

Don't Force It: How to Get into College without Losing Yourself in the Process
Sheila Akbar, PhD
For all the stressed-out parents trying to help their teenagers navigate the complicated world of college admissions. Each episode offers insightful and in-depth conversations with admissions experts and professional educators with practical advice for getting through the process without losing sight of yourself, your kid, or your sanity. From building a strong academic and extracurricular profile, developing the college list, managing standardized tests, to crafting the perfect essay, we've got you covered. Whether you're a seasoned high school parent or a first-timer, join us for candid conversations and expert guidance on making it to, through, and beyond college.
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May 6, 2024 • 31min
Holly Schreiber: Watershed Parent Coaching
In today’s episode, I sit down with my dear friend and colleague, Holly Schreiber, from Watershed Parent Coaching. Together, we delve into strategies for reducing stress during the college application journey—for both your child and yourself! Tune in for practical tips and heartfelt insights that will transform your parenting approach and help your family thrive during this pivotal life stage.BioHolly is the founder of Watershed Parent Coaching and an admissions consultant at Signet Education. She holds a BA from Bowdoin College and an MA and PhD from Indiana University.Visit Watershed Parent Coaching or email Holly at holly@watershedparentcoaching.comAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Apr 25, 2024 • 35min
Let’s Get Tactical: What do you need to know about the digital SAT?
Join me today as I delve into the transition to digital SATs, unravel strategies for choosing between the SAT and ACT, and explore the intricacies of test-optional admissions policies. Tune in for valuable insights and guidance on navigating standardized testing!Click here to access the resources mentioned in this episode.Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Apr 18, 2024 • 23min
Joy Meserve: Leading with Joy
In today's episode, join me as I sit down with Joy Meserve, CEO and founder of Leading with Joy. We delve into her transformative journey from corporate PR to pioneering STEM education, exploring insights on joyful leadership and navigating career shifts. From parenting parallels to practical college prep tips, Joy shares candid wisdom and actionable advice for listeners seeking purpose-driven growth in work and life.BioAfter two decades of executive experience in scaling operations and developing leaders, Joy Meserve founded Leading with Joy to help other executives develop leaders that foster high-performing and joyful workplace cultures where both people and profits thrive. Meserve leverages her experience as the former COO of iD Tech, where the company’s growth and success were inextricably linked to the award-winning culture. Joy brings a unique perspective to the forefront with her commitment to introducing leaders to a simpler, more practical way for busy leaders to scale their time. Through dynamic and actionable workshops, keynotes, and leadership coaching, Joy guides audiences on a transformative journey – steering them away from hustle culture towards one firmly rooted in the principles of Partner Leadership. While conventional wisdom may dictate that success hinges on doing more, doing better, and doing it faster, Joy asserts that true greatness in leadership emerges from slowing down, just a little, to ensure that people feel seen, heard, and appreciated for their contributions within the framework of Partner Leadership. Follow Joy Meserve on LinkedIn. Website: https://leadingwithjoy.comRegister for her Free Leadership Workshop on Performance Coaching: Practical Conversations for Busy Leaders at https://more.leadingwithjoy.com Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Apr 11, 2024 • 24min
Let's Get Tactical: How to Navigate the Waitlist
Join me in today’s episode as I delve into the intricacies of college waitlists. I'll discuss the purpose behind waitlists and offer actionable advice for waitlisted students on navigating their current acceptances while strategically positioning themselves for potential waitlist admissions. Tune in!Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Apr 4, 2024 • 27min
Joanna Graham: Expertise, Authenticity, and Purpose
In today's episode, I chat with Joanna Graham, one of Signet’s Senior Admissions Consultants, to discuss the significance of expertise, authenticity, and purpose in shaping students' paths, highlighting the transformative power of education. Join us for insights into career navigation and the impact of self-discovery on students' aspirations.BioJoanna is one of Signet’s top admissions consultants. She has decades of experience in the college admissions and standardized testing space, having worked as an admissions interviewer and application reader at Georgetown University and then as an independent admissions consultant in the DC area. Joanna received her Bachelor’s degree in Language & Linguistics and Sociology from Georgetown University. Joanna stands out because she is a current member of the Board of Governors at Georgetown, she spent nearly a decade working at the Graduate Management Admissions Council, and she volunteers at a variety of athletic and military organizations such as Dog Tag Bakery, Team Red White & Blue, the Ironman Foundation, and the Pat Tillman Foundation Clients. Students love Joanna because she is kind, well-accomplished, and encouraging. She is an avid athlete and has completed nearly 40 marathons and ultramarathons and 2 Ironman triathlons, and she is a proud mother and dog mom!Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Mar 28, 2024 • 18min
Shereem Herndon-Brown: The Black Family's Guide to College Admissions
