Hawkins is the Chief Education and Policy Officer for the National Association for College Admission Counseling (NACAC), based in Arlington, VA. The National Association for College Admission Counseling is a non-profit membership association that represents more than 27,000 high school counselors and college admission officers throughout the U.S. and around the world. NACAC is devoted to making the transition between high school and postsecondary education equitable, transparent, and fair. Mr. Hawkins holds a BA and MA in Government from the College of William & Mary in Virginia. From 1995-1998, he conducted research for the Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee (DCCC) in Washington, DC. From 1998-2000, he served under President Bill Clinton and Secretary Andrew Cuomo as a Congressional Affairs Specialist at the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. Hawkins joined NACAC as Director of Government Relations in March 2000 and over his 24 years with the association has assumed responsibility for leading NACAC’s advocacy, research, education and training, and diversity, equity, and inclusion initiatives.Access 'The College Essay Masterclass: Proven Strategies to Stand Out and Succeed': https://signeteducation.com/events/Click here to visit the National Association for College Admission Counseling (NACAC) website: https://www.nacacnet.org/Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Jun 5, 2024 • 14min
Chris Davis: Harvard Extension School
In today's episode, I sit down with Chris Davis, Associate Director of the Career and Academic Resource Center at Harvard Extension School, to explore the innovative programs offered at Harvard Extension, the impact on non-traditional learners, and the future of education in a rapidly evolving world. Tune in to discover the exciting possibilities beyond traditional higher education!BioChris Davis has worked at Harvard University for over a decade, at Harvard Business School, and at the Harvard Extension School. As the Associate Director of the Career and Academic Resource Center, he oversees the academic skills-building programs and resources available to students at the Extension School, which include a vast array of live webinar programming, a podcast dedicated to serving the needs of adult learners, and more. Access our College Essay Masterclass here: https://signeteducation.com/events/Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

May 30, 2024 • 20min
Jenny Meanwell: Using Intuition in Tutoring and in Life
Join me in today's conversation with Jenny, an archaeologist and material scientist teaching at MIT and tutor at Signet. Discover the insights on following your instincts, fueling curiosity, and crafting your own destiny. Don't miss out on this exhilarating conversation that promises to inspire and intrigue!BioJenny has been with Signet since 2011, logging over 3,800 student hours. She specializes in test prep, sciences, and math and holds a BS and PhD from MIT in Archaeology and Materials Science. Jenny is Signet’s most tenured tutor, with teaching experience at MIT and Brown. She has a son and enjoys spending time with him. Clients and students appreciate Jenny for her calm, patient, knowledgeable, and experienced approach.Access Signet's College Essay Masterclass here: https://signeteducation.com/events/Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

May 22, 2024 • 24min
Patricia Bannan: Burnout
In today's episode, I sit down with Patricia Bannan, a seasoned wellness expert and author of “From Burnout to Balance”, to explore the intricacies of navigating burnout. Patricia shares her own journey through burnout, distinguishing between stress and burnout while offering practical strategies for building resilience. Join us as we delve into the world of wellness intelligence and discover how to prevent and overcome burnout in today's fast-paced society.BioPatricia Bannan, MS, RDN, is a nationally recognized registered dietitian nutritionist, author, and healthy cooking expert dedicated to helping ambitious women thrive without burning out. As someone who has personally experienced burnout, Patricia knows the challenges of juggling work, family, and personal well-being. Her journey through these struggles inspired her award-winning book, From Burnout to Balance, which combines health guidance with delicious, healing recipes. Patricia's mission is to empower women to lead fulfilling lives with less stress and more joy. This led her to create Wellness Intelligence™, a groundbreaking approach designed to help professional women cultivate micro-habits that boost energy, improve focus, and foster inner calm. To learn more about Wellness Intelligence™ and discover supportive programs for yourself or your organization, visit http://mywellnessintelligence.com/. You can also follow Patricia on Instagram @patriciabannan and explore her website http://patriciabannan.com/ for expert advice, interviews, recipes, and tools to enhance your wellness journey. Follow Patricia Bannan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patricia-bannan-ms-rdn-5609054/Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

May 15, 2024 • 37min
Aneesh Raman: Finding the Thread
In today's episode, I sit down with Aneesh Raman to explore the future of education and work. Join us as we discuss navigating career pivots, redefining success, and empowering the next generation. Whether you're a parent guiding your child's educational path or an individual navigating career choices, this episode offers practical wisdom and encouragement to pursue lifelong learning and fulfill your potential. Tune in!BioAneesh Raman is a VP and Workforce Expert at LinkedIn. As part of this role, he leads the Opportunity Project, which works with global leaders to help them understand the biggest changes impacting work and to build a more dynamic and equitable global labor market in the age of AI. Prior to LinkedIn, Aneesh was a Senior Economic Advisor for California Governor Gavin Newsom helping to shape and communicate the Economic Agenda for one of the world’s largest economies, as well as the state's response to the global pandemic. Aneesh joined the Governor’s Office after five years in the tech industry, including as Head of Economic Impact at Facebook. From 2009-2013, he held multiple positions in the Obama Administration, including as a speechwriter to President Barack Obama as well as a speechwriter to the Treasury Secretary amidst a historic economic crisis. Raman started his career as a CNN correspondent, first in Southeast Asia and then across the Middle East, where he spent two years as a war correspondent in Iraq. A graduate of Harvard and a former Fulbright Scholar, Raman is a Board member of Shanti Bhavan, an education non-profit that works with children from the most disadvantaged communities in India and was the subject of the critically-acclaimed Netflix documentary, ‘Daughters of Destiny.’ Raman is a former term member at the Council on Foreign Relations and former member of the John F. Kennedy Presidential Library’s New Frontier Award Committee. Follow Aneesh on LinkedIn.Click here to RSVP for our upcoming webinar: Selective College Admissions: What Really Matters, and How to Build Your StrategyAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

May 9, 2024 • 38min
Let’s Get Tactical: Academic Excellence Without Burnout
Explore strategies for academic excellence and student-centered coaching, focusing on preventing burnout and supporting unique challenges. Learn about the importance of gradual skill development and optimizing routines with practical tools and resources.