
Relationship Coaching School Podcast
The Relationship Coaching School Podcast is for coaches, therapists, and growth-minded clients who want to master relationships and help their clients master relationships. Hosted by Jayson Gaddis, a world-class coach and trainer, this podcast dives into what sparks real change, what coaching methods actually work, and how to get results in our most important relationships.
Latest episodes

Apr 2, 2025 • 18min
Pros and Cons of Coaching - Jayson Gaddis - 520
Jayson explores the pros and cons of coaching. Is coaching more effective than therapy? He discusses the lack of standards in coaching, the absence of trauma training, and the potential shallowness of the approach. Jayson also examines why prioritizing results over feelings can be problematic. However, he also highlights why coaching can sometimes be a better option than therapy. Why choose coaching? Tune in to find out. Timestamps: 0:57 - A lack of standards 4:26 - Results over feelings 7:47 - Does coaching get better results? 14:10 - Conclusion Links: Become A Certified Relationship Coach (RCT) Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Mar 26, 2025 • 16min
Pros and Cons of Talk Therapy - Jayson Gaddis - 519
Jayson breaks down the pros and cons of talk therapy. Where does talk therapy come up short? What are its strengths? What kind of therapy should you progress to after talk therapy? Why are relationships better than talk therapy? Whether you’re a client, coach, or therapist, you won’t want to miss this insightful episode. Timestamps: 3:13 - Where talk therapy comes up short 5:55 - Positive outcomes of talk therapy 8:33 - Moving on after talk therapy 10:28 - Relationships are better than talk therapy 13:11 - Conclusion Links: Become A Certified Relationship Coach (RCT) Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Mar 19, 2025 • 16min
Your Main Job as a Coach - Jayson Gaddis - 518
What is your main job as a coach? Jayson discusses the importance of giving your clients permission to be messy, finding key relationships where they can be authentic, and providing them with a sense of certainty. He also explains why your ultimate goal as a coach should be to work yourself out of a job. Tune in to discover how to help people authentically be themselves while achieving what they want in life. Timestamps: 4:52 Giving your clients permission to be messy 8:45 Finding key relationships 13:15 Summery Links: Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Mar 12, 2025 • 23min
What It Means to Love Our Clients - Jayson Gaddis - 517
Jayson talks about what it means to truly love a client. What is the real definition of love? Why is being challenged so important? How do we “accept” ourselves and work on being better at the same time? How does accepting our limitations empower us? And why is it crucial not to expect relationships to be easy? Join Jayson as he explores the second principle of present-centered relationship coaching. Timestamps: 1:09 - What is love? 8:25 - Don't expect relationships to be easy 14:53 - Self-acceptance and self-mastery Links: Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Mar 5, 2025 • 17min
The Foundational Principle To Have as a Coach or Therapist - Jayson Gaddis - 516
Jayson shares his #1 principle for coaches and therapists. Learn how to empower your clients instead of treating them as fragile. It’s time to stop missing the forest for the trees and take a broader view. Tune in to discover what powerful phrase he comes from in this episode. Timestamps: 1:10 - Taking a larger view 4:14 - The foundational principle 10:00 - Empower you clients Links: Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Feb 27, 2025 • 25min
How Humans Operate in Relationship - Jayson Gaddis - 515
Explore how humans navigate the complex terrain of relationships and the role of therapy and coaching in this insightful discussion. Delve into why we often betray ourselves in our quest for belonging and the impact of avoiding discomfort. Learn about projection in relationships and the significance of acknowledging our emotional baggage. Discover how confronting trauma can lead to personal growth and how motivational interviewing empowers clients to pursue genuine change.

Feb 19, 2025 • 11min
Big Changes: The Future of This Podcast (for now) - Jayson Gaddis - 514
Big changes are happening at The Relationship School Podcast! In this special update, Jayson Gaddis shares the new direction of the show, now called The Relationship Coaching School Podcast, focusing on coaching, therapy, and transformation. Whether you're a coach, therapist, or an engaged client looking to maximize results, this new format will deepen your understanding of human relationships and personal growth. Plus, Jayson teases an exciting new podcast with his wife, Ellen, and announces updates to his coaching training program—including in-person intensives. Tune in to hear what’s next! Links: Follow Jayson on social media: Instagram YouTube LinkedIn TikTok Twitter Facebook

Oct 1, 2024 • 25min
Bypassing Your Relational Needs - Coaching Session - Jayson Gaddis - 513
Becca, facing the challenge of her partner ignoring her feelings, joins Jayson Gaddis for some enlightening coaching. They tackle what to do when your partner is resistant to relationship help and explore the importance of emotional recognition. Key moments include discussing mutual commitment and the dangers of settling for emotional neglect. Jayson emphasizes that open communication and validation are crucial for overcoming emotional disconnect and building a healthier connection.

Sep 24, 2024 • 28min
How to Increase Your Self Worth - Coaching Session - Jayson Gaddis - 512
In this enlightening coaching session, guest Sharon shares her struggles with self-worth and feelings of inadequacy. Jayson Gaddis dives into how negative narratives can be reshaped, helping Sharon recognize areas where she is enough. They discuss the importance of creating new associations and the impact of past traumas on self-esteem. The conversation emphasizes personal responsibility and the necessity of community support in personal growth, making it an inspiring journey towards self-acceptance.

Sep 17, 2024 • 26min
How to Face an Addiction: Coaching Session - Jayson Gaddis - 511
In this engaging coaching session, Jayson Gaddis, a coach who specializes in addiction recovery, helps Susan confront her compulsive spending habits. They dive into how to distinguish addiction from mere behavior, emphasizing the lack of meaning in life that can fuel compulsive habits. Jayson also explains how healthy relationships can aid in breaking free from addiction. Through practical insights, they explore emotional triggers and the importance of honest communication, providing a roadmap for recovery and deeper connections.