

Don't Force It: How to Get into College without Losing Yourself in the Process
Sheila Akbar, PhD
For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions. Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity. From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid conversations and expert guidance on making it to, through, and beyond college.
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Dec 5, 2024 • 36min
You Need A College List
In today's episode, Signet’s admissions consultant, Joanna Graham, shares expert tips on how to craft a standout college list. From setting achievable goals to building strong study habits and embracing a growth mindset, Joanna offers practical tips that can make a real impact. Tune in for advice that could change the way your student approaches learning—and set them up for success!Access resources here: https://subscribepage.io/you-need-a-college-list-how-to-do-it-rightSign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Application for Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Application for Parents and Other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Nov 21, 2024 • 40min
Jamie Beaton: Comparing Systems of Higher Education
In today’s episode, I sit down with Jamie Beaton, founder of Crimson Education. Jamie shares his impressive academic journey and dives into the complexities of college admissions. BioJamie has earned Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees at Harvard, as well as Master’s degrees at Stanford, UPenn, Princeton, and Tsinghua, a PhD at Oxford, and JD at Yale Law School. He has grown Crimson into the world’s most successful university admissions consultancy, having assisted thousands of students worldwide in gaining entry to the most competitive universities in the US and the UK. Follow Jamie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamiebeatonSign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Nov 14, 2024 • 42min
Live Coaching: Using Early Apps to Prepare for Regular Decision
In today’s episode, we preview a live coaching session with a student fresh off submitting early college apps! Together, we tackle time management, tailoring essays, and balancing a college list—plus, we strategize for regular deadlines right around the corner. Listen in for essential tips and insights on managing the college app process with confidence!Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAClick here to download your copy of the activity list: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Qz8wgDibry2rjI0yb_1JhiB4dCpdu-ylSwMsP9-zLJU/edit?usp=sharingAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Nov 7, 2024 • 33min
Stop the Shame Spiral
In today's episode, we have Signet's Director of Operations and Academic Coach, Andrea West discuss how to stop the shame spiral—breaking free from negative thought patterns and embracing a more productive mindset. Tune in to discover how you can boost your productivity while nurturing a healthier, more positive approach to your work and studies!Access resources here: https://subscribepage.io/invisible-influence-oct-2024Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Oct 31, 2024 • 31min
Get your Ducks in a Row
In today's episode, we revisit an insightful webinar on the college application process and the crucial importance of early preparation. Plus, I introduce my “match pyramid” framework to help students align their academics, values, and unique qualities with college priorities. Tune in for practical resources and tools to empower both parents and students on this exciting journey!Discover the Secret Formula to Your Child's College Admissions Success: Visit Signet’s What Really Matters in College Admissions Course Today: https://course.signeteducation.com/form/Access the Recording of the “Get Your Ducks in a Row” Webinar Here: https://signeteducation.com/eventsSign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Oct 25, 2024 • 27min
Rachel Leja: College Planning for Neurodiverse Students
In today's episode, I chat with Rachel, an educational consultant at McMillan Education, who specializes in helping students with learning disabilities and neurodivergent needs find their ideal colleges. Rachel shares her unique journey from professional writing to education, and we dive into the importance of understanding each student's individual needs right from freshman year. We also discuss the benefits of gap years for building independence and essential skills. Parents, get ready for practical tips on supporting your child’s college journey while embracing their choices! Tune in for this insightful conversation!BioRachel brings her wealth of experience as a special educator of students with a wide range of learning, emotional and behavioral challenges to her school and college planning work at McMillan Education. Families love working with Rachel because they are immediately taken by her combination of genuine warmth and consummate professionalism. Rachel considers herself on a mission to help students find the learning and social environments that both address their needs and allow them to experience success. Nothing has brought Rachel more satisfaction than hearing the transformational stories from her students and families after they’ve found their best fit educational or therapeutic environment.Follow Rachel on LinkedIn and click here to visit McMillanEducation.comSign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Oct 16, 2024 • 26min
Sachin Jain: Threading Values, Interests, and Expectations
In today's episode, I sit down with Sachin Jain, an old friend and very successful CEO of a healthcare company. We discuss how he integrated his interests in social justice and policy with his family’s encouragement to pursue medicine, his ideas on mentorship, and the arc of his career.BioSachin H. Jain, MD, MBA is CEO of SCAN Group and SCAN Health Plan, one of the nation’s largest not-for-profit Medicare Advantage plans, which serves more than 300,000 members across California, Nevada, Arizona, Texas and New Mexico. Previously, Dr. Jain was President and CEO of CareMore and Aspire Health, which served 200,000 Medicare and Medicaid patients in 32 states. He also served as Chief Medical Information & Innovation Officer at Merck & Co., was Senior Advisor to the Administrator of the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) and was the first Deputy Director for policy and programs at the Center for Medicare and Medicaid Innovation (CMMI).Dr. Jain graduated from Harvard College and earned his MD from Harvard Medical School and MBA from Harvard Business School. He is Adjunct Professor at the Stanford University School of Medicine and is a member of the boards of America's Health Insurance Plans (AHIP), Omada Health, Advantage Healthcare Services, and The Paul & Daisy Soros Fellowships for New Americans. Follow Sachin on LinkedIn.Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Oct 9, 2024 • 24min
Danny Tejada: College Access and the ROI of Higher Education
In today’s episode, I dive deep with Danny Tejada, who shares his journey from growing up in a tough NYC neighborhood to becoming a key figure in college access and admissions. Danny emphasizes the importance of understanding education’s return on investment and how he helps students navigate college finance and career planning. Tune in to hear his impactful insights and experiences.BioDanny Tejada grew up in public housing in East New York, Brooklyn. He is a first-generation high school and college graduate. He attended Skidmore College. He also holds a certificate in College Advising from Teachers College, Columbia University. He co-authored a book with his mentee called Different Families, Still Brothers. Danny has been in college counseling for over ten years, working in public, private, charter schools, non-profits, and his own consulting company, We Go To College, LLC. In his consulting, he works with non-profits and high schools on their college counseling programming, colleges on their recruitment of historically disadvantaged students, and individual families on the college application process. In addition to his consulting work, he works at an independent school in Manhattan and reads applications for the University of California, San Diego. Danny sits on the boards of Stony Brook University’s Counselor Advisory, Uprooted Academy, and Puerto Rican Family Institute, Inc. Previously, he was on Common App’s Counselor Advisory Committee and College Access Consortium of New York’s board. Throughout his college counseling career, he has presented at state and national conferences and been featured on NewsNation, in The New York Times, NPR, Forbes, The Chronicle of Higher Education, Education Week, and Money.com, discussing college access issues for historically disadvantaged students. Danny’s mission is to expand college access for low-income, Black, and Brown students so they can achieve upward mobility and break their generational curse. Follow Danny on LinkedIn.Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Oct 3, 2024 • 35min
Hacking the Hidden Obstacles to Your Kid’s Best SAT/ACT Score — Even if They’re Bad at Test-Taking
In today's episode, I’m sharing a webinar I did on test prep strategies designed to help your teen break through their score ceiling, even if they have ADHD. I’ll cover the common test prep mistakes that hold students back and share strategies to help them achieve their best SAT/ACT results. If you want to ensure testing doesn’t stand in the way of their dream schools, this session is for you. Join me to learn how to guide your child to success!Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Sep 18, 2024 • 29min
Let’s Get Tactical: Early Application Alphabet Soup
In today’s episode, I dive into the differences between Early Action, Early Decision, and ED2. I break down how each option can impact your college admissions strategy, what types of students might benefit from each path, and how to decide which is the best fit for you. If you’re navigating college applications and wondering how to increase your chances of acceptance, this episode is packed with insights to help you make informed decisions.Sign up to join our live coaching session and receive personalized insights!Students: https://forms.gle/cRyBSFP9tSEJnsVN6Parents and other Adults: https://forms.gle/v6Nppxix6HPKrRfdAAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.