

Relationship Coaching School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
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May 23, 2023 • 55min
Evolutionary Love - Andrew Harvey - 448
Do you ever wonder if your relationship pain guides you deeper into whatever you need to heal yourself? What kind of relationship do you have with God? With reality? In this explorative and enlightening interview, Andrew Harvey explores how to create evolutionary love that is much bigger than the "you" you know yourself to be. Hang on tight for a mind-blowing ride as Andrew shares his perspective on how relationship work is sacred. He also shares how it serves your soul's calling. Tune in and feel free to share your thoughts, feelings, and experience in the comments. Timestamps: Andrew’s definition of true love [11:00] Why is love hard? [12:00] 3 ways to build and cultivate true love [14:00] ‘The shadow’ and an exercise in shadow-work [22:00] Taking responsibility for disowned parts of yourself [29:00] Advice about purpose for when you’re feeling lost in life [30:00] The role of suffering on a spiritual path [40:00] A quote by Rumi [42:00] What is the most important thing people need to learn in relationship? [44:00] Links: Andrew’s website Book: Evolutionary Love Relationships Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Apply to Relationship Coach Training

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May 16, 2023 • 21min
1 Tip to Have a Sexy and Powerful Partnership Over Time - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 447
Want to know one tip that most of us avoid or don't execute well so you can have a sexy and powerful partnership that lasts? It isn't going on more dates, and it isn't getting really good at repair. Find out how to transform your romantic relationship with Jayson and Ellen in this week's episode, and leave a comment below with your response/experience. Timestamps: 1:43 - 1 tip to have a sexy, powerful partnership over time 5:11 - What's holding couples back? 9:19 - Having a plan 15:54 - What does co-creation mean? Links: Transcript Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720 704 4850

May 9, 2023 • 55min
Powerful Sex Practices with Layla Martin - 446

May 2, 2023 • 26min
Individual Coach or Couples Coach–Who to Hire and When? - Jayson & Ellen - 445
Jayson and Ellen discuss when couples should seek individual help versus working together with a coach or therapist, and how to use a coach/therapist to address relationship issues. Timestamps: 0:58 - Individual coaching/therapy vs. couples coaching/therapy 9:53 - Best way to use an individual coach/therapist to help with relationship problems 13:38 - When does individual work make sense? 15:45 - Should a practitioner see couples and individuals? 21:38 - Recomendations Links: Transcript Hire Ellen for relationship therapy & couples coaching Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720 704 4850

Apr 25, 2023 • 1h 8min
Facing Death, Climbing, Filmmaking & The Creative Process - Pete Mortimer - 444
Do you find the psychology of extreme athletes and their relationships fascinating? Are you curious about what motivates climbers and mountaineers to push themselves to the limit and risk it all? Are you a creative and could you use some tips on how to follow your creative spirit? If so, you won't want to miss this interview with Emmy-winning American filmmaker Peter Mortmier, who shares his unique perspective on relationships. Jayson's experience as an extreme athlete and a therapist allows him to gain a unique insight into extreme athletes' psychology. In their conversation, they discuss the reasons why climbers push themselves to the edge, the deeper experiences they seek, and the heightened awareness they gain through their adventures. Discover the psychology of extreme athletes, as well as insights into the mind of a brilliant creator in this unforgettable episode. Timestamps: 0:55 - Guest introduction 10:50 - The Alpinist 36:00 - What motivates women who climb? 39:00 - Reel Rock 17 44:45 - How Pete thinks about the creative process 50:40 - Pete's advice to stuck creatives Links: Watch Reel Rock 17 Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Apply to Relationship Coach Training Sign up to get Jayson's weekly newsletter via email Enroll in Relationship Mastery

Apr 18, 2023 • 25min
Asking Others to Change - Jayson Gaddis - 443
Would you change if someone asked you to? Asking people to change is common human behavior, but it can be problematic in our most intimate relationships, such as those with our children, parents, and partners. Tune in to this week's episode to hear Jayson's thoughts on his Instagram DMs and asking people to change. Timestamps: 1:50 - Why asking others to change is problematic 16:37 - Q&A with Jayson Links: Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Sign up to get Jayson's weekly newsletter via email

