John shares his personal journey regarding sex, intimacy, early experiences, the shame he felt, and what he's learned from them. He also introduces the concept of co-creating intimacy with partners, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual pleasure, adaptability in sexual relationships, and more.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the emotional complexities involved in breakups, including the concept of secondary loss and the importance of understanding one's emotional responses. He also explores the transformative potential of breakups, emphasizing that they can serve as catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses how most of our definitions of love are shaped by external influences leading to a disconnection from our true selves. He also explains how redefining our definitions, through personal experiences and emotional intelligence, will help advocate for a more authentic understanding of love and relationships in our lives. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on his upbringing in a family restaurant, exploring themes of generational trauma, cultural identity, and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's parents' backgrounds, so they can shift towards a more empathetic and responsive approach in the current generation.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of a client's story. He highlights common struggles couples face, and encourages them to co-create their relationship dynamics by moving away from traditional roles to find what works best for them.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John discusses the emotional turmoil of losing not just a marriage but the life he envisioned, and how this experience led him to a path of self-discovery and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding different types of breakups, how they require tailored approaches to healing, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his reflections on gratitude, storytelling, and fitness. He emphasizes the importance of practicing gratitude, embracing one's life story, and discusses how his past experiences, including his divorce, have shaped his current perspective and practices.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John Kim reflects on the importance of authenticity in content creation that was inspired by Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard. He also dives into self-reflection regarding his own discipline, the significance of emotional intelligence, and the need for regular self-check-ins to ensure personal growth and alignment with one's values.Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on childhood experiences, significant life events, and the impact of first impressions, while also discussing themes of sexual curiosity and shame. He also emphasizes the importance of exploring moments without judgment, how courage is often needed in difficult situations, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HEREFollow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about a recent experience at a coffee shop that triggered him. He explores navigating defensiveness in relationships, the importance of personal accountability, and the concept of situationships.Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices