Relationship Coaching School Podcast Putting the Pieces Together - Jayson Gaddis - 547
Oct 22, 2025
Explore the hallmarks of securely attached families and the role of self-reflection in nurturing their development. Discover how understanding personal narratives aids in forming lasting connections. Gain insights into the importance of therapists modeling self-work to guide clients effectively. Learn about the ongoing journey of meaning-making through life's challenges. Jason highlights the power of collaborative support in overcoming trauma and the impact of frameworks on personal growth.
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Self-Reflection Builds Secure Attachment
- Parents who self-reflect and make meaning raise more securely attached children.
- Self-awareness from examining your past gives you a relationship advantage by reducing unconscious reactivity.
Help Clients Assemble Their Life Puzzle
- Don't just validate a client's daily rant; help them assemble a coherent life picture.
- Guide clients to link past events to current relationship patterns as a collaborative co-explorer.
Childhood Events Explain Adult Strategies
- Jason uses examples like an absent father or valedictorian pressure to show how childhood events shape adult strategies.
- He describes a high-achieving person who buried their heart, causing struggle in adult relationships.