Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson breaks down the problems with one common strategy—people-pleasing and how it relates to the core inner conflict. What are the childhood roots of people-pleasing? Why do people-pleasers become resentful? Why do integrated individuals make better coaches and therapists? Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to stop betraying yourself in the context of your relationship.Timestamps:1:37 - Client example5:43 - The childhood roots of people-pleasing12:04 - Betraying yourself to fit in14:46 - Why people-pleasers become resentful18:23 - Why integrated people make better coaches and therapistsLinks:Follow Jayson on social media:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Jayson sits down with Duane Mullner to talk about the role of the therapist or coach. Why is the here and now so important? Can clients help their coaches and therapists? How should you prepare for a session? What should you do with a client who isn’t making progress? How can you help clients who are stuck in victimhood? Don’t miss this chance to hear Duane Mullner share the wisdom he has accumulated over his long career.Timestamps:6:44 - What is the role of the therapist/coach15:30 - What’s going on between therapist and client?20:31 - Why is the here and now so important?27:39 - Don’t make resistance wrong34:35 - How clients help coaches and therapists41:46 - How to prepare for a session44:51 - Making progress with clients54:18 - How to help people who are in their victimhood1:07:00 - Should you trust clients to treat you about their problems?Links:Follow Jayson on social media:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Discover how to coach yourself using AI with practical prompts and techniques. Explore AI's potential for providing constructive criticism and even tough love. Dive into its intriguing intersection with astrology and Gene Keys. Learn how to enhance your therapy sessions with AI tools while remembering the importance of human connection in personal growth. Jayson Gaddis offers insights on leveraging technology for accountability and self-improvement!

Jayson discusses the role of AI in the therapy and coaching space. Will AI replace therapists and coaches? Can it ever be better than a real coach or therapist? What are the downsides of using AI to coach yourself? Stay tuned until the end of the episode to find out how you can thrive—rather than just survive—as a coach or therapist in the age of AI.Timestamps:5:42 - Price point9:10 - Who will lose their jobs?12:53 - What AI can't replace19:24 - AI and intuition23:47 - How should coaches and therapists adapt to AI?Links:Follow Jayson on social media:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

If you want to get the most out of therapy or coaching, it’s important to know how to be a great client. In this episode, Jayson shares his experience of being a client and breaks down how you can make sure you’re getting the results you want. Is it ever okay not to make progress? Learn how to advocate for yourself, prepare for your sessions, stay accountable to friends and family, and much more in this episode!Timestamps:1:40 - Is it okay not to make progress?4:01 - Jayson's story8:51 - How to be a good client15:53 - When to have a frank conversation with your coach or therapistLinks:Follow Jayson on social media:⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Clinical psychologist Alexandra Solomon joins Jayson to offer valuable advice for therapists and coaches. What are the unique challenges of working with men in couples work? How should therapists and coaches manage countertransference? What common issues are individuals bringing to therapy these days? And how can therapists help people most effectively? Find the answers to these questions—and more—in this insightful episode!Timestamps:10:11 - Gendered issues in therapy19:45 - Individuals vs couples therapy26:45 - Countertransference39:23 - Advice for new practitioners Links:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://dralexandrasolomon.com/Follow Jayson on social media:⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

Jayson and Ellen dive into the complexities of teamwork in entrepreneurial couples. They explore how cultural biases toward independence can hinder collaboration. Personal histories shape our ability to connect effectively, and entitlement may block productive partnerships. Differences among team members can actually bolster strength and innovation. The conversation emphasizes the need for shared leadership and emotional healing, encouraging couples to embrace each other's uniqueness for better personal and professional growth.

What’s wrong with going into fix-it mode when someone shares their problems?Jayson explains why it’s better to offer understanding rather than jumping in with solutions—and how people are more likely to come up with their own answers when they feel truly heard.Timestamps:0:03 - What's wrong with "fix-it" mode?3:49 - Reflecting instead of fixing7:08 - Giving people space to come up with their own solutions8:30 - Understanding first, then solutionsLinks:⁠⁠⁠Follow Jayson on social media:⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠

How should you coach someone who wants to be in a successful relationship? Jayson breaks it down. Do you need to have successful relationships yourself to coach effectively? How can you teach your clients the skills they need to develop, and what does that process look like? Don’t miss this insightful episode.Timestamps:0:36 - You have to have successful relationships7:05 - Skill acquisition13:27 - Don't be uncomfortable with intimacy Links:⁠Follow Jayson on social media:⁠Instagram⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠Facebook

Jayson breaks down motivational interviewing. What is it? Can you force your clients to change? What should you do if a client is ambivalent about change? Is your client placing value on the right things? Whether you're a coach or a client, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode.Timestamps:1:50 - Placing value on the right things3:34 - Motivational interviewing5:57 - Ambivalence about change11:37 - You can't force people to changeLinks:Become A Certified Relationship Coach (RCT) Follow Jayson on social media:InstagramYouTubeLinkedInTikTokTwitterFacebook