Apr 11, 2023 • 46min
Why Female Run Companies Are More Successful Than Male Run Companies - Julia Boorstin - 442
Why are women-run companies more successful than male-run companies? If you are a woman, do you ever feel like the workplace is unfair? How often? This interview was completely eye-opening for Jayson, and very humbling, and we invite you to tune in. Timestamps: 1:00 - Guest introduction 6:02 - How Julia decided to focus on gender differences in When Women Lead 9:36 - Julia's career so far 13:20 - What statistics say about inequality 31:07 - The benefits when women lead companies 39:53 - Do women need to adopt stereotypically masculine traits to succeed? Links: Julia’s website Take the empathy test (“reading the minds eye test”) Follow Julia on Instagram @juliaboorstin Twitter @jboorstin LinkedIn @Julia Boorstin Buy Julia’s book → When Women Lead Review Julia’s Recommended Reading & Resources CNBC Disruptor 50 (an annual list she oversees, highlighting the private companies transforming the economy and challenging companies in established industries). Stay Tuned…The Future of TV (documentary) Closing the Gap (initiative covering closing gender gaps) Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Sign up to get Jayson's weekly newsletter via email

Apr 4, 2023 • 26min
The “Grass is Greener” Syndrome in Relationships - Jayson Gaddis - 441
In this episode, Jayson shares his personal experience living with this mentality around partnerships/relationships for years. He unpacks what this mindset is really about and what you can do to get through it, which could potentially reframe your experience and help you commit to the one you’re with. Timestamps: 1:56 - The grass is greener mentality 5:42 - Two factors that contribute to the grass is greener mentality 13:05 - When is the grass actually greener? 18:37 - Jayson's personal experiance Links: Episode's Transcript Ep 18 – How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have the Balls to Marry My Wife Ep 31 – 2 Valid Reasons For Divorce Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50" Apply to Relationship Coach Training

Mar 28, 2023 • 1h 32min
Life Purpose, the Cost of Comparison, & Spiritual Development - Dr. John Demartini - 440
What is my life's purpose? How can I find health and happiness? Many of us ask these common questions and Dr. John Demartini, one of Jayson’s mentors, shares his thoughts with us. Dr. Demartini is a polymath with four decades of research and expertise exploring over 200 disciplines in pursuit of what he calls the Universal Principles of Life and Health. In addition to his work as a researcher and best-selling author, Dr. Demartini travels the globe as an international educator/speaker. This episode traverses the great plains of modern medicine to symptomatology, enlightenment to reincarnation, cryptocurrency to financial advice, and the interpersonal/relational aspects of our human experiences. Tune in to this week’s episode to learn from this incredible man. Timestamps: What we do vs. what we say [8:30] What’s your strategy for achieving your goals? [11:30] So you think your job sucks, but does it really? [16:30] Illness, symptoms, and the mind [18:30] Thoughts on reincarnation [24:30] Demartini’s theories on the rise in autoimmune disease [30:30] Is social media making us physically ill? [32:30] Demartini’s opinions on Attachment Theory [36:30] No such thing as a dysfunctional family [45:00] Beware of the “all-enlightened” person [49:00] Can we train our bodies to sleep less? [1:10:00] Cryptocurrencies and financial advice [1:14:00] Links: Dr. John Demartini’s website The Breakthrough Experience Dr. John Demartini on iTunes Keys to Mastering Relationships & Life with Dr. John Demartini Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Enroll in Relationship Mastery Get 50% off your first month of relationship coaching with the promo code "First50"

Mar 21, 2023 • 15min
Never Ever Get Married Unless You Do These 3 Things - Jayson Gaddis - 439
If you plan on getting married, make sure you are willing to do these three things... You won't want to miss this. Timestamps: 0:57 - Don’t get married unless… 2:58 - How should we define success in marriage? 5:34 - Only get married if you do these 3 things 11:07 - Takeaway Links: Read the transcript to this episode here Loneliness, Social Isolation And Living Alone – Dr. Julianne Holt-Lunstad – 301 Order Jayson's book: Getting to Zero Masterclass Library