In today's episode, I sit down with Shereen Herndon-Brown, founder of Strategic Admissions Advice, about the evolving college admissions process. We dive into the significance of redefining success, the value of authenticity, and the importance of embracing one's unique identity in college applications. Tune in for insights on storytelling and diversity in higher education.BioFeatured in periodicals like the New York Times, LA Times, Washington Post, and Chicago Tribune, Shereem knows everything you and your child need to succeed in the college admissions game. As a dynamic leader, educational strategist, speaker, and author of The Black Family's Guide to College Admissions: A Conversation About Education, Parenting, and Race, his experiences in the field are unparalleled. As an educator for almost twenty years and entrepreneur for over a decade, he has counseled many students and families through the often-frustrating private school and college “admissions maze.” He is a graduate of Wesleyan University with a BA degree in English and a MA of Arts degree from the Breadloaf School of English at Middlebury College. In 2005, he was selected by the National Association of Independent Schools as an E.E. Ford Fellow for Aspiring Heads of School. Additionally, he has served on the Board of Trustees at La Cima Elementary Charter School in his native Brooklyn, New York. He is also a Member of the Independent Educational Consulting Association (IECA) and the National Association of College Admissions Counseling (NACAC). Above all, Shereem is a husband, father and a distinguished gentleman of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity Incorporated. Follow Shereem on LinkedIn.Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Mar 21, 2024 • 20min
Van Tran: Embracing the Pivot
In today's episode, I sit down with Van Tran, co-founder of API Rising, and delve into the intersection of art and technology, her pivotal career transitions in corporations, and the importance of trusting oneself in navigating diverse career paths. Join us for a conversation that inspires embracing purpose-driven career pivots and making a meaningful impact.BioVan is a community builder, DEI practitioner, and an inclusive marketing and technology leader with 20+ years of experience leading high-performing teams and clients like UPS, AT&T, and Disney towards success. Ex-Oracle, ex-StubHub, ex-VP of Innovation & Experience, and a consultant at her core, she’s worked with and navigated startups and enterprises across various industries in various roles. Van’s passion for people's experience and development is guided by core values of growth, empathy, and integrity. She credits her success to a family legacy of grit, community building, and resilience. Van’s also a hiker, runner, foodie, and wellness enthusiast. Follow Van on Linkedin.Resources here:API Rising WebsiteAPI Rising Linkedin Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Mar 14, 2024 • 38min
Let’s Get Tactical: How to Build a College List
In today’s podcast episode, I talk about the college list. From navigating super scoring policies to campus visits and holistic considerations, gain valuable insights on creating a tailored list for a seamless college application process. Join me for essential tips and tools to guide you through this crucial phase. Resources here:Signet Education’s College List-Building LabPersonal College InventorySample College List TemplateTop Questions to Answer When Researching a CollegeAccess free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Mar 7, 2024 • 31min
Emmaline Cook: Learning for the Sake of Learning
In today's episode, Signet’s Business Development Manager Emmaline shares her remarkable journey—from unconventional high school experiences and the complexities of college admissions to a surprising detour into dance during a transformative gap year. Her story is a testament to self-discovery, resilience, and the pursuit of authentic fulfillment. Tune in!BioEmmaline is our logistical frontline! She joined Signet as an Account Manager in the summer of 2023 and works with the whole team to match students to the right tutor, coach, or admissions consultant for their situation.Prior to her time at Signet, Emmaline received her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology (Cognitive Neuroscience) and Social Anthropology from Harvard. She is now back at Harvard in the Graduate School of Education, working on a Master’s in Human Development. Outside of work, Emmaline is an active member of SAG-AFTRA and loves all facets of movies – including a large popcorn no matter what movie she is seeing.Access Signet's Ultimate Guide to Summer Planning Course here!Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.

Feb 29, 2024 • 33min
Evan Mandery: How Elite Colleges Divide Us
In today's episode, join me for a captivating conversation with Evan Mandery, as we unravel the hidden truths behind elite colleges, exposing their role in perpetuating social inequality. Tune in for a compelling exploration that might reshape your perspective.BioAn Emmy and Peabody award winner, Evan Mandery is the author of eight books, including four novels and, most recently, Poison Ivy: How Elite Colleges Divide Us. He has been a professor for 25 years at John Jay College of Criminal Justice at the City University of New York. He is a contributing editor to Politico and the co-founder and board chairman of Class Action, a grassroots nonprofit that combats career funneling and fights for greater equity in admissions to elite colleges. Evan lives in Montclair, New Jersey with his wife Valli Rajah, a sociologist. They have three children. Follow Evan on LinkedIn.Access free resources and learn more about Sheila and her team at Signet Education at signeteducation.com or on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/sheilaakbar